Im 18 and moved in February to anothe village - Forum

Raphaelx
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Raphaelx wrote:
And I just don’t have any friends here.
I only have school friends from my school in my previous “city”, but also then I didn’t had any neighbor friends (probably because we didn’t had any kids around my age in the streets and nobody really came outside?).

But now I’m moved, turned 18, it is holiday, I just want friends that are between 16-19 or something to just play card games, outdoor games and hanging around (without just any smoking or energy drink and loud as hell shitty music).

But I don’t have any work here, don’t go here to school yet (first I’m gonna graduate for my HAVO on my current school and then I’m gonna for VWO on the school here).

And like I don’t know how to make friends with the same vibe because nowadays people only wannabe “gangsters”

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Moongirl wrote:
"without energy drink"

whaaat

but anyway do you have any hobbies?

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Raphaelx wrote:

Moongirl wrote:
"without energy drink"

whaaat

but anyway do you have any hobbies?

I mean like, just vibing, mostly people going out to drink and smoking if you know what I mean.

Photography, photoshop, I played volleybal before surgery and moving, but I want to start again when I start here at school (I need to travel 1 hour to go to school, and back too, so it cost a lot of time).
I like writing, singing (even I can’t haha), making music (in GarageBand but idc).
And I like playing games, like card games and outdoor games.

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Moongirl wrote:

Raphaelx wrote:

Moongirl wrote:
"without energy drink"

whaaat

but anyway do you have any hobbies?

I mean like, just vibing, mostly people going out to drink and smoking if you know what I mean.

Photography, photoshop, I played volleybal before surgery and moving, but I want to start again when I start here at school (I need to travel 1 hour to go to school, and back too, so it cost a lot of time).
I like writing, singing (even I can’t haha), making music (in GarageBand but idc).
And I like playing games, like card games and outdoor games.

have you tried to look up if there is any photography class/group/club things near you, or any youth activity? you might get friends from there.

Raphaelx
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Raphaelx wrote:

Moongirl wrote:

Raphaelx wrote:

Moongirl wrote:
"without energy drink"

whaaat

but anyway do you have any hobbies?

I mean like, just vibing, mostly people going out to drink and smoking if you know what I mean.

Photography, photoshop, I played volleybal before surgery and moving, but I want to start again when I start here at school (I need to travel 1 hour to go to school, and back too, so it cost a lot of time).
I like writing, singing (even I can’t haha), making music (in GarageBand but idc).
And I like playing games, like card games and outdoor games.

have you tried to look up if there is any photography class/group/club things near you, or any youth activity? you might get friends from there.

As far as I know there aren’t, only sport clubs.
I rarely see any youth with a camera, only did once btw. I tried to look up at Instagram under the “place” function, but never found.
But I also wondering always if I’m the one that want that kind of friendgroup (just for vibing, playing games, ect...)

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Raphaelx wrote:
bump// help me

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Raquelle wrote:
idk lower your standards and forget your expectations is my advice.
It’s incredibly difficult to find people exactly like you and usually people are very different from what they first seem like. Yea people might smoke or drink but it doesn’t mean you have to too. They do other things as well. Everyone likes playing with cards and hanging around. Friends can be found anywhere really. Starting a hobby or job there would make things a lot easier of course. Anyway i wish you luck!! I’m moving to a new town soon too and i’m super nervous.

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Raphaelx wrote:

Raquelle wrote:
idk lower your standards and forget your expectations is my advice.
It’s incredibly difficult to find people exactly like you and usually people are very different from what they first seem like. Yea people might smoke or drink but it doesn’t mean you have to too. They do other things as well. Everyone likes playing with cards and hanging around. Friends can be found anywhere really. Starting a hobby or job there would make things a lot easier of course. Anyway i wish you luck!! I’m moving to a new town soon too and i’m super nervous.

It’s not really my standard, but more what I’m into, yk.
My grandmother had friends who smoked, she always sat with them, and got in the end lung problems.
I just don’t know how to even find friends here, like how am I gonna even meet them.
Thank you!
Are you gonna move a lot future then your home town?

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Raphaelx wrote:
bump

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Raquelle wrote:
idk lower your standards and forget your expectations is my advice.
It’s incredibly difficult to find people exactly like you and usually people are very different from what they first seem like. Yea people might smoke or drink but it doesn’t mean you have to too. They do other things as well. Everyone likes playing with cards and hanging around. Friends can be found anywhere really. Starting a hobby or job there would make things a lot easier of course. Anyway i wish you luck!! I’m moving to a new town soon too and i’m super nervous.

Tbh yeahh me n my friends smoke n drink energy drink but we play cars a lot too (mostly cus we bored but whatever)

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Liesz wrote:
It's honestly so difficult to make friends in a new city