Yoko wrote:
i dont really understand separating romance and sexuality
they go together , whether you have a low/no sex drive or not, theyre integrally linked and unless you have 0 romantic attraction and 0 interest in or response to physical sensual touch, you have a sexuality no matter how little part it has in your life
im convinced oversexualisation and pornification of society is just making people feel outcast when they dont live up to the horny porno stereotype thats integrated all forms of media, leaving them feel that theres something missing or that they dont have a sexuality when in fact their sexuality and drive is extremely normal, and the pornified mass exemplar is the one thats out of the ordinary
ok im just ranting here i dont know the answer to ur problem