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Chocolata wrote:
I have no friends who I trust to take this seriously so it's obviously a way better idea to ask strangers on the internets xD

Anyway, I'm questioning my sexuality. Been feeling sexually attracted to a few guys who passed me by once or who were celebrities aka unreachable.
But I've been noticing that I hate the male body, I literally can't look at most guys and have to turn over the page if there's a photo of one or have to look away if there's one in real life. However, looking at women is fine for me and I even find myself outright staring. I also find the female body really beautiful (but not sexual, I think) while seeing the male is... scary?

I should mention that I grew up among women without a male figure so maybe it's also a psychological issue but I'm just so confused? Like imagining a relationship with a guy is fine but then seeing him? Nope. Am a virgin btw

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Mymlen wrote:
hmm i see

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Chocolata wrote:

Mymlen wrote:
hmm i see

hmm

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Claire wrote:
i mean the average male body is pretty gross lmao but i'm still attracted to men for some ungodly reason lmao

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Claire wrote:
i mean the average male body is pretty gross lmao but i'm still attracted to men for some ungodly reason lmao

Funny thing is that I like some dressed? Like please cover all your body and have long silky hair and I will love you. Sometimes the guys I like look more like women than men

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don't rush it and just let it come to you. The most important thing is not to do anything you feel uncomfortable with, if the other person doesn't feel that way they are not worth it anyway.

idk how old you are but it's completely normal to not have stuff figured out at any age.

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Claire wrote:

Chocolata wrote:

Claire wrote:
i mean the average male body is pretty gross lmao but i'm still attracted to men for some ungodly reason lmao

Funny thing is that I like some dressed? Like please cover all your body and have long silky hair and I will love you. Sometimes the guys I like look more like women than men

yea

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anahel wrote:
i also did not have a male figure in my life when i was growing up but i don't think that really had an impact on my sexuality but it can be dif for you. I think that the only thing you can do is being patient with yourself and your sexuality, don't rush it, let it be. Thinking that a female body is beautiful doesn't mean that you could like girl at all. It's more of a ''could i be in a realtionship with a woman?'' i think

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don't rush it and just let it come to you. The most important thing is not to do anything you feel uncomfortable with, if the other person doesn't feel that way they are not worth it anyway.

idk how old you are but it's completely normal to not have stuff figured out at any age.

Thanks for the encouragement, I appreciate it.
Tbh I'm scared that I'll never find anyone and die alone, unloved and all by myself, without offspring or anything. I had friends who told me I would never find a partner and so far, I haven't even had a male friend despite being full of age.

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Claire wrote:

Chocolata wrote:

disintegration wrote:
don't rush it and just let it come to you. The most important thing is not to do anything you feel uncomfortable with, if the other person doesn't feel that way they are not worth it anyway.

idk how old you are but it's completely normal to not have stuff figured out at any age.

Thanks for the encouragement, I appreciate it.
Tbh I'm scared that I'll never find anyone and die alone, unloved and all by myself, without offspring or anything. I had friends who told me I would never find a partner and so far, I haven't even had a male friend despite being full of age.

jesus get new friends

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Chocolata wrote:

anahel wrote:
i also did not have a male figure in my life when i was growing up but i don't think that really had an impact on my sexuality but it can be dif for you. I think that the only thing you can do is being patient with yourself and your sexuality, don't rush it, let it be. Thinking that a female body is beautiful doesn't mean that you could like girl at all. It's more of a ''could i be in a realtionship with a woman?'' i think

Wow, good to know that others experienced this too!
Actually, I've seen a male's body before and he asked me if I had a phobia because it was terrible for me, I could barely look at it... Faces are difficult to look at sometimes, too.
Yeah, patience probably is gonna be the best. Thanks for reminding me.
Been drawing a lot of females and I appreciate their anatomy so much more than the male, guys just look so... ugly? But maybe it's because of the models, too. Never thought about being in a relationship tbh

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Chocolata wrote:

Claire wrote:

Chocolata wrote:

disintegration wrote:
don't rush it and just let it come to you. The most important thing is not to do anything you feel uncomfortable with, if the other person doesn't feel that way they are not worth it anyway.

idk how old you are but it's completely normal to not have stuff figured out at any age.

Thanks for the encouragement, I appreciate it.
Tbh I'm scared that I'll never find anyone and die alone, unloved and all by myself, without offspring or anything. I had friends who told me I would never find a partner and so far, I haven't even had a male friend despite being full of age.

jesus get new friends

We broke contact and now I have no friends in my area anymore xD

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Chocolata wrote:

anahel wrote:
i also did not have a male figure in my life when i was growing up but i don't think that really had an impact on my sexuality but it can be dif for you. I think that the only thing you can do is being patient with yourself and your sexuality, don't rush it, let it be. Thinking that a female body is beautiful doesn't mean that you could like girl at all. It's more of a ''could i be in a realtionship with a woman?'' i think

Wow, good to know that others experienced this too!
Actually, I've seen a male's body before and he asked me if I had a phobia because it was terrible for me, I could barely look at it... Faces are difficult to look at sometimes, too.
Yeah, patience probably is gonna be the best. Thanks for reminding me.
Been drawing a lot of females and I appreciate their anatomy so much more than the male, guys just look so... ugly? But maybe it's because of the models, too. Never thought about being in a relationship tbh

Oh i see tbh i find your situation really interesting and i hope we will figure this out somehow
And also about the ''body situation'' i feel like i understand you, as long as i dont really find a male body ugly nor scary i do think a female one is way prettier and more goddnes like i would even say. I feel like theres a lot of things you would have to try to be sure about it but don't do anything that would be out of your comfort zone. Maybe you are sexually atracted to female bodies but mentaly you are into boys?

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anahel wrote:

Chocolata wrote:

anahel wrote:
i also did not have a male figure in my life when i was growing up but i don't think that really had an impact on my sexuality but it can be dif for you. I think that the only thing you can do is being patient with yourself and your sexuality, don't rush it, let it be. Thinking that a female body is beautiful doesn't mean that you could like girl at all. It's more of a ''could i be in a realtionship with a woman?'' i think

Wow, good to know that others experienced this too!
Actually, I've seen a male's body before and he asked me if I had a phobia because it was terrible for me, I could barely look at it... Faces are difficult to look at sometimes, too.
Yeah, patience probably is gonna be the best. Thanks for reminding me.
Been drawing a lot of females and I appreciate their anatomy so much more than the male, guys just look so... ugly? But maybe it's because of the models, too. Never thought about being in a relationship tbh

Oh i see tbh i find your situation really interesting and i hope we will figure this out somehow
And also about the ''body situation'' i feel like i understand you, as long as i dont really find a male body ugly nor scary i do think a female one is way prettier and more goddnes like i would even say. I feel like theres a lot of things you would have to try to be sure about it but don't do anything that would be out of your comfort zone. Maybe you are sexually atracted to female bodies but mentaly you are into boys?

Haha, thanks for sticking with me in this xD
I'm not sure but isn't what we feel attracted to defined by the people we were around in our early childhood? There was one guy around occasionally and the guy I used to text did share very few physical similarities with him. Or maybe because I mainly know women, I keep looking for familiar physiques? It's really weird tbh.