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Flamink wrote:
i feel rlly stressed, bad and i want to punch something or hit my head against the wall bc im so frustated

i need a new place to live but i dont have the money for anything,i live with my ex bf and even though we're on good terms it hurts to see him everyday like this when i love him but cant be together with him
i just started uni and its stressing my out after 2 weeks i feel like a failure, i cant do it, i want to but im so scared ill fuck up and waste everyones time
my dads sends my some money and i hate myself for it, i cant do anything on my own
im a fucking clown and i hate myself and it just gets worse and worse
ive never hated anyone as much as i hate myself congrats lets celebrate that

i dont even know what to do with this thread i feel fucking pathetic and i cant tell anyone i know
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Date: 10-09-2020 20:09
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Flamink wrote:
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Date: 10-09-2020 20:33
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Idk what u can do about the first, but the two others:
- uni: relatable. so take a break if you need one and prioritize the closest deadlines as good as you can. It's okay just to pass, you know. And it takes some time to get into the whole thing so don't be too hard. I will presume that you feeling like a failure as a result of fear of failing, and not that you actually are failing. You're not wasting someone's time by trying, okay, trying is super important. You only fail if you quit and with that, I don't mean like you fail if you dropout b\c it didn't work out, I mean if you give up the whole idea and never try to reach for it again.

Also, try to reframe it: your dad sending you money is something to be grateful for. It doesn't mean you can't do anything on your own, and like you probably want to do it on your own but you have uni too now, and allowing yourself to receive some help when it's good for you ain't a bad thing. You can "pay it back" if you want when your life is stable.

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Date: 10-09-2020 20:50
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Flamink wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Idk what u can do about the first, but the two others:
- uni: relatable. so take a break if you need one and prioritize the closest deadlines as good as you can. It's okay just to pass, you know. And it takes some time to get into the whole thing so don't be too hard. I will presume that you feeling like a failure as a result of fear of failing, and not that you actually are failing. You're not wasting someone's time by trying, okay, trying is super important. You only fail if you quit and with that, I don't mean like you fail if you dropout b\c it didn't work out, I mean if you give up the whole idea and never try to reach for it again.

Also, try to reframe it: your dad sending you money is something to be grateful for. It doesn't mean you can't do anything on your own, and like you probably want to do it on your own but you have uni too now, and allowing yourself to receive some help when it's good for you ain't a bad thing. You can "pay it back" if you want when your life is stable.

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idk if im failing, i feel like im so far behind everyone else in my class. im reading japan studies and most of the others already knew some stuff and have a clear advantage. everything is going so fast and ive been sick the past 2 days
you're right im just
yeah
i dont feel like i deserve it
thank u for answering
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Date: 10-09-2020 21:27
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