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DaddyIssues wrote:
I don't wanna be the person to make 105 threads about a breakup, but I reallly just needed som advice.
We broke on this Monday (16/11) and it ended pretty clean, however it was some question-marks left. He broke up with me cause of reasons that REALLY don't fit together and don't really seem lika reasons to end a 1,5 year relationship because of. And since it kinda came like a shock to me I never had any time to first process it and then ask any questions before we hung up.
So my question is; how should I fix this on in the best way possible?
I really wanna talk with him about why he broke up. Not in a mean-name-calling way but as a way for me to be able to truly move on. I'm not expecting a "I' made a mistake and want you back" cause I much rather want a "I'm not in love with you anymore" then the "I can't put my finger on it" that I have now.
That whole convo is most defiantly gonna happened over text message UNLESS I wait until after new years eve since there is no way we can meet until then, and I feel like that is too long to wait to actually get some answers.
His birthday is 26/11 and since it ended pretty clean and there are no hard feelings (except for some broken hearts) I'm definitely going to wish him happy birthday.
The problem is this; I on top of this need some "no-contact" time just to stop thinking about him every minute. So should I have the why we breakup talk before or shortly after his birthday? And then follow that with like a month of no contact.
OR should I wish him happy birthday, then not talk to him for a while and only after that have the why we breakup talk face to face?
I don't wanna be the person to make 105 threads about a breakup, but I reallly just needed som advice.
We broke on this Monday (16/11) and it ended pretty clean, however it was some question-marks left. He broke up with me cause of reasons that REALLY don't fit together and don't really seem lika reasons to end a 1,5 year relationship because of. And since it kinda came like a shock to me I never had any time to first process it and then ask any questions before we hung up.
So my question is; how should I fix this on in the best way possible?
I really wanna talk with him about why he broke up. Not in a mean-name-calling way but as a way for me to be able to truly move on. I'm not expecting a "I' made a mistake and want you back" cause I much rather want a "I'm not in love with you anymore" then the "I can't put my finger on it" that I have now.
That whole convo is most defiantly gonna happened over text message UNLESS I wait until after new years eve since there is no way we can meet until then, and I feel like that is too long to wait to actually get some answers.
His birthday is 26/11 and since it ended pretty clean and there are no hard feelings (except for some broken hearts) I'm definitely going to wish him happy birthday.
The problem is this; I on top of this need some "no-contact" time just to stop thinking about him every minute. So should I have the why we breakup talk before or shortly after his birthday? And then follow that with like a month of no contact.
OR should I wish him happy birthday, then not talk to him for a while and only after that have the why we breakup talk face to face?
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