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Evey wrote:
Do you prioritise love? How high is it on your "list"? 

Would you end a good relationship that you've been in for years, if you got a great job opportunity? Why/Why not? 

What is the most important life factor for your happiness and fulfillment? 
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Claire wrote:
why would i need to end a relationship over a job opportunity what is the scenario here

ideally if ive been with someone for YEARS we've already had a conversation about whose career takes priority and who has to move for work or whatever.
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Date: 23-11-2020 21:16
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Claire wrote:
like i dont get the question me and doug would have a conversation and figure out how to make it work so were both happy.
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Evey wrote:
Claire wrote:
why would i need to end a relationship over a job opportunity what is the scenario here

ideally if ive been with someone for YEARS we've already had a conversation about whose career takes priority and who has to move for work or whatever.
I guess if both people have careers they really care about, that makes them feel fulfilled and happy and the opportunity meant the both of them have to move for example. or if the job isn't even in the same country. and if you prioritise work over love I guess that's also why a job opportunity would be a reason to end a relationship. that one decide to say yes to the opportunity and tells their partner that either they tag along, moving where the job is, or it ends. or if the job means that one wouldn't have any free time, or something like that 
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Date: 23-11-2020 21:21
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Claire wrote:
Saintal wrote:
Claire wrote:
why would i need to end a relationship over a job opportunity what is the scenario here

ideally if ive been with someone for YEARS we've already had a conversation about whose career takes priority and who has to move for work or whatever.
I guess if both people have careers they really care about, that makes them feel fulfilled and happy and the opportunity meant the both of them have to move for example. or if the job isn't even in the same country. and if you prioritise work over love I guess that's also why a job opportunity would be a reason to end a relationship. that one decide to say yes to the opportunity and tells their partner that either they tag along, moving where the job is, or it ends. or if the job means that one wouldn't have any free time, or something like that 
if i have a job offer that moves me to another country then they can do something for my spouse. you see this a lot with college professors where they hire a spouse as part of the deal to get the professor to their college. 

idk me and doug are partners if i have an opportunity that means he has an opportunity.
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Date: 23-11-2020 21:22
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Rotte wrote:
No i would not choose a great job over my love, if that means we would have to break up.
A job is mainly a way of income and is not something i personally live for. So i would definitely choose the second best job if that means i can stay with my boyfriend.
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Evey wrote:
Claire wrote:
Saintal wrote:
Claire wrote:
why would i need to end a relationship over a job opportunity what is the scenario here

ideally if ive been with someone for YEARS we've already had a conversation about whose career takes priority and who has to move for work or whatever.
I guess if both people have careers they really care about, that makes them feel fulfilled and happy and the opportunity meant the both of them have to move for example. or if the job isn't even in the same country. and if you prioritise work over love I guess that's also why a job opportunity would be a reason to end a relationship. that one decide to say yes to the opportunity and tells their partner that either they tag along, moving where the job is, or it ends. or if the job means that one wouldn't have any free time, or something like that 
if i have a job offer that moves me to another country then they can do something for my spouse. you see this a lot with college professors where they hire a spouse as part of the deal to get the professor to their college. 

idk me and doug are partners if i have an opportunity that means he has an opportunity.
I guess you prioritise love very highly then
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Angelica wrote:
No i would not choose a great job over my love, if that means we would have to break up.
A job is mainly a way of income and is not something i personally live for. So i would definitely choose the second best job if that means i can stay with my boyfriend.
I totally get that! I guess it's not really an interesting question if career isn't something you feel passionate about
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duckgirl wrote:
i would put my SO over my dream job, so i guess you can get an idea
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Rotte wrote:
Saintal wrote:
Angelica wrote:
No i would not choose a great job over my love, if that means we would have to break up.
A job is mainly a way of income and is not something i personally live for. So i would definitely choose the second best job if that means i can stay with my boyfriend.
I totally get that! I guess it's not really an interesting question if career isn't something you feel passionate about
For sure. 
I could imagine there is someone on here somewhere that prioritize job and lives and breath for working.
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Versailles wrote:
Relationship and future first. I care about my loved ones more than I care about job opportunities. Job can come and go, but my love is who I want to build a good life with. 
If I were a teen or much younger with non serious relationship - then I would say yes, i'd go for job. 
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Marcelien wrote:
i would not break up with my boyfriend for a million dollars. he is my rock, my supportsystem, and i dont think i could handle my life without him.
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devilcake wrote:
i mean i don't value a job or career that high but i also don't think love is my like highest highest priority ? it all depends on what u compare it too.
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Evey wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
i would not break up with my boyfriend for a million dollars. he is my rock, my supportsystem, and i dont think i could handle my life without him.
Hmm

I am with a great guy that I love very much and have never been this in love with someone, or the idea of love, ever. At the same time, I have a great strive to become the best version of myself and to always be ready to live on my own, by myself, if the relationship goes to shit/he dies or whatever. I think about this scenario a lot, like with most things. I see the worst scenario and don't wanna jump into things where I couldn't take that worst. So I wouldn't wanna regret not taking my dream job for someone who might fuck me over/leave me by dying or whatever. And I feel very passionate about what I study, and my future career. 

..So I am amazed that a lot of you seems to know exactly how you would prioritise in these situations. I guess I am happy for you all, that you see things so clearly! 
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Evey wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i mean i don't value a job or career that high but i also don't think love is my like highest highest priority ? it all depends on what u compare it too.
Very interesting!! Is there something you prioritise higher than career and love? 
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commander2 wrote:
idk i dont rlly do the love thing w relationships 
im prob gonna have to move away from my family for work in a few years tho, I think about that a lot bbut yeah, def picking work over my famly, but that's not a breakup or whatever of course
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