Claire wrote:Angelica wrote:Claire wrote:
doug went behind my back and talked to my dad and got thanksgiving cancelled lmao. i was gonna go to my parents house last weekend for a meal and doug is too worried about rising covid numbers and he's right. doug works as a barber you know and he touches people all day you know and my mom is like 65 and my dad is 70 so he like almost cried saying he couldnt livve with himself if my parents got sick or died because of him brining covid into their home. like it would have just been my parents and me and doug and my sister and her husband are living with my parents right now. and my dad was like 'well maybe the people from chicago can come and wear masks and sit across the room from the people who live in joliet and maybe this and that' and i was like dad that sounds like crazytown shit i think dougs right and well stay here.
i honestly hope that illinois goes into lockdown so doug cant go to work so we can quarantine for two weeks and then go visit my parents for christmas.
doug asked me if i watned him to cook tomorrow and like it just made me sad so i didnt answer him lmao.
Honestly your relationship is so refreshing amongst all the negative ones on vp! He seems to really care about u (and your family in this case)
for a while i felt guilty talking about him on vp because its like im rubbing my healthy relationship in everyones faces but like yall need a good example around here tbh lmao. and i had to have shit relationsihps before i had this one.
and like idk how healthy it is to be going behind my back talking to my dad LMAO but it was
absolutely the right thing to do and im glad he did it lol. when my dad was tryna bargain like wear a mask and sit twenty feet away or whatever i said straight up like 'i am not thinking rationally im emotional about all this you have to talk to doug about it if were gonna find a solution cause im not using the right parts of my brain here and doug is' like my parents are the age that covid would be really bad for them and my mom has poor health and like god forbid i dont know that she could survive that shit at all. the holidays are gonna suck this year but hopefull ythat means ill have my mom for many more holidays in the future. idk.
damnnn im glad someone made a thread about thanksgiving didnt realize i needed to vent lmaoo.
I mean he could for sure have told u first, no doubt, He did it with good intend at least so that's good!