Hajime wrote:Puftoss wrote:
my favorite type of apologizes r the ones who do NOT try to find excuses for themselves n only apoligize for what they did wrong n don't expect to be forgiven. like that's genuine 2 me
im not into apologizing only as a way to damange-control like you're not actually sorry, ur just sorry u got caught. this is happening too much in the yt community as an example.
YEAH EXACTLY
i hate when someone apologized "im sorry IF i offended u" or like "im sorry my words hurt u, i was just joking but u took it seriously, its not my fault im really sorry" like thats not an apology to me ? they should acknowledge the problem and do better, but meaningless apologies r so annoying, esp when they continue to do it
excactly!!!! and also ppl who hurt others and then expect forgiveness just because they said the words sorry? like thats not how it works... get ur head out of ur @ss n realize that this isnt about u. its about the ppl u hurt. its up to them if they want to move on and forgive u. like u cant turn it around and b like "well UR the bad person if u dont forgive me for all the hurtful things i did" like no honey thats not how it works