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contacting my ex/first love?
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
long story short, my first love the only person i ever had genuine feelings for was the person i dated in my teens. we were daitng for a few years but we never even had a proper break up or ending to our relationship and it just faded out. i moved and we lost contact.

after that we reconnected on facebook and we occasionally wish each other a merry christmas or so...but nothing more than that......

now i've been in many relatipnships after her but i can't stop thinking about her. our relatipnship was so innocent back then... it was so simple yet amazing. none of my last relatipnships can beat my first.

we're the same age, in our 20s and im thking about uysing her upcoming birthday as an excuse to contact her and actually try to build a relatipnmship (assuming she is open to that) ?

i can't move on! it's been now... what 7 years?? and it's killing me that i still have these feelings
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:31
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Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:38
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
even when i've been in other relatipnships i've kept her in my mind. i'm still stuck with those feelings i had back then.. but now she's a stranger to me. i don't know who she is... what she likes.... what she's passionate about..... but i still love her dearly
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:39
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devilcake wrote:
Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
it also takes seven years for the body to replace all cells so she's also not the same person in thats sense
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:40
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
yes.... and we dates as young teens..... we're obviously not children anymore.... so much changes during those critucal years of life.. but i feel so hopeless. how am i ever supposed to be able to move on .. nothing seems to help.
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:40
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Claire wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
yes.... and we dates as young teens..... we're obviously not children anymore.... so much changes during those critucal years of life.. but i feel so hopeless. how am i ever supposed to be able to move on .. nothing seems to help.
therapy
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:42
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
Claire wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
yes.... and we dates as young teens..... we're obviously not children anymore.... so much changes during those critucal years of life.. but i feel so hopeless. how am i ever supposed to be able to move on .. nothing seems to help.
therapy
okay, how about something that will actually work
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:42
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
but what if i contact her and then we fall in love and everything is perfect after that
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:44
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luminescence wrote:
I’d say go for it, wouldn’t be nice to be stuck for another 7 years
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ouch wrote:
Just do it tbh
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:46
Kino
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Kino wrote:
what do you have to lose? weigh the pros and cons of doing it and decide based on that
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:53
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
River wrote:
what do you have to lose? weigh the pros and cons of doing it and decide based on that
cons
- she might have moved on, not harboring the same feelings as i do
- she might be with somebody at this very moment (i mean obviously she has been with other people since we broke up but i mean as of NOW)
- she might be completely different from what i remember / very unlikable person. which would just break my heart. i wouldn't want the positive feelings i have for her become negative.....
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Date: 10-08-2020 23:59
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
maybe i'm delusional but what if she has the same feelings that i do? because she was the first one to contact me after years of not speaking a word to each other..

i regret being very cold to her. but i thought i would be able to move on. but why bother contacting an ex YEARS after unless you're at least a bit curious ?
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Date: 11-08-2020 00:11
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
she was also the first one to bring up her old relationships... ask about mine... indirectly say that she's single...

but this was about a year ago i think. it would be weird to ask such questions unless you're interested in someone?
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Date: 11-08-2020 00:14
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
she also caught me off guard by saying things such as "sometimes i just think about what would've happened if we were still together after all those years"

if only i wouldn't had responded to her like a true autist. but i guess i didn't want to get my hopes up at the time. but now i'm just stuck with many regrets
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Date: 11-08-2020 00:21
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Claire wrote:
jesus seven years

the person you love doesnt even exist anymore after seven years apart thats someone else now.
yes.... and we dates as young teens..... we're obviously not children anymore.... so much changes during those critucal years of life.. but i feel so hopeless. how am i ever supposed to be able to move on .. nothing seems to help.
Spike her drink w/ some drugs- particularly speed- next time u see her, natural aphrodisiac will really get her in the mood and if u get her addicted well then she'll never leave! Problem solved 
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Date: 11-08-2020 00:24
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