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murdurur wrote:
couples therapy? or know anything about it at all?

i'm so stressed lmao

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Flamink wrote:
no, i kinda wanted to with my ex bf but he refuses any form of therapy. one of the reason hes an ex now dwaiojd
i hope you'll figure something out, maybe try looking at reddit or some other forum sites??

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emogirrrl123 wrote:
Babeee.... He treated you like trash. You shouldn't keep him in your life

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Versailles wrote:
i haven't and won't unless im having kids and things go iffy
or depends how long youæve been. Usually communicating sorts things out or u find out ur better off single.

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emogirrrl123 wrote:
You're such a caring, beautiful human being and it saddens me to see that you're putting your standards this low. Of course, you do what you believe is the best thing to do but please think of how long this went on (no regrets, I guess) and how he treated you. You deserve so much better.

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Limited wrote:
kind of yeah, its so nice and i like it

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My parents went. I would give them an F.

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Anachronism wrote:
Take a few shots and you'll be good

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Anachronism wrote:

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Take a few shots and you'll be good

Nah ignore me

I'd be nervous

If hes open to communicating, learning and making amends it should be fine

If not... brace yourself, had family therapy and it was awful, my mom was belligerent

Hope you figure it out and if hes not willing to get anything out of the session, throw his ass to da curve line

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murdurur wrote:

Sera wrote:
You're such a caring, beautiful human being and it saddens me to see that you're putting your standards this low. Of course, you do what you believe is the best thing to do but please think of how long this went on (no regrets, I guess) and how he treated you. You deserve so much better.

thank you so much man

and yeah i agree my standards are actually kinda low lol, but he does actually seem to be a little bit more understanding now. he's scared of going to therapy because that would make his/our problems ''real'', which is exactly what i want him to understand lol, there's no dodging this, no pretending it's not a big deal. he will have to face this whether he wants to or not if this relationship is going to keep being a thing.

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Nesta wrote:
My parents went. I would give them an F.

no point in going on if it's not working

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murdurur wrote:

Anachronism wrote:

Anachronism wrote:
Take a few shots and you'll be good

Nah ignore me

I'd be nervous

If hes open to communicating, learning and making amends it should be fine

If not... brace yourself, had family therapy and it was awful, my mom was belligerent

Hope you figure it out and if hes not willing to get anything out of the session, throw his ass to da curve line

dw i will. this is kinda like my last option so while i genuinely believe it's gonna do us both good, it's also kind of the ultimate test. if this isn't enough there's nothing else for me to do and dat ass will be yote. at least my conscience is 100% clean this time and i know i've done everything to my best ability and really given everything i could to make shit work. that in itself is really freeing lol.