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Melk wrote:
Bc u r old enough to think critically and have life experience yourself I think it’s good
as long as u don’t try to “reach” or “catch up” whit him
it can be easy for older people in relationships to manipulate the younger one, so u have to do some critical thinking for sure
it seems like u r questioning it now so i guess you’re on the right track
always ask yourself why someone as “old” as him would be interested in someone younger

very well said

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kruspersille wrote:
does he have kids

No kids

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cobain wrote:
And yes yall are right about that it's easier to manipulate younger girls, what would he see in me etc and that's what I'm thinking of when I worry about his age LOL.
I mean how can I know for sure he's not some dumbfuck who's just preying on young girls?? He sure doesn't seem like one, never has for the 6 months I've known him lol, but then again I want him so maybe I'm just fooling myself.
Let's just say.... Compared to that 35yo I saw for a while recently, uhh yeah lots of differences there. That dude was Def shady as hell and I knew it lol. Red flags all over. This good dude however.... Nothing. Absolutely no red flags whatsoever. I mean we talk about fucking everything and we share opinions abt how it should be in a relationship etc, he's just SANE idk how to explain it. Also all of his ex gfs are his age so he's not creeping on young girls on the regular. He might not even be into me u know

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No.

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Precious wrote:
you’re both over legal age i see no issue

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rottomilko wrote:

cobain wrote:
And yes yall are right about that it's easier to manipulate younger girls, what would he see in me etc and that's what I'm thinking of when I worry about his age LOL.
I mean how can I know for sure he's not some dumbfuck who's just preying on young girls?? He sure doesn't seem like one, never has for the 6 months I've known him lol, but then again I want him so maybe I'm just fooling myself.
Let's just say.... Compared to that 35yo I saw for a while recently, uhh yeah lots of differences there. That dude was Def shady as hell and I knew it lol. Red flags all over. This good dude however.... Nothing. Absolutely no red flags whatsoever. I mean we talk about fucking everything and we share opinions abt how it should be in a relationship etc, he's just SANE idk how to explain it. Also all of his ex gfs are his age so he's not creeping on young girls on the regular. He might not even be into me u know

ofc u never know for sure
but it’s great that you don’t see any red flags compared to the «35yo» and that you keep your eyes up for them
just continiue doing that
and it might be an idea asking him about his views on dating someone younger and why if something actually happens between u guys

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As someone who ends to fall for celebrities in the 60-70 years old range...

Do what your heart desires !! Haters are going to hate, most of them are just uneducated about what it's like and don't know what they're talking about.
I'd never judge a couple with a big age gap - that would be hypocritical of me
Good luck

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Claire wrote:

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He do be looking younger tho... I remember when he told me his age and I was like???? Excuse me what??
He looks maybe 30? Anyways he gets that a lot apparently. Not that it changes his actual age tho. But he's quite young in his whole idk personality? Manners? Not immature LOL quite the opposite, but just? Young in some fuckin way

I shouldn't even talk abt this, I'm making my crush real by talking about it and uhhh damn. Like the ONLY reason this is fucking me up is his age. And oh yeah also cuz idk what the fuck he's feeling but oh well

when I asked out doug i thought he was maybe four years older than me. he looks young imo. or maybe i just literally cannot tell how old someone is from looking at them.

literally i was .. 24? at the time and he would have been 34. we didn't start actually dating until i was 25.

but i remember i asked him to hang out and i literally lmao i literally said to my friend 'fuck i dont even know this guy- what if he's like 30?'' lmao and my friend was like 'okay? what if he's 30, claire?' lmao

like i would not have asked him out if i knew he was that much older than me. and he was really uncomfortable with the age gap like i asked him out and we saw a movie and went to fucking steak and shake after and he was like 'how old are you' and he looked fuckin terrified lmao straight up tho this man didnt beleive me when i said 24.

we didnt hang out for a while after that first date cause i was like man fuck that i asked him out and we went out and if he doesnt hit me up after that he doesnt like me whatever. but then my dumbass literally texted him like five months later like 'hey where can i get weed in this town i dont wanna drive up to joliet' and we hung out a couple times and then like the fifth time we hung out we slept together and straight up this man says to me 'are you really 25?' and im like yes i am 25. and hes like 'idk u kinda look young for 25 and youre in college' and im like good god man here is my state issued identification i was born in 1990 and i graduated high school in 2008 and i remember 9/11 and you a sicko cause u just fucked me and THEN double checked my age lmaooooooooo

