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Medusa wrote:

Today I took a nap and woke up to the sound of my ex dropping my key into my mail. He left all of my stuff at my door and I picked it up and started sobbing because of all the memories and the fact that my scrunchie I got once and he always used, smells like him.

and I'm out here sobbing alone and lost all my motivation for everything.

I even drew megumin for him. and never got the chance to give it to him. bleh

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It's okay to grieve over things you lose. Better get it out than bottling it up. Take care of yourself, okay?

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Rotte wrote:
Not pathetic thought, it's understanding it's an emotional and draining thing to break up.

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Ella wrote:
Not pathetic thought, it's understanding it's an emotional and draining thing to break up.

But the fact that I think it hurts me more-

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Medusa wrote:

Nesta wrote:
It's okay to grieve over things you lose. Better get it out than bottling it up. Take care of yourself, okay?

I dunno how to take care of myself anymore I haven't done that in a long time.

And the only person who was there for me during this IGNORED ME. Love my life

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Ella wrote:
Not pathetic thought, it's understanding it's an emotional and draining thing to break up.

But the fact that I think it hurts me more-

Might sound harsh, but when u have gotten the thing, there is no bond to him anymore. Which can hurt! If u have already worked on moving on, this might be a set back a bit but keep going!

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luminescence wrote:
have you experienced other breakups in the past? if yes, can you remember how you eventually got over it?

breakups are hard and i've experienced two, though neither of them really hurt me because 1st breakup i was so young i hadn't even developed proper feelings for the guy, and 2nd breakup was my suggestion because i didn't feel anything towards him anymore (and it was the same other way around so no one was hurt by the decision)

so i really can't tell from experience how to deal with someone breaking up on you.... i'm sorry, wish i knew how to help :c if you ever want to vent (even if it's in finnish), feel free to msg me <3

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Medusa wrote:

luminescence wrote:
have you experienced other breakups in the past? if yes, can you remember how you eventually got over it?

breakups are hard and i've experienced two, though neither of them really hurt me because 1st breakup i was so young i hadn't even developed proper feelings for the guy, and 2nd breakup was my suggestion because i didn't feel anything towards him anymore (and it was the same other way around so no one was hurt by the decision)

so i really can't tell from experience how to deal with someone breaking up on you.... i'm sorry, wish i knew how to help :c if you ever want to vent (even if it's in finnish), feel free to msg me <3

I only got over my first ex because he mentally abused me and said that he's going to leave me because of my depression. (There wasn't a problem with the relationship) and I completely lost trust because he said he would never leave me for that.
This was my second break up, and the first person I have actually loved this much, and he was the closest person to me, knew everything about me.

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SweetLapis wrote:
That's not being pathetic, it's called being human.
You have a heart and people who you love, and it's hard to be okay with someone exiting out of our lives.
Breakup's are never easy to accept, but it's not impossible to move on from them.
Anyways, I hope you are doing well, and never bottle up how you feel. It just makes things worse.