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Arsinoe wrote:
okay so I'm having a real hard day, my boyfriend is trying to cut his snuff use cause he is addicted and I don't like what is does to him. If he is short he will act like a totally different person and be angry and just cruel. So i decided to give him an ultimatum me or the snuff

he is on day 2 of cutting it and he has been so angry all morning yelling at me, throwing stuff, crying, screaming etc. I don't know what to do. I'm trying to be calm and help him but truly i don't know what I'm doing. I bought all his favorite things from the store and he says he can't eat anything.

If this keeps going I'm not sure how much longer I can take it. I truly hope he will be better tomorrow. He is more calm after i gave him some pain killers for his headache, but I am scared he will have another episode later. I feel so helpless.
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:14
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withdrawal is very hard to do by yourself, you should get him professional help.
Date: 20-06-2020 11:20
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Rotte wrote:
It's snus right? 
It's good to know he wanna stop this for u first off, second it's really hard to stop addictions, as hard as it is, please hang onto it, because I'm sure it gets better than this! The first week/weeks are the hardest.
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I would say educate yourself on how qutting addictions is being experienced by the person doing it, how to be supportive and set boundaries, communicate properly - safely. Get him a docotors appointment if needed. 
Date: 20-06-2020 11:21
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
its something he needs to handle
not up to you to ease it for him. you can’t, it chemical
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:21
Arsinoe
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Heaven wrote:
withdrawal is very hard to do by yourself, you should get him professional help.
how? He refuses to see anyone
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:21
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
Ella wrote:
It's snus right? 
It's good to know he wanna stop this for u first off, second it's really hard to stop addictions, as hard as it is, please hang onto it, because I'm sure it gets better than this! The first week/weeks are the hardest.
Yes it is and I'm happy he wanna stop for me. I'm just scared that he can't
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:22
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murdurur wrote:
Bruh he sounds like trash.. i cant believe how badly hes acting out
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:22
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Arsinoe wrote:
Heaven wrote:
withdrawal is very hard to do by yourself, you should get him professional help.
how? He refuses to see anyone
try to make him understand or else you'll have to endure that for a while
Date: 20-06-2020 11:23
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Arsinoe wrote:
Nesta wrote:
I would say educate yourself on how qutting addictions is being experienced by the person doing it, how to be supportive and set boundaries, communicate properly - safely. Get him a docotors appointment if needed. 
His doctor is a 2 hours bus drive away and doesn't respond to his messages... I know it can be hard since both my mom and grandma has quit smoking. I remember my mom was very irritated when she stopped
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:23
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Arsinoe wrote:
siXsiXsiX wrote:
its something he needs to handle
not up to you to ease it for him. you can’t, it chemical
I know, but I feel like since it's for my sake, I need to help him
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:24
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Arsinoe wrote:
murdurur wrote:
Bruh he sounds like trash.. i cant believe how badly hes acting out
He has been acting really different lately even before he stopped, he is just generally more angry and annoyed and idk what to do
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:24
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murdurur wrote:
Quitting snus is also perfectly doable without professional help, its not like its heroin or something. I think youre being too kind to him. Maybe its better to just leave him alone to figure it out if he cant behave himself.

And i also dont think snus is supposed to make people act like assholes, like i mean chances are he just kind of is an asshole.
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:25
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Heaven wrote:
withdrawal is very hard to do by yourself, you should get him professional help.
how? He refuses to see anyone
try to make him understand or else you'll have to endure that for a while
I have been trying to get him to see a therapist for his stress and depression for months and even had other people weigh in with how it's not as bad as he thinks. He thinks it's embarrassing, which it is not.
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:25
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
murdurur wrote:
Quitting snus is also perfectly doable without professional help, its not like its heroin or something. I think youre being too kind to him. Maybe its better to just leave him alone to figure it out if he cant behave himself.

And i also dont think snus is supposed to make people act like assholes, like i mean chances are he just kind of is an asshole.
well we live together in a small apartment so it's kinda hard

he wasn't like this before tho, we've been together for 8 months or smth
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:26
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murdurur wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
how? He refuses to see anyone
try to make him understand or else you'll have to endure that for a while
I have been trying to get him to see a therapist for his stress and depression for months and even had other people weigh in with how it's not as bad as he thinks. He thinks it's embarrassing, which it is not.
I think his mental health is a much more likely reason for why hes being like that. Maybe quitting snus isnt a great idea rn. 
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Date: 20-06-2020 11:27
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