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vp ruining my friendships lmao
Kit
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Kit wrote:
just kidding ok im kidding im . making a JOKE but

i told my friend abt vp sort of casually like o this is a thing i do sometimes its dumb but fun nd i vaguely enjoy it

( note: i'd told some friends abt vp like in 2016 when i was rly active n they pretty much relentlessly made fun of me for it and like.... to this day will be like "lol remember when u did that dumb shit lol how embarrassing!!!" and its like. ok fine fuck u too ig )

but yeah now she keeps being like "oh hows ur dressup game!" and like. she does this about other stuff too, like other games i play, but its fucking weird that she texts me this when im like not rly on vp and she doesnt know i am and is just like, assuming that i'm on vp ? and idk it just rly triggers smth from back then and this sort of intense defensive embarrassment stuff bc it was made fun of so intensely 

and then also like idfk what to say ? like hows my dress up game going ? nothings happening i am reading 1-2 threads a day and occasionally buying an item in mp its not that central to my daily interests lol idk

but yeah i told her like "i dont want u to feel like bad abt this or anything its just idk how to answer that bc nothing is rly happening & it doenst matter, and also im afraid u are making fun of me secretly and idk feels weird" 

and her response is "well why am i always getting called out for being insecure in our friendship or whatever!!!" 
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:45
Kit
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Kit wrote:
like. how do u respond to "it triggers my anxiety when u ask abt a vague interest that a. i dont have a lot to tell u abt, and b. has been used to make fun of me in the past" with

"why are u always calling me out for being insecure in our friendship!!!" the unsaid implication being that im really the insecure one and being unreasonable or whatever idk ??

its like girl u have an exam tmrw and are calling ur doctor today so u are looking for a reason to get upset so u can cry all day and avoid those things !

( & perhaps the reason i responded like that was bc its very clear that shes texting me looking to get into a lil back and forth to avoid doing her shit! & to whine about how she's gonna go to therapy but doesnt want to and its bad and how terrible her life is! and like im tired )
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:48
Callum
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callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:50
Kit
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Kit wrote:
"im gonna take a nap now" bitch we kNOW ! we 're not stupid ! we all know that when u sy that what u rly mean is "im gnna curl up in my bed that i hvent left yet and cry about this for the next 3-4 hours, immediately after our lil talk but it's definitely not your fault! im just letting u know that im really upset and now goign t otake a nap ! and if i fail my exam tmrw its because YOU dared bring up smth that made u uncomfortable and it ruined my study day and ur the reason i think im a failure !"
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:50
Woodstock
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Woodstock wrote:
callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
This. Why is playing VP different from playing a video game or anything else? 
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:50
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Evey wrote:
I was embarassed about who I was when I was younger, what I liked and such. Surely it grew from getting comments like that. Whenever people make remarks like that now, may it be my boyfriend or others, I just answer honestly with a serious and stern tone. Kind of to mark that I do not find it to be something worthy of making fun of. That kind of makes it less fun for them to make fun of it aswell, since I don't tag along. 

She doesn't seem to be very mature, just make so she won't comment it again and try to just focus on yourself and what makes your life work. (easier said than done but i will say it anyway) 
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:51
Kit
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Kit wrote:
callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
yeahh oof, honestly i told my 2 best friends in hs abt vp and like. to this day if we call to catch up one of them will b like "oh lololol are u still doing that virtual pornstar shit hahahahhaha" (implication: lol ur so childish and u should b embarrassed)
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:51
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Evey wrote:
Kit wrote:
callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
yeahh oof, honestly i told my 2 best friends in hs abt vp and like. to this day if we call to catch up one of them will b like "oh lololol are u still doing that virtual pornstar shit hahahahhaha" (implication: lol ur so childish and u should b embarrassed)
You do you man. Why should we all live boring adult lives, how did that become the norm? F that
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:52
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Saintal wrote:
I was embarassed about who I was when I was younger, what I liked and such. Surely it grew from getting comments like that. Whenever people make remarks like that now, may it be my boyfriend or others, I just answer honestly with a serious and stern tone. Kind of to mark that I do not find it to be something worthy of making fun of. That kind of makes it less fun for them to make fun of it aswell, since I don't tag along. 

She doesn't seem to be very mature, just make so she won't comment it again and try to just focus on yourself and what makes your life work. (easier said than done but i will say it anyway) 

ughh i wish i was that secure, honestly most of the time when ppl do that lil mocking-laughing thing i just wanna go along with it and be like "ahahaha yeah i know its sooo stupid, idk lol it's fun but i know it's for children and embarrassing"
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:53
Kit
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Kit wrote:
#justgirlythings; the completely unjustified but super overwhelming rage of being mocked for having juvenile or otherwise embarrassing interests, of having ur interests and identity policed, of being ignored, dismissed, forgotten, deemed irrelevant or unimportant, of having ur concerns and feelings invalidated bc they were inconvenient
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:55
Kit
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Kit wrote:
sorry lol now im just teleporting back in time to 2013-2016 to feel the full extent of my repressed high school rage at the super oppressive, destructive, n cruel power structures, manipulations, nd social violence of teenage girlhood whos with me
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:57
Private
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Raquelle wrote:
Kit wrote:
#justgirlythings; the completely unjustified but super overwhelming rage of being mocked for having juvenile or otherwise embarrassing interests, of having ur interests and identity policed, of being ignored, dismissed, forgotten, deemed irrelevant or unimportant, of having ur concerns and feelings invalidated bc they were inconvenient
Oh i hate that so so so much
that’s why i rarely tell anyone about things i like
they can’t just simply be happy for me 
fuckers
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:58
Private
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kruspersille wrote:
i just hope she isnt on here
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Date: 22-10-2020 12:58
Private
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Evey wrote:
Kit wrote:
Saintal wrote:
I was embarassed about who I was when I was younger, what I liked and such. Surely it grew from getting comments like that. Whenever people make remarks like that now, may it be my boyfriend or others, I just answer honestly with a serious and stern tone. Kind of to mark that I do not find it to be something worthy of making fun of. That kind of makes it less fun for them to make fun of it aswell, since I don't tag along. 

She doesn't seem to be very mature, just make so she won't comment it again and try to just focus on yourself and what makes your life work. (easier said than done but i will say it anyway) 

ughh i wish i was that secure, honestly most of the time when ppl do that lil mocking-laughing thing i just wanna go along with it and be like "ahahaha yeah i know its sooo stupid, idk lol it's fun but i know it's for children and embarrassing"
it's probably not my place to comment but if you try to work on owning who you are, eventually you might get there and people won't step on your toes anymore (maybe once but then it stops in my experience). or maybe they will just grow up eventually, who knows
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:05
Kit
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Kit wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
i just hope she isnt on here
lmao me too omfg i rly do use vp as the space to rant abt my issues w my friends bc ....

whenever i make a post on tumblr for example she likes it within the hour even if its. ... nothing to do with her or anything shes interested in or anything at all related to anything she might like so
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:05
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
Kit wrote:
#justgirlythings; the completely unjustified but super overwhelming rage of being mocked for having juvenile or otherwise embarrassing interests, of having ur interests and identity policed, of being ignored, dismissed, forgotten, deemed irrelevant or unimportant, of having ur concerns and feelings invalidated bc they were inconvenient
Oh i hate that so so so much
that’s why i rarely tell anyone about things i like
they can’t just simply be happy for me 
fuckers
teenage girlhood rly is a nightmare innit
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:07
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