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Solar wrote:
a while ago i opened a topic asking if i should break up with my gf. now we broke up. 
the reasons i wanted to break up with her was bc i didn't feel like i loved her anymore as a partner, but more as a friend. she didn't trust me, didn't like it when i went to hang out with friends, she couldn't be alone and we fought a lot. 

now that we actually broke up, my feelings are all over the place. im really doubting if i made the right choice. i'm fucking scared to lose her. i miss her, i want to talk to her and i just want to cuddle with her. the strange thing is, for about a month or so these were all things i did not want to do. i wanted time apart, i got annoyed whenever she would call me. and now its like my feelings changed in just one day. and i dont know what to do lmao.

does anyone have any advice?
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:21
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ouch wrote:
It be like that, but it goes away after a while
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:24
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Coralin wrote:
don't go back to her.
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:27
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Solar wrote:
Coralin wrote:
don't go back to her.
but what if i made a mistake breaking up with her?
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:38
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Coralin wrote:
Conqueror wrote:
Coralin wrote:
don't go back to her.
but what if i made a mistake breaking up with her?
what if u r gonna doubt your feelings yet again and end up breaking up w her again
ndndd
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:39
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luminescence wrote:
That kinda happened to me too

In 2016 I was in a dull relationship and my feelings for the guy died. We stayed in the relationship for about 2 more months, I tried to fix things and fall in love with him again but nope, I felt nothing towards him. We broke up, didn’t talk for half a year. Then one day I started regretting, and thinking ”what if I made a huge mistake?” Met the guy again and remembered why I wanted to break up in the first place. 

I don’t know what your relationship was like, but if breaking up felt like the best choice, it probably was.
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:39
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No trust = no go

Take your time and move on using healthy coming mechanisms of your choice - don't hurry, try to take it day by day. Craft/paint/write diaries/draw/write stories or something else which distracts you in a healthy way
Date: 15-07-2020 11:42
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Chocolata wrote:
The same happened to me, I doubted my relationship from the very beginning and in the end my bad feelings turned out to be true. It hurts like hell for the first month at least but do yourself the favor and grieve your lost relationship but also think of ways to become happier with yourself.
It's normal that you think you still have feelings for her after breaking up, it was the same for me. You need time apart from her and spent with yourself to see if it really is love or just infatuation.
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:42
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Kino wrote:
it’s probably a normal feeling, but what you shouldn’t do is go back to her. do not. there’s a reason you felt like you did and i think whatever choice you make you’re gonna wonder if you made the wrong one. be confident in yourself and remember the breakup wasn’t spontaneous. you thought it through. and you made the choice you felt was right.

missing someone is fine, completely normal. but just let yourself heal, don’t reopen the wound by going back
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:44
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octocat wrote:
It's totally normal to feel that way, but trust your initial gut feeling of why you wanted to break up. In my experience the feeling of doubt is caused bc you're so used to the routine of having them in your life. And even if your not in love with that person anymore, the routine was safe. 

So just give it time, allow yourself to go through your emotions, but remember your gut feeling and the feeling that made you want to leave in the first place <3
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:50
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Solar wrote:
thanks guys ;w;
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Date: 15-07-2020 11:56
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