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unofficial complaint thread 2k21
Kit
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Kit wrote:
turns out i start annoying even myself when making 10 threads a day bitching abt a single text someone sent so instead im simply going to try confining it to a single thread ! doing my best 

also, preemptively bc some of y'all are complete ghouls :

if u have showed up here to tell me to calm down or stop being emotional or tell me how i'm being x, y, or z bad thing, or that my whole attitude is wrong or that im not openminded enough or pretty much anything that isnt supportive or sympathetic u should probably leave ! like that's ok and i'm happy for u that u feel that way, fully respect it, etc. i just don't want to have to read it and thats not what this thread is for ! & i also don't really get why you're reading this thread just to be critical when u could simply not idk !

i promise ur not being silenced, ur freedom of speech is not being threatened, ur fine, calm down and have a nice day ! ♡
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:22 | Times changed: 6
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stop being emotional is what the mbti obsessed xNTx would tell u probably 
o is tis a mean comment
Date: 05-10-2020 13:25
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
lmaooooooo ur freedom of speech is not being threatened
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:27
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Kit wrote:
also lbr this thread is gna be 99% abt my one friend bc she's been rly pissing me off lately and i feel bad ranting abt it to our other mutual friend bc it's not fair to make him like, triangulate between us

but ok so i offered to get groceries and make dinner tonight & had some ideas, she says she wld prefer smth w potatoes bc she's craving potatoes so im like ? ok lets do that nbd

then she's like "o btw sprouts are on sale at [ grocery store i do not go to bc it's further away ]" and im like "ok nice but im not going there im lazy" n she's like "for the millionth time its not that far, and also i can get groceries too..." and its like sorry What ? kind of passive aggressive nonsense ? bitch if u want sprouts i'll get them but don't guilt me into going out of my way and routine to save 30 fucking cents on some sprouts

and the whole "o well i can do groceries too" is just such bullshit ? like she cannot and will not ? i asked her to check her fridge to see if she still had sm stuff and she says "sorry i can't get up and check" even tho her fridge is. next to her bed. like who are u omg get a fucking grip
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:27
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
lmaooooooo ur freedom of speech is not being threatened

hmfdklsjfdskl ppl on the internet rly think like that tho

me: pls leave ur argumentative comments off my thread where i just wanna rant a lil
ppl who were def about to comment smth argumentative: oh my god why do u wanna live in an echochamber u just don't respect other viewpoints ur just as bad as the alt right & obviously ur wish to not have to fight me in this thread is censorship
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:29 | Times changed: 1
Kit
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Kit wrote:
why can i not ask her to check her fucking fridge thats like. less than 2 meters away from her ? but she can be annoying af asking me when i'll come over even tho we literally JUST made plans and like

i said i still had sm things to do before leaving and shes like "ok but i wanna know when you'll be here" ok pushy ??????? i will let u kno when i kno omg ?
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:31
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Salem wrote:
u need 2 put ur foot down !! some kinda boundary is needed cos I feel like u lowkey rly don't like her even if u urself haven't recognised that yet. seems like a massive clash of personalities n don't imagine it's gonna bring u any happiness tbh like why waste ur time on someone who makes u feel shitty !!
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:34
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Heaven wrote:
stop being emotional is what the mbti obsessed xNTx would tell u probably 
o is tis a mean comment
As an intp I agree 
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:34
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Kit wrote:
Salem wrote:
u need 2 put ur foot down !! some kinda boundary is needed cos I feel like u lowkey rly don't like her even if u urself haven't recognised that yet. seems like a massive clash of personalities n don't imagine it's gonna bring u any happiness tbh like why waste ur time on someone who makes u feel shitty !!

idk the things is like i really like her a lot ! i think she's very smart n very funny and i rly enjoy hanging out with her ! it's just that in the past few months she's stopped therapy and stopped seeing a lot of people and i really don't like being her sole support system, i also think she's just a lil too comfortable treating me / friends like life partners instead of like friends idk

like i love her a lot i just hate how codependent we've gotten during lockdown/quarantine etc. and i really hate that she's not really willing to work with me on letting that go ? but yea idk i just feel like it's really hard to have constructive conversations w her and she keeps getting worse n relying on me more n more n that's . not great

idk she also will NOT establish boundaries for herself with me which makes it hard to do so for myself ? and its like . idk hard . 
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:36
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Heaven wrote:
stop being emotional is what the mbti obsessed xNTx would tell u probably 
o is tis a mean comment

fjkdlsdl do ppl honestly take mbti seriously in the year of our lord 2020
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:37
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Kit wrote:
Heaven wrote:
stop being emotional is what the mbti obsessed xNTx would tell u probably 
o is tis a mean comment

fjkdlsdl do ppl honestly take mbti seriously in the year of our lord 2020
oh they do
Date: 05-10-2020 13:38
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Kit wrote:
Heaven wrote:
stop being emotional is what the mbti obsessed xNTx would tell u probably 
o is tis a mean comment

fjkdlsdl do ppl honestly take mbti seriously in the year of our lord 2020
oh they do
honestly i've taken those quizzes since age 14 or smth and think i've gotten like every single possible variation i'm sorry but mbti says nothing abt personality and everything about self-image its . Something for sure
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:39
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Salem wrote:
Kit wrote:
Salem wrote:
u need 2 put ur foot down !! some kinda boundary is needed cos I feel like u lowkey rly don't like her even if u urself haven't recognised that yet. seems like a massive clash of personalities n don't imagine it's gonna bring u any happiness tbh like why waste ur time on someone who makes u feel shitty !!

