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"it's hard to not feel like you're just smart
Kit
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-er/wiser/better at things than me"

ok thats nice but pls don't try to disguise your blaming me for ur bad self esteem as a compliment thank u ! <3 
Kit
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step a: compliment me
step b: put yourself down
step c: get annoyed with me when i don't graciously accept that "compliment"
Kit
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but also just stop reading so much into what i say / do / whatever like. you're your own person stop trying to loop me back into this codependent nonsense every day we don't hang out ! please ! 
Kit
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"u dont have to apologize, Its not really that u shot my ideas down that much its more that like i just get so incredibly anxious at the prospect of you shooting down my ideas (bc lbr you do correct like every other thing I say) that I’d rather just not say anything"

so ? i don't have to apologize, it's not my fault, but you do need to bring it up, and you do wanna blame it on me correcting u ? and it's somehow not my fault, just caused by my behavior ?
Private
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Instead I just say how much smarter/wiser/ better I am than everyone else
Kit
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anyway it's also lowkey exhausting to have like . a single somewhat developed personality trait that ur proud of (i am very smart, i know a lot of things and will helpfully volunteer information others seem to b missing) but don't like ? proclaim ? i'm not going around saying "o look at me im so smart" ? & instead of that being your own damn personality trait & something of my own, it's somehow something Bad that i do to people around me instead of just a way that i am ? the thing where people go ? "you're so smart you don't need or deserve help" & at the same time "you're so smart your existence makes me feel bad about myself, even tho i 100% would feel bad about myself regardless" like ok wish u were smart enough to realize that who i am / what i do / who you PERCEIVE me to be shouldn't have an influence on your self esteem or self perception ? idk lol ?  
Kit
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ppl: ur so smart it makes me feel worthless and stupid, and also yr so smart u should help me with anything i need help with, and ur so smart u can't possibly struggle w stuff
me: wow guess i'm smart
ppl: ew arrogant much, why are u such a know-it-all
Kit
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just like . get me out of this mess where she's using her weird idolization of me as an excuse to feel badly abt herself, or vice versa, bc in the end she'll just build up a whole bunch of resentment towards me for her Bad Feelings when i am not ! categorically Not !!! the one giving them to her ! 
Private
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If a friend tries to make u feel bad for being smarter/prettier/more successful than them then thats not a real friend periodt
Pavlov
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Kit wrote:
ppl: ur so smart it makes me feel worthless and stupid, and also yr so smart u should help me with anything i need help with, and ur so smart u can't possibly struggle w stuff
me: wow guess i'm smart
ppl: ew arrogant much, why are u such a know-it-all
even if people think u are something doesnt mean u have to go around rubbing it into peoples faces lol
Kit
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Pavlov wrote:
Kit wrote:
ppl: ur so smart it makes me feel worthless and stupid, and also yr so smart u should help me with anything i need help with, and ur so smart u can't possibly struggle w stuff
me: wow guess i'm smart
ppl: ew arrogant much, why are u such a know-it-all
even if people think u are something doesnt mean u have to go around rubbing it into peoples faces lol
i don't ? 
Kit
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and anyway since fucking when is being urself "rubbing it in people's faces" ?

petition to make all "pretty" people wear bags over their heads just in case less pretty ppl take offense or feel its being "rubbed in their faces"
Pavlov
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id say there is a fine line between being smart and being a smartass, one is being something and the other is trying to show people how smart theyre by constantly trying to show people how smart they are
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
id say there is a fine line between being smart and being a smartass, one is being something and the other is trying to show people how smart theyre by constantly trying to show people how smart they are
that was such an amazingly constructed sentence i know im not even going to bother editing it cause its not like its wrong
Kit
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i think it's wildly unfair that other people can make claims / assertions about my identity and capacity, & derive certain conclusions from them, but i'm not permitted the same authority over myself
Alam
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This whole thread is just a bit of a humble brag, innit?
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