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Claire wrote:

cobain wrote:
He do be looking younger tho... I remember when he told me his age and I was like???? Excuse me what??
He looks maybe 30? Anyways he gets that a lot apparently. Not that it changes his actual age tho. But he's quite young in his whole idk personality? Manners? Not immature LOL quite the opposite, but just? Young in some fuckin way

I shouldn't even talk abt this, I'm making my crush real by talking about it and uhhh damn. Like the ONLY reason this is fucking me up is his age. And oh yeah also cuz idk what the fuck he's feeling but oh well

when I asked out doug i thought he was maybe four years older than me. he looks young imo. or maybe i just literally cannot tell how old someone is from looking at them.

literally i was .. 24? at the time and he would have been 34. we didn't start actually dating until i was 25.

but i remember i asked him to hang out and i literally lmao i literally said to my friend 'fuck i dont even know this guy- what if he's like 30?'' lmao and my friend was like 'okay? what if he's 30, claire?' lmao

like i would not have asked him out if i knew he was that much older than me. and he was really uncomfortable with the age gap like i asked him out and we saw a movie and went to fucking steak and shake after and he was like 'how old are you' and he looked fuckin terrified lmao straight up tho this man didnt beleive me when i said 24.

we didnt hang out for a while after that first date cause i was like man fuck that i asked him out and we went out and if he doesnt hit me up after that he doesnt like me whatever. but then my dumbass literally texted him like five months later like 'hey where can i get weed in this town i dont wanna drive up to joliet' and we hung out a couple times and then like the fifth time we hung out we slept together and straight up this man says to me 'are you really 25?' and im like yes i am 25. and hes like 'idk u kinda look young for 25 and youre in college' and im like good god man here is my state issued identification i was born in 1990 and i graduated high school in 2008 and i remember 9/11 and you a sicko cause u just fucked me and THEN double checked my age lmaooooooooo

literally layin naked in bed with this man and hes like 'are u really 25' lmao fuck you creep.

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Claire wrote:
oh god he just texted me its like he knew i was trash talking him hes saying he bought me soemthing at the store lmao now i feel bad

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Claire wrote:
if older dudes would just stop being so sexy life would be easier

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cobain wrote:

Claire wrote:
if older dudes would just stop being so sexy life would be easier

I'm not even into older guys normally : ////
But honestly u and ur bf seem to have a good af relationship and I didn't even know he was that much older than u lol giving me hope

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cobain wrote:
Oh right we're also coworkers hehe... We were on the exact same schedule n working together but then our boss was like "no fuck u" and separated us and he'll be fired in October so Ya know. Apparently there's LOTS of rumors that we are a couple gngkkh. Idk our other coworkers see how we are with each other so it's that I guess, we just vibe rly well and have fun lol. That's not why he's getting fired tho, my bosses AND coworkers are just cunts honestly. But it's probably the reason why we're being separated at work now the last months even tho I told them we're not a couple but oh well

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cobain wrote:
This weekend he told me he was gonna clean up his apartment so I can come to his place too. He said he hasn't had anyone over in over a year and that he's just not had many ppl over generally the last couple of years. Ever since he became drug free n clean he's seen his apartment as his own private space bc before when he was all up in the drugs there was a lot of ppl going in and out and all that. But he wants me to come over :')
And yesterday we went to his parents place even tho he's not allowed to bring anyone LOL that's also a rule from his junkie days that still applies, but he could bring me :')

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Claire wrote:

cobain wrote:

Claire wrote:
if older dudes would just stop being so sexy life would be easier

I'm not even into older guys normally : ////
But honestly u and ur bf seem to have a good af relationship and I didn't even know he was that much older than u lol giving me hope

the age gap has been one of our biggest hurdles. im not gonna sit here and be like oh its easy. like a lot of our fights early on in the relationship in some way boiled down to 'because you are ten years different'

and like he didnt watch spongebob growing up?????? and im always referencing spongebob and he doesnt know wtf im talking about????

this is satire but literally

How to Stop Worrying About Florence Pugh Having to Explain Memes to Zach Braffon god that shit resonates with me and its been really hard you know.

and straight up theres a lot of creepy dudes out there too. like i think its dangerous to date a guy that like... seeks out younger women??? like a guy thats always dating young girls is probably tryna get in on someone he can groom and manipulate.

like the fact that doug was so uncomfortable with the age gap early on made me think it was fine lmao. he kind of handed me a LOT of power by showing me that the age gap made him uncomfortable.

like be wary if a guy is like excited to date you BECAUSE you're young. with me and doug it was like he watned to be with me DESPITE the fact that i was so young.