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i don't think i'm stupid
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
my only ex boyfriend texted me yesterday. as he does every once in a while and I always tell him fuck you.

Very short backstory:
We dated when I was a teen but he was manipulative, kept dumping me and taking me back like once a month and talked shit abt me to everyone, used me for sex nd he slapped me once but i slapped him so i mean, the list goes on forever



He's like i don't get why you're like this to me all that was years ago I'm a changed person I'm like lmao sure.
BUT it was years ago, he doesn't know me anymore. And I've realised I'm not that pathethic little girl I was before who let myself get used so if I keep being that nice person I am who belives everyone is good deep down then i've really got nothing to lose because he can't hurt me anymore because I put myself before pleasing everyone else now.



We are meeting at a bar next weekend it sure is going to be interesting.



However he is already giving me warning signs he has "changed" lol sure
He keept being like idk where I'm going to go after the bar can't I sleep at your place. And even after I'm like alright we'll do saturday day and look like alcoholics he's still like "its funny my friend said he could give me a ride after if i slept at your place"
And WHAT IT MEANS is that he wants to have sex because I still know all his little gross tricks its not about just sleeping. Also the last time we did meet he did all of this said he has changed, came home to me made me sleep with him then texted me the next day like "it felt weird i don't think i want to keep seeing you" and i was like hehe tf

ALSO
after i did not agree to letting him sleep at "my" place he started being like idk if the meetup is gonna happen my dad wanted to go out with the boat but it should work.
BECAUSE he wants me to be like no please ok u can sleep here. and beg for his attention.



so
i am not convinced he isn't just the same but i am not the same and i've realised i've stayed away from him all theseyears no matter how many times he writes because im afraid he's going to make me feel gross and worthless and unwanted but he doesn't have that kind of power over me now and if he truly has changed maybe we can be friends because i am forgiving.
if he hasn't changed then i guess his loss
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:19
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
also i want him to know im doing great just in case he is still an ass
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:21
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
also i want him to know im doing great just in case he is still an ass
and if he's still an ass i want him to text me next year again saying he's changed so i can tell him fuck off again and it will be funnier that time
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:23
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
i told him that i was pathetic before and that im not anymore and he was like "i never thought you were pathetic" of course you didn't, i was great for you
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:25
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
gurl as far as i've understood you really aren't dumb and already know what he's after
so my only question rn is why do you even meet up with that scumbag?
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:26
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
gurl as far as i've understood you really aren't dumb and already know what he's after
so my only question rn is why do you even meet up with that scumbag?
because i believe that everyone has the ability to change and if he just hasn't then I get to prove I'm right and can use it against him next time he texts me
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:29
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
i will update the story if he ditches me before or if we end up meeting lmao i will tell u all the dirt
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:35
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
gurl as far as i've understood you really aren't dumb and already know what he's after
so my only question rn is why do you even meet up with that scumbag?
because i believe that everyone has the ability to change and if he just hasn't then I get to prove I'm right and can use it against him next time he texts me
yeah everyone has the ability to change but why do you even text him?
sure he might have changed but as long as he doesn't apologize about the things he already did, i couldn't care less (if i was you), i would just block him so he wouldn't be able to text me anymore
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:47
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
i will update the story if he ditches me before or if we end up meeting lmao i will tell u all the dirt
yes please xD
im really happy you seem to know how to handle him/know what he wants and stuff, so im sure even if you guys meet, it wont be that bad for you 
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:48
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
gurl as far as i've understood you really aren't dumb and already know what he's after
so my only question rn is why do you even meet up with that scumbag?
because i believe that everyone has the ability to change and if he just hasn't then I get to prove I'm right and can use it against him next time he texts me
yeah everyone has the ability to change but why do you even text him?
sure he might have changed but as long as he doesn't apologize about the things he already did, i couldn't care less (if i was you), i would just block him so he wouldn't be able to text me anymore
he always "apologizes" but then he goes and does the same shit again so it's really about what he does not what he says. so far not rlly convinced but it's not like he can let me down if i don't expect too much
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:50
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
i will update the story if he ditches me before or if we end up meeting lmao i will tell u all the dirt
yes please xD
im really happy you seem to know how to handle him/know what he wants and stuff, so im sure even if you guys meet, it wont be that bad for you 
me too because things were different when i was an insecure teenager, worst case scenario he embarrasses himself but not being like he says he is and that's not too bad for me
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:56
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TogetherForever wrote:
You are not stupid.
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Date: 13-08-2020 18:58
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
because i believe that everyone has the ability to change and if he just hasn't then I get to prove I'm right and can use it against him next time he texts me
yeah everyone has the ability to change but why do you even text him?
sure he might have changed but as long as he doesn't apologize about the things he already did, i couldn't care less (if i was you), i would just block him so he wouldn't be able to text me anymore
he always "apologizes" but then he goes and does the same shit again so it's really about what he does not what he says. so far not rlly convinced but it's not like he can let me down if i don't expect too much
true just dont meet him with high expectations 
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Date: 13-08-2020 19:01
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
i will update the story if he ditches me before or if we end up meeting lmao i will tell u all the dirt
yes please xD
im really happy you seem to know how to handle him/know what he wants and stuff, so im sure even if you guys meet, it wont be that bad for you 
me too because things were different when i was an insecure teenager, worst case scenario he embarrasses himself but not being like he says he is and that's not too bad for me
also true, worst case is him being a total clown
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Date: 13-08-2020 19:03
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
THE UPDATE
 
Something really important came up that I need to do on that day so I text him and tell him something came up
He’s just like “Okay?”
I ask if he wants to cancel or do on another date
 
And he for real tells me “cancel for now”.
Lmao bitch you think you can cancel for now and put me on hold thinking i’ll wait until you “want me” again? Who do you think i am
 
I tell him your loss, when you come back there will be no second chance.
 
Funny thing is he hasn’t written to me since that first day and i can tell he stopped being eager to talk to me after I made it clear he can’t sleep at my place (or sleep with me).
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Date: 15-08-2020 17:43
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
THE UPDATE
 
Something really important came up that I need to do on that day so I text him and tell him something came up
He’s just like “Okay?”
I ask if he wants to cancel or do on another date
 
And he for real tells me “cancel for now”.
Lmao bitch you think you can cancel for now and put me on hold thinking i’ll wait until you “want me” again? Who do you think i am
 
I tell him your loss, when you come back there will be no second chance.
 
Funny thing is he hasn’t written to me since that first day and i can tell he stopped being eager to talk to me after I made it clear he can’t sleep at my place (or sleep with me).
i can promise u with my whole heart and other organs that he will write me next year like
"im so sorry i have changed please give me a chance ive been thinking of u so much"
nd i will send him our recent convos and giggle
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Date: 15-08-2020 17:52
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