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✨long distance relationship✨

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Brutus wrote:
any of u in one? how do u do it???
like do yalls talk a lot? give me the tips and tricks pretty please i'm a beginner

this is me in it rn

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Emiliaaaaaaa wrote:
i been in sooo maaany, ima pro at this. its like a normal relationship, whats the difference its even better. talk things u do in general and be yourself. and if u and your partner u 2 can spice up the game more, be more diiirtyy. u know hon. but talk things u always do. its nothing different like any other relationship
good luck

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DaddyIssues wrote:
Been in one for about 1,5 years now. (+4ish years from previous). We text everyday but almost never talk on the phone. We both just like being able to have a long on going conversation that we can continue whenever we have the time. Plus, it's always nice to see their name pop up on the screen a few times everyday.

Skype is amazing though for when you miss each-others company since you can just be in a call and do whatever you want (study, read, draw, etc) and just know that the other person is there with you.

Being honest is like THE KEY. I'm not talking faithful-honest. I'm talking emotionally honest. Since you don't see each other everyday or super often it's not gonna be as easy to notice if the other person is stressed, upset, etc. So actually telling the other person how you feel will both make it easier to support each other but it will also minimize brain-ghosts at the other person.

When it comes to a more personally front; make sure to live your life. After a few different distance relationships I've finally learnt the importance of making sure to keep your life going. Focus on your school, job, hobbies, future, self-care, etc. to both make the time go faster to the next time you see each other.

Another tip is to put away your phone. When I miss my boyfriend I check my phone once a minute to see if he wrote something. So put away your phone or turn off the notifications and really focus on something else for a while. This isn't the play hard by not answering right away, just let you life go first.

PiNKY96
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PiNKY96 wrote:
ive been in a lot and im in one right now!! a lot of my ldrs were... not healthy but the one im in rn thankfully is. going thru a rough patch rn (not rly in terms of the relationship itself just like... life stuff is happening) but its honestly rly rewarding. it can be hard though. be vigilante of red flags and make sure u guys regularly communicate and are honest with each other (just like an irl relationship lol)
my fave thing to do with my bf is make/listen to music or watch videos in a phone call and then fall asleep on the phone together lolol

Duckgirl
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duckgirl wrote:
pessimistic opinion u be lookin 4
ldr are horrible period
they can cheat on u real quick if they really don't luv u n get really mean sometimes bc they can't see u irl or just ignore u
I'd be really ummm cautious

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Kofod wrote:
Mine is fairly new as well. Idk how we do it, but we do.
We message eachother everyday, and talk when we have time. Sometimes we play games together online.
There are periods better than others, times where you miss your partner more than others. It's a real rollercoaster, but you just gotta keep going with your daily life

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