Lornas127 wrote:
I would love to get married - not for spiritual reasons for cultural.
I would love a time were we are surrounded by everyone we love who is able to make it and celebrate our love together.
W are a very fair couple, always split bills and respect the shit out of each other so it would no way feel like a patriarchal custom forced against us - just our decision for our love.
I was almost proposed to by my mentally hurtful ex, he showed me the ring he bought after we broke up to show that i should be with him - I would say no knowing he never respected me
but my current boyfriend is different, it wouldn't matter if we got married or not but its something we are both up for. It feels real, how he loves and respects me, I could see a wedding with him in the future (like 5-10 years haha we are only 21 and 22)
So really what im saying is yes I would get married - because being with him made me want to.