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Medusa wrote:

If I was on a break with my boyfriend for a long time, and then he decided to take my name off his profile (hits different lmao) and say he doesn't want to meet me again and he dumped my ass

and i fell for the same guy i was talking to a year ago, because he was always there for me during that and when i had panic attacks etc. pretty quickly after i got dumped?

cuz i really sorta got treated like absolute trash
and i still feel something for my ex but then again i don't but i do?
but i like the other dude more now cuz he treated me as my bf should've treated me?

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wug wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

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Medusa wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

i'm sorry lmao

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Medusa wrote:

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Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

i'm sorry lmao

tried to make it easier to read

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wug wrote:

Nami wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

i'm sorry lmao

tried to make it easier to read

im very confused hopefully someone with a brain unlike me 😳😳😳😳 enters the thread and helps u!! 🥺❤️

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emogirrrl123 wrote:
No. You don't have to start anything serious with him right away though. He probably knows that this is a hard time for you too and if he's a good guy, he will respect that you need your time. But ahh shit man, do you really like this dude or do you just like him because he offered/offers you a shoulder to cry on?

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Gvaudoin wrote:
No. You don't have to start anything serious with him right away though. He probably knows that this is a hard time for you too and if he's a good guy, he will respect that you need your time. But ahh shit man, do you really like this dude or do you just like him because he offered/offers you a shoulder to cry on?

This is gonna sound pathetic
but I've liked him since I met him for the first time lmao. I kind of forgot about him and took my distance because I respected my relationship, and we didn't talk that much so I didn't really have like strong feelings, tho I cared about him.

But now I've been spending more time with him and I've had more fun that I've had in a long time. And all my feelings just came right back ;-;

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Medusa wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Nami wrote:

Nami wrote:
i'm sorry lmao

tried to make it easier to read

im very confused hopefully someone with a brain unlike me 😳😳😳😳 enters the thread and helps u!! 🥺❤️

lmaoo
thank u anyways <3

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Reaper wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

Omg literally same(@_@)

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emogirrrl123 wrote:

Nami wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:
No. You don't have to start anything serious with him right away though. He probably knows that this is a hard time for you too and if he's a good guy, he will respect that you need your time. But ahh shit man, do you really like this dude or do you just like him because he offered/offers you a shoulder to cry on?

This is gonna sound pathetic
but I've liked him since I met him for the first time lmao. I kind of forgot about him and took my distance because I respected my relationship, and we didn't talk that much so I didn't really have like strong feelings, tho I cared about him.

But now I've been spending more time with him and I've had more fun that I've had in a long time. And all my feelings just came right back ;-;

Awsh. Sounds like he means a lot for you. But still, honestly, take it slow if you want something with him. I get that all those old feelings are coming back now and he clearly is an important person for you, but don't rush into anything while you're still healing from this breakup. It's generally speaking not the best idea

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emogirrrl123 wrote:

Vissy wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

Omg literally same(@_@)

She was on a break with her bf for a long time and they broke up eventually. Her bf treated her badly. Before the relationship, she was talking to another guy she liked but decided to stop that to protect her relationship. This other guy treated her good and was there for her, like her bf should have. Now, after the breakup, she has started talking to this good guy again and is catching feelings for him. She's wondering, if this makes her a bad person as she still has some feelings for her ex as well. However, she likes this good guy more

Idk if I got it right

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Medusa wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:

Vissy wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

Omg literally same(@_@)

She was on a break with her bf for a long time and they broke up eventually. Her bf treated her badly. Before the relationship, she was talking to another guy she liked but decided to stop that to protect her relationship. This other guy treated her good and was there for her, like her bf should have. Now, after the breakup, she has started talking to this good guy again and is catching feelings for him. She's wondering, if this makes her a bad person as she still has some feelings for her ex as well. However, she likes this good guy more

Idk if I got it right

u got it right, thank you ^^
I'm bad at explaining stuff haha

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Medusa wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:

Nami wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:
No. You don't have to start anything serious with him right away though. He probably knows that this is a hard time for you too and if he's a good guy, he will respect that you need your time. But ahh shit man, do you really like this dude or do you just like him because he offered/offers you a shoulder to cry on?

This is gonna sound pathetic
but I've liked him since I met him for the first time lmao. I kind of forgot about him and took my distance because I respected my relationship, and we didn't talk that much so I didn't really have like strong feelings, tho I cared about him.

But now I've been spending more time with him and I've had more fun that I've had in a long time. And all my feelings just came right back ;-;

Awsh. Sounds like he means a lot for you. But still, honestly, take it slow if you want something with him. I get that all those old feelings are coming back now and he clearly is an important person for you, but don't rush into anything while you're still healing from this breakup. It's generally speaking not the best idea

Yea, I'm aware that it might not go well if I rush. I do care about him a lot and he is very important to me, but I know I need to heal first, I haven't been in a very good condition after the break up, because a lot of stuff happened to me that is not okay, and I am still hurt. However, it feels good to have someone who is still there for me, and understands.

He also is kind of aware of my feelings, and he said to me that it's okay if I need space or that if I feel uncomfortable with something, we don't need to do it. It's kind of been late night walks, hugs and a looot of talking.

But thank you for the support <3

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emogirrrl123 wrote:

Nami wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:

Nami wrote:
This is gonna sound pathetic
but I've liked him since I met him for the first time lmao. I kind of forgot about him and took my distance because I respected my relationship, and we didn't talk that much so I didn't really have like strong feelings, tho I cared about him.

But now I've been spending more time with him and I've had more fun that I've had in a long time. And all my feelings just came right back ;-;

Awsh. Sounds like he means a lot for you. But still, honestly, take it slow if you want something with him. I get that all those old feelings are coming back now and he clearly is an important person for you, but don't rush into anything while you're still healing from this breakup. It's generally speaking not the best idea

Yea, I'm aware that it might not go well if I rush. I do care about him a lot and he is very important to me, but I know I need to heal first, I haven't been in a very good condition after the break up, because a lot of stuff happened to me that is not okay, and I am still hurt. However, it feels good to have someone who is still there for me, and understands.

He also is kind of aware of my feelings, and he said to me that it's okay if I need space or that if I feel uncomfortable with something, we don't need to do it. It's kind of been late night walks, hugs and a looot of talking.

But thank you for the support <3

That sounds good. You're both aware what's going on and he treats you as he should. That's a good start for whatever this might become

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Reaper wrote:

Gvaudoin wrote:

Vissy wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:
i can read all the words separate but the combination makes my brain ????? 😳😳😳

Omg literally same(@_@)

She was on a break with her bf for a long time and they broke up eventually. Her bf treated her badly. Before the relationship, she was talking to another guy she liked but decided to stop that to protect her relationship. This other guy treated her good and was there for her, like her bf should have. Now, after the breakup, she has started talking to this good guy again and is catching feelings for him. She's wondering, if this makes her a bad person as she still has some feelings for her ex as well. However, she likes this good guy more

Idk if I got it right

Aaah okay now o understand thanks boo

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Limbs wrote:
why were you guys on a break?