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Kit
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Kit wrote:
cant fuckin stand it !!!!! and idk i care . about my friend . a lot

 but literally evey fucking day she's telling me how she's having a bad day and doesn't wanna be alive but not even in like . a normal fuckign way 

but like. asking me to hang out and then saying "nvm i can't leave the house i don't wanna be alive lololol" and its like

THATS NOT FUCKIGN normal !!! thatsn ot how u talk to someone holy shit

idk just like. the jokey suicidality feels super passive aggressive and accusatory and doesn't get either of us anywhere except it makes me feel like shit, resent her, and not want to be around her 

and it's especially annoying when i've been hanging out with her for a week straight and want ONE day off and she can't stop texting me how awful she's feeling and how she's not eating and not doing groceries or anything 

and idfk like. i really want her to genuinely be able to talk to me about how she's feeling and stuff so i really can't say like "hey cut it out" bc she'll just take it as a rejection and ghost me

but on the other hand it's honestly fucking killing me that she's so miserable all the time and i can't do anything about it to help her but she's clearly looking for me to do something and she's way too dependent on me and 
GFJKLDSJFDLS fuck sorry 

this is completely incoherent im just having a Hard Time
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:04
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This is bad for your own mental health, tell her that she needs to get help and cut her off if necessary 
Date: 28-08-2020 17:06
Kit
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Kit wrote:
and then she goes "omg sorry for being annoying" and its like ? thats not at all waht ur being ? and the implication that i would be annoyed is so fucking rude ? i'm not aNNOYED that'd be such a dickhead way to respond ?

i'm DISTRESSED because i cannot help u and u dont want help
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:06
Kit
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Kit wrote:
disintegration wrote:
This is bad for your own mental health, tell her that she needs to get help and cut her off if necessary 
fjksdl i know it's just like . i'm also lowkey v codependent and i literally only have one other friend who's also very good friends w her

and also like . if i do that she will straight up kill herself or at least attempt to and uhhhhhhhhhh i cannot live with that 
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:07
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Kit wrote:
disintegration wrote:
This is bad for your own mental health, tell her that she needs to get help and cut her off if necessary 
fjksdl i know it's just like . i'm also lowkey v codependent and i literally only have one other friend who's also very good friends w her

and also like . if i do that she will straight up kill herself or at least attempt to and uhhhhhhhhhh i cannot live with that 
She is straight up holding you hostage wtf 
Date: 28-08-2020 17:08
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ouch wrote:
I would just
ignore
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:09
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
Does she see anyone about these feelings?
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:10
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Does she see anyone about these feelings?
her therapist moved like 2 months ago and i don't think she's seeing anyone new ... 
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:11
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Kit wrote:
like even  if i'm perfectly civil and say "hey this kind of behavior is really upsetting to me and can we find a better way to communicate abt this stuff" the only thing she'll hear is "hey you're a piece of shit who ruins everyone's life around u and u should jump off ur building" and i
gjfdksljdskl fuck
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:13
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she's not your responsibility and honestly it sounds like she's wanting attention from you, because she knows you'll respond and validate her feelings. 
Date: 28-08-2020 17:13
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ouch wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
she's not your responsibility and honestly it sounds like she's wanting attention from you, because she knows you'll respond and validate her feelings. 
Yeah
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:13
Kit
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Kit wrote:
also idk i've been in her shoes and rly felt like. that low and desperate and alone and just needed someone to talk to and not had anyone and ? yeah i've pulled this kinda shit w my mom a Lot and ? idk it's one of the worst feelings in the world and it feels rly hypocritical of me to turn around and ignore her when she clearly needs someone, & when i know how that feels
like idk she needs a lot more help than i do and more like. love n support n whatever so it feels kinda shitty if i don't help however i can idk
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:16
Kit
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Kit wrote:
but anyway thank u all for like . reading n responding : ' )
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:16
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Kit wrote:
but anyway thank u all for like . reading n responding : ' )
i had the same problem w someone in a discord server, she was a real fucking mess and would accuse everyone at hating her and talking behind her back, just to twist around and say she wanted to die and leave suicide notes in the general channel.

and then everyone would fawn over her and be like "no don't kys you're so sexy ahaa" 
Date: 28-08-2020 17:18
Kit
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Kit wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Kit wrote:
but anyway thank u all for like . reading n responding : ' )
i had the same problem w someone in a discord server, she was a real fucking mess and would accuse everyone at hating her and talking behind her back, just to twist around and say she wanted to die and leave suicide notes in the general channel.

and then everyone would fawn over her and be like "no don't kys you're so sexy ahaa" 
yea gjfksld that sounds . Messy 
at least my friend rly only pulls this shit w me and not w a bunch of ppl omg
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:21
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Kit wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Kit wrote:
but anyway thank u all for like . reading n responding : ' )
i had the same problem w someone in a discord server, she was a real fucking mess and would accuse everyone at hating her and talking behind her back, just to twist around and say she wanted to die and leave suicide notes in the general channel.

and then everyone would fawn over her and be like "no don't kys you're so sexy ahaa" 
yea gjfksld that sounds . Messy 
at least my friend rly only pulls this shit w me and not w a bunch of ppl omg
and she did atleast 3 times a week. i just ignored it, because well, she was never gonna do it and she just wanted attention. 
Date: 28-08-2020 17:23
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