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Being friends with your ex
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Whats your opinion on it? Can you? Can you not? Would you have a problem if the person you are seeing are besties with their ex?
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Date: 02-09-2020 00:39
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coco wrote:
my ex is my best friend
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Date: 02-09-2020 00:44
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Sannissan wrote:
I am friends with my ex. I think there is no problem with it but on other hand we didn't break up in bad terms.

Also I wouldn't mind if I person I date is bestie with my ex. It would be a bit odd and maybe even awkward. 
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Date: 02-09-2020 00:57
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Rotte wrote:
If u didn't end on bad terms and are mature enough about the situation i think u can very well stay friends.

Also no i wouldn't mind if i knew on what terms they broke up.
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Date: 02-09-2020 01:01
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DaddyIssues wrote:
I think it's an interesting topic. I've for example never been jealous but it took me a while to adjust to the fact that my current bf talks with his ex (they were together for 2years and lived together) every day. I don't really mind it now since I trust him.

But another example is that when we just got together he went on a week-trip with just her, slept in the same bed and had "just married" on their booking.com description since they usually get better rooms then. Which also led to a romantic week. I don't really care now a year later, but at the time I was pretty bummed out about it.
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Date: 02-09-2020 02:11
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Medusa wrote:
I would be friends with my ex if he hadn't blocked me on my bd while we had plans together <3
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Date: 02-09-2020 02:17
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I have no priblem with being friends with my exes. Like hlf of my friends are my exes. Relationship didn't work but they still are awesome peoole. Why the hell I would dated a person who is not also an awesome friend
Date: 02-09-2020 02:30
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Parasite wrote:
It depends on the situation.
If someone still have feelings for their ex then they should at least wait until they've completely moved on.

I'm friends with an ex rn, but we only lasted a week and didn't talk for at least a year after the breakup.
It's been 3 years now since that even happened lmao.
We both realized we vibe well as friends and I'm glad we reconnected tbh.
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Date: 02-09-2020 02:36
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Arson wrote:
in my experience it has a lot to do with how the relationship ended. I've found it's easy for me to put things behind me and be friends with my ex as long as they're mature about it too. two of my best friends are my exes. it's most definitely possible :)

i'd recommend having some space from each other before y'all become friends again, though
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Date: 02-09-2020 02:49
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hmm i think an ex is an ex for a reason and tbh i myself would have deleted my ex if i was gonna have someone new in my life

also i would care if my bf was bestie with his ex. bc its weird tho, i expect me to be hes closest, not his ex like nah idk 
Date: 02-09-2020 02:52
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Bimbo wrote:
I think that if you can't trust your partner (in any situation, not just this specific one) either they've given you signs that they're unfaithful and you need to talk, or you have trust issues and you need to talk. Whatever it is, being jealous of your partner is only gonna end up with you breaking up (on bad terms most likely) so talk to them and explain to them your thoughts and feelings, and have a mature discussion!!
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Date: 02-09-2020 03:15
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Buns wrote:
I would still be friends with mine if my boyfriend would let me. :3 
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Date: 02-09-2020 03:33
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DaddyIssues wrote:
Buns wrote:
I would still be friends with mine if my boyfriend would let me. :3 
is that not kinda toxic though? Not letting you be friends with who you wanna be?
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Date: 02-09-2020 10:59
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absintjente wrote:
i dont think theres an answer that fits all. depends on the relationship, depends on the ppl, depends on how it ended, depends on the circumstances. i have a chat w some exes if i meet them, id rather die than meet others, n some r in a weird middle place.
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Date: 02-09-2020 11:29
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Horcrux wrote:
Tried to be friends with my ex but he was still in love with me and he struggled seeing me move on. He got very desperate for my attention and kept saying things like 'what if I get in a crash and die' if I didnt talk to him on the phone during long journeys. So needless to say the friendship ended but we continued to work together for about two years afterwards. 
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Date: 02-09-2020 11:32
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Ayahuasca wrote:
my gf isn't close w their ex but she're still in touch and even if they were close friends it's like... why should i have a problem w it? she hasn't given me a reason to question her being faithful? jealousy is so normalised when it's such a toxic thing
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