Limbs wrote:
so my sister spams me text messages all day every day complaining about various things. we know this. and i've tried to get her to stop doing this (because it's DRIVING ME INSANE) by answering slowly or sometimes not at all, replying shortly and so on
well the other day i didn't open her text for a day (because i was with my bf and also didn't have the energy for her complaining) and she sent me a text asking if i'm ok, because she thought i was dead or something cuz i didn't answer her text for one day
and i just!!!!! feel like i'm going to explode
like i'm not even allowed to have one (1) day to myself, apparently. i hate hate hate that i have to be available for her to complain at all the time every fucking hour of every day. she even texts me at night nowadays, at like 1-2 am, just complaining about anything and everything going wrong in her and her family's life
i don't know what to do now lol!! i'm SO TIRED and this is stressing me out so much, but i can't even ignore her now cuz she'll call the cops or something cuz she thinks i'm dead if i don't answer. i've tried talking to her about this as well, multiple times i've told her that listening to her problems is stressing me out and then she stops for a while but ultimately goes back to the same after a while.
does anyone have any ideas on what i could do
i also hate talking about this here because i don't wanna do the same thing she does but at least y'all can ignore me without any consequences hhhhhhf