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DaddyIssues wrote:
Me and my long time boyfriend just broke up cause the idea of our age gap was too heavy on him. And I don't I even felt this sad. I just wanna crawl up in a little ball and cry until I puke. How the fuck am I even gonna survive the next 24h? The next 48h?

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Evey wrote:
why did he go into the relationship to begin with then...? :/ i'm sorry to hear, and especially that you feel this devastated. i did go through an awful breakup a couple of years ago and I guess I can reassure you about that it gets better. and in my experience, the time after a break up is where I grew the most. try to focus on healing for some time, and then start building a life around just yourself. that's an amazing thing that should be cherished, but i understand that it feels like a shitty alternative to what you had.

this one helped me get perspective on why things hurt and made things hurt less

spend time with friends and family, irl or virtually, and try to keep yourself decently occupied! are some advice from me heh

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DEITY wrote:
im sorry for ur breakup

its gonna get better tho i promise just hang in there !!!

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Start with crying*, and if things feel too heavy, try to make a routine to follow every day until you feel better again so you don't neglect yourself in the process.

* when you are in a safe spot, that is.

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Evey wrote:
and watch something you like!! i watched grey's anatomy two days straight together with my mom after my break up and that shit was bomb

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why did he go into the relationship to begin with then...? :/ i'm sorry to hear, and especially that you feel this devastated. i did go through an awful breakup a couple of years ago and I guess I can reassure you about that it gets better. and in my experience, the time after a break up is where I grew the most. try to focus on healing for some time, and then start building a life around just yourself. that's an amazing thing that should be cherished, but i understand that it feels like a shitty alternative to what you had.

this one helped me get perspective on why things hurt and made things hurt less
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spend time with friends and family, irl or virtually, and try to keep yourself decently occupied! are some advice from me heh

Cause we were never suppose to get in a relationship but we just really liked the other persons company. So were together now for 2 years before he apparently figured out he couldn't change his mind around it.

Gonna watch the video.

I know but I just can't breath right now

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Delusion1111111 wrote:
its gonna feel like u wont survive until u realise that u r surviving and that u will carry on surviving <3 i promise ur gonna b ok. literally just spend the next few days binge-watching something enjoyable n easy (for me it was rupauls drag race i think...N queer eye LOOOL) . its gonna hurt less n less. the hurt ur feeling right now is probably the worst of it if thats any reassurance

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Evey wrote:

DaddyIssues wrote:

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why did he go into the relationship to begin with then...? :/ i'm sorry to hear, and especially that you feel this devastated. i did go through an awful breakup a couple of years ago and I guess I can reassure you about that it gets better. and in my experience, the time after a break up is where I grew the most. try to focus on healing for some time, and then start building a life around just yourself. that's an amazing thing that should be cherished, but i understand that it feels like a shitty alternative to what you had.

this one helped me get perspective on why things hurt and made things hurt less
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spend time with friends and family, irl or virtually, and try to keep yourself decently occupied! are some advice from me heh

Cause we were never suppose to get in a relationship but we just really liked the other persons company. So were together now for 2 years before he apparently figured out he couldn't change his mind around it.

Gonna watch the video.

I know but I just can't breath right now

That's not very nicely done of him imo, but I don't know everything about the situation of course. I hope you will be able to move on soon.

Good, I hope it helps!

I understand. Take care of yourself

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kagura wrote:
i know it feels like the end of the world and sadly only time helps. give yourself space to grieve
cry, binge watch something silly and eat whole can of ice cream at once etc. i think it's breaking up coping method cliche for a reason

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luminescence wrote:
if you ever want/need to talk to someone, i'm here

i've recently went through a break up myself but we got back together so idk if i'm much of a help. the first week was the worst, but i'm sure it'll slowly get better for you as well !! sending hugs

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I was more than convinced that I would not survive without my ex, I legit thought I was dying and my life was shattered. But somehow it become better. It will for you too. It hurts like a motherfucker right now but trust that you will be okay, give it time. I promise it will get easier.

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Versailles wrote:
oh my god im so sorry, heartbreak is very painful <'3

The next 24-48 hours you need to take care of yourself, cry, heck even scream. Contact irl ppl you trust and talk on the phone or in person. It's going to be hard, and heavy, but you'll get trough it. Hang on. I've been there as well

Allow yourself expressing your feelings and let it out. Writing it down helps too.
Im here for ya

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AtlantaG1912 wrote:
if i can get over my ex cheating on me with my best friend hun and i found it while we were on holiday all because i wasn't ready to take the relationship to the next level and he wanted to get some action. Then you'll be able to get over this i promise xx

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if i can get over my ex cheating on me with my best friend hun and i found it while we were on holiday all because i wasn't ready to take the relationship to the next level and he wanted to get some action. Then you'll be able to get over this i promise xx

suffering isn't a competition

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AtlantaG1912 wrote:
if i can get over my ex cheating on me with my best friend hun and i found it while we were on holiday all because i wasn't ready to take the relationship to the next level and he wanted to get some action. Then you'll be able to get over this i promise xx

suffering isn't a competition

For God sake i never said it was i was just saying that if i could get through something like that then she could get through it.

I'm so sick of people like yourself saying stuff like this when i havent done anything wrong!

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I know it sucks and hurts like hell now, but it gets better eventually <3