idk the things is like i really like her a lot ! i think she's very smart n very funny and i rly enjoy hanging out with her ! it's just that in the past few months she's stopped therapy and stopped seeing a lot of people and i really don't like being her sole support system, i also think she's just a lil too comfortable treating me / friends like life partners instead of like friends idk

like i love her a lot i just hate how codependent we've gotten during lockdown/quarantine etc. and i really hate that she's not really willing to work with me on letting that go ? but yea idk i just feel like it's really hard to have constructive conversations w her and she keeps getting worse n relying on me more n more n that's . not great

idk she also will NOT establish boundaries for herself with me which makes it hard to do so for myself ? and its like . idk hard . 
ahhhh okay I understand a lil more !! I'd feel the same as u in this situation I think, but I rly do believe the only way ur gonna get thru to her is to be nice but blunt cos the more u bottle the feelings as a result of knowing ur not gonna have a productive conversation w her about it, the worse it's gonna get. at the least maybe somethin like look I love ur company and hanging out and stuff but I'm really trying to work on myself n not smoke as much weed etc. like it's really important 2 me u know? just thought u would get it ! or somethin like be a lil passive aggressive urself if necessary hahah but idk. make ur point n make it clear so if she then does somethin that just makes u want to blow ur lid u can remind her n be like look dude I just need a bit of time or whatever it is u need in that situ and if she reacts badly again like. idk then u kno for sure it ain't a good thing 2 be so close to her rn
idk if any of this even made sense but I need 2 go sort my breakfast although it's lunch now rip
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:41
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Kit wrote:
anyway guess the true resolution to this issue is to just stop giving a shit tbh . like is she annoyed with me for not being specific enough abt my time of arrival ? i pretend i do not see

is she being passive aggressive abt me choosing to spend some leisure time away from her ? i pretend i do not see

is she texting me at 10pm asking to hang out even tho she said she didn't want to earlier ? i pretend i do not see
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:41
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Kit wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Kit wrote:

fjkdlsdl do ppl honestly take mbti seriously in the year of our lord 2020
oh they do
honestly i've taken those quizzes since age 14 or smth and think i've gotten like every single possible variation i'm sorry but mbti says nothing abt personality and everything about self-image its . Something for sure
i absolutely agree kit, lets join forces and destroy vp's obsession with the mbti and the enneagram 
Date: 05-10-2020 13:42
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Salem wrote:
Kit wrote:
Salem wrote:
u need 2 put ur foot down !! some kinda boundary is needed cos I feel like u lowkey rly don't like her even if u urself haven't recognised that yet. seems like a massive clash of personalities n don't imagine it's gonna bring u any happiness tbh like why waste ur time on someone who makes u feel shitty !!

idk the things is like i really like her a lot ! i think she's very smart n very funny and i rly enjoy hanging out with her ! it's just that in the past few months she's stopped therapy and stopped seeing a lot of people and i really don't like being her sole support system, i also think she's just a lil too comfortable treating me / friends like life partners instead of like friends idk

like i love her a lot i just hate how codependent we've gotten during lockdown/quarantine etc. and i really hate that she's not really willing to work with me on letting that go ? but yea idk i just feel like it's really hard to have constructive conversations w her and she keeps getting worse n relying on me more n more n that's . not great

idk she also will NOT establish boundaries for herself with me which makes it hard to do so for myself ? and its like . idk hard . 
ahhhh okay I understand a lil more !! I'd feel the same as u in this situation I think, but I rly do believe the only way ur gonna get thru to her is to be nice but blunt cos the more u bottle the feelings as a result of knowing ur not gonna have a productive conversation w her about it, the worse it's gonna get. at the least maybe somethin like look I love ur company and hanging out and stuff but I'm really trying to work on myself n not smoke as much weed etc. like it's really important 2 me u know? just thought u would get it ! or somethin like be a lil passive aggressive urself if necessary hahah but idk. make ur point n make it clear so if she then does somethin that just makes u want to blow ur lid u can remind her n be like look dude I just need a bit of time or whatever it is u need in that situ and if she reacts badly again like. idk then u kno for sure it ain't a good thing 2 be so close to her rn
idk if any of this even made sense but I need 2 go sort my breakfast although it's lunch now rip
ajfkdslj thank u . so much honestly this made a Lot of sense and ! yeah i think smth that rly stops me from discussing this w her the way i need to is that im afraid to hurt her feelings or freak her out bc she's v rejection sensitive but like ? that just means i'm ultimately not being completely honest w her and not giving her the opportunity to change thigns that r bothering me and i jsut gotta .... call it as i see it more
but ya thats honestly very good advice im going to try ! <3
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Date: 05-10-2020 13:44
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