wug wrote:
MasileinDE wrote:
it poses an issue for a whole lot of couples - doesn't mean being a quadripledgic makes it impossible to have a fulfilling sex life - far from it. but it also requires a different view on sex outside from the "he can get a boner and penetrate someone" aspect of it
just to be very blunt about it, this might not be a reason for a bunch of the people saying no, but it definitely is a reason for some people in this world
because yeah, the sexual aspect of the relationship will be different, even if the downstairs equipment is still fully working and it's just the legs as such that don't work anymore
but since many consider sex and additionally sex with disabled people to be so very tabu and forbidden ... it's just not talked about
ah so it's about sex
Klasifikovany wrote:
well, I guess for a few people it does affect their ability for sexual performance and that can be a downfall for a relationship when all of a sudden the sexual needs and desires can't be met and fulfilled anymoreautism wrote:
i'm confused why would it be over
same, it's just the lower half of the body i'm confused why would it be over
it poses an issue for a whole lot of couples - doesn't mean being a quadripledgic makes it impossible to have a fulfilling sex life - far from it. but it also requires a different view on sex outside from the "he can get a boner and penetrate someone" aspect of it
just to be very blunt about it, this might not be a reason for a bunch of the people saying no, but it definitely is a reason for some people in this world
because yeah, the sexual aspect of the relationship will be different, even if the downstairs equipment is still fully working and it's just the legs as such that don't work anymore
but since many consider sex and additionally sex with disabled people to be so very tabu and forbidden ... it's just not talked about