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toraix wrote:
Edit: false alarm i guess since he was just using slang for "in it" or "up for it" in our language (finnish) and i didnt get it bc its literally the same as my dead name?

Like not in a haha joke way
I invited a aquintance of mine to my birthday "party" (like under 5 ppl) bc i wanted to give him the very bad ciders i bought accidentally bc i dont want To throw them away
And he just responded: *insert deadname* lets see there!!! 
And i have made so sure everytime that he knows that Im infact a trans man and not a girl
I am legit having a breakdown on a bus About this
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toraix wrote:
Like i am more manly than him so i dont get this???? This came so out of the blue
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:08
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Marcelien wrote:
sorry, just giggling a little about the fact u wanna give a friend some bad ciders u bought cus u didnt like them.

but back to the problem.

this sucks.  i understand this is hurtfull to u... :c
have u talked to him about this, that it hurt u? he might think of it just as a joke, and not understand deadnames are painfull for trans people (some, at least. i dont know v much about this topic, but i feel like this is a thing). 
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:12
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Arthema wrote:
I'd take back the invite aaaaaa
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:13
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Marcelien wrote:
Abby wrote:
I'd take back the invite aaaaaa
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ThomaStanaccount wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
Abby wrote:
I'd take back the invite aaaaaa
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:19
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ThomaStanaccount wrote:
You should prob talk to him about it. Are u friends or are u acquaintances? In both cases that's a shit thing to do both if you both aren't that close he might just forgot about it? 
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:23
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kagura wrote:
xBillieEyelashx wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
Abby wrote:
I'd take back the invite aaaaaa
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toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:26
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Arthema wrote:
toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
ask when he meant by it
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:26
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Azriel wrote:
Abby wrote:
toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
ask when he meant by it
Highly doubt they would admit to using deadname when being questioned about it
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:27
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Arthema wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Abby wrote:
toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
ask when he meant by it
Highly doubt they would admit to using deadname when being questioned about it
playing dumb can help in situations like this
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:27
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toraix wrote:
Abby wrote:
toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
ask when he meant by it
The convo just like
Me: "Im turning 20 next week and i have a party wanna come? I have free cider" 
Him: " in it!! See you there" <- but in like finnish slang
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:30
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Arthema wrote:
toraix wrote:
Abby wrote:
toraix wrote:
I still am having a panic attack but in finnish my deadname is also slang for "up for it" or "in it" so i guess he wasnt using my dead name??? 
ask when he meant by it
The convo just like
Me: "Im turning 20 next week and i have a party wanna come? I have free cider" 
Him: " in it!! See you there" <- but in like finnish slang
ohhh
so maybe
maybe it was slang
but
no other way to say it in Finnish?
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Date: 04-11-2020 16:42
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toraix wrote:
Abby wrote:
toraix wrote:
Abby wrote:
ask when he meant by it
The convo just like
Me: "Im turning 20 next week and i have a party wanna come? I have free cider" 
Him: " in it!! See you there" <- but in like finnish slang
ohhh
so maybe
maybe it was slang
but
no other way to say it in Finnish?

there is other ways and i even dont know if he knew my deadname?? so i suspect it was just misunderstanding and i am overreacting.....
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Date: 04-11-2020 17:08
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