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isn't it so annoying when ppl try to play the victim after hurting ppl?i see this all the time with ppl trying to justify their shitty behavior by using some lame excuses... like i've seen actual bullies to do all the time. playing the victim after they got caught bulling instead of owning up to it. this is also very common with pedophiles, they'll try to justify them touching kids  by saying they were touched themselves or something like WHAT??

another example is oneeseeon claiming he was raped by one of his alleged victims.... (sarah) like pls. can we stop playing victims it's rly annoying and pathetic.
Date: 05-07-2020 09:47
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my favorite type of apologizes r the ones who do NOT try to find excuses for themselves n only apoligize for what they did wrong n don't expect to be forgiven. like that's genuine 2 me

im not into apologizing only as a way to damange-control like you're not actually sorry, ur just sorry u got caught. this is happening too much in the yt community as an example.
Date: 05-07-2020 09:50 | Times changed: 1
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:14
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Raquelle wrote:
yes it obviously fucking sucks
and is so common too
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:19
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Yeha
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:23
Hajime
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Hajime wrote:
what the fuck ? did onision really say that?
thats just so fucking wrong and sick
doing this hurts the victim so much more

even bully victims or victims of abuse of any kind bc it makes them the bad gay
it kind of happened to me too? so im just afraid to be like mad or confront someone to what they did hurt me because they would just turn it around and blame me and say they r the victim and what I did hurt them even more etc etc

its fucked, i hade manipulators like that its so fucking frustrating to talk to people like that
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:27
Hajime
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Puftoss wrote:
my favorite type of apologizes r the ones who do NOT try to find excuses for themselves n only apoligize for what they did wrong n don't expect to be forgiven. like that's genuine 2 me

im not into apologizing only as a way to damange-control like you're not actually sorry, ur just sorry u got caught. this is happening too much in the yt community as an example.
YEAH EXACTLY
i hate when someone apologized "im sorry IF i offended u" or like "im sorry my words hurt u, i was just joking but u took it seriously, its not my fault im really sorry" like thats not an apology to me ? they should acknowledge the problem and do better, but meaningless apologies r so annoying, esp when they continue to do it
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:28
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Hajime wrote:
what the fuck ? did onision really say that?
thats just so fucking wrong and sick
doing this hurts the victim so much more

even bully victims or victims of abuse of any kind bc it makes them the bad gay
it kind of happened to me too? so im just afraid to be like mad or confront someone to what they did hurt me because they would just turn it around and blame me and say they r the victim and what I did hurt them even more etc etc

its fucked, i hade manipulators like that its so fucking frustrating to talk to people like that
yeah, according to him sarah raped him and his wife in a 3some. imagine being a real victim of rape hearing that! gross

uggghhh i hate that so much like ppl who play the victim always wanna turn the actual victim into the bad person. like someone can bully another person but if that person actually stands up to themselves n confronts them suddenly the bully becomes the victim n starts crying like they werent the one hurting ppl? like what ?
Date: 05-07-2020 15:37
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Hajime wrote:
Puftoss wrote:
my favorite type of apologizes r the ones who do NOT try to find excuses for themselves n only apoligize for what they did wrong n don't expect to be forgiven. like that's genuine 2 me

im not into apologizing only as a way to damange-control like you're not actually sorry, ur just sorry u got caught. this is happening too much in the yt community as an example.
YEAH EXACTLY
i hate when someone apologized "im sorry IF i offended u" or like "im sorry my words hurt u, i was just joking but u took it seriously, its not my fault im really sorry" like thats not an apology to me ? they should acknowledge the problem and do better, but meaningless apologies r so annoying, esp when they continue to do it
excactly!!!! and also ppl who hurt others and then expect forgiveness just because they said the words sorry? like thats not how it works... get ur head out of ur @ss n realize that this isnt about u. its about the ppl u hurt. its up to them if they want to  move on and forgive u. like u cant turn it around and b like "well UR the bad person if u dont forgive me for all the hurtful things i did" like no honey thats not how it works

im also tired of manipulative ppl. they suck so much
Date: 05-07-2020 15:39
MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:
as if people ever truly wanted to own their mistakes
takes a lot of character to be able to say you are flawed and let's face it, barely anyone has that
because the graver your mistake, the more probable you'll lose every social standing you ever had
people don't want to give that up
that's what makes it so easy to find excuses - hoping people will let themselves manipulated
and as it's in the human nature to always hope for the best and the better outcome, people are prone to believe it
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:48
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Aphrodite wrote:
ur threads are very interesting to read; also, i agree with u on this one. I lost a friend because she was being a victim everytime we fought, but i feel happier without her so it's fine.
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Date: 05-07-2020 15:50
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scoff wrote:
Uhm to be fair, Onision shouldn't even be used as an example of anything that normal people would ever do because Onision is... FUCKED?! God, I read up on him a while ago and it's not just his cringy videos and all that shit, he should actually be in fucking prison.
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Date: 05-07-2020 17:47
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AtlantaG1912 wrote:
i had someone on here apolgise by starting the message with YOUR THE GIRL WHO CAUSED ALL MY PROBLEMS.

All i did was notice they were a new person and asked if they wanted any clothes from my wardrobe didn't give me a chance to say they were free before she kicked completely off and started causing problems for me xx
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Date: 05-07-2020 17:52
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Aphrodite wrote:
ur threads are very interesting to read; also, i agree with u on this one. I lost a friend because she was being a victim everytime we fought, but i feel happier without her so it's fine.
thats good bec u dont need ppl like that in ur life. ppl who cant take responsibility for anything r such a pain to deal with. im glad ur bvetter without her
Date: 05-07-2020 18:17
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scoff wrote:
Uhm to be fair, Onision shouldn't even be used as an example of anything that normal people would ever do because Onision is... FUCKED?! God, I read up on him a while ago and it's not just his cringy videos and all that shit, he should actually be in fucking prison.
hahahahaha ur totally right. he's not a good example of good behavoir that's for sure
Date: 05-07-2020 18:18
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AtlantaG1912 wrote:
i had someone on here apolgise by starting the message with YOUR THE GIRL WHO CAUSED ALL MY PROBLEMS.

All i did was notice they were a new person and asked if they wanted any clothes from my wardrobe didn't give me a chance to say they were free before she kicked completely off and started causing problems for me xx
how r00d

what new player would say no to free stuff. she must've misunderstood u somehow
Date: 05-07-2020 18:18
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