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Serious Gender Question
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I need some gender non conforming or gender non binary or gender neutral or genderqueer people to talk to me about their experiences/journeys with their gender. If you don't want to have it here in public feel free to pm me 😊
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i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.
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acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.

So you identify as a woman but you're not the "typical feminine woman"? Or you don't identify as a woman period?
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yea i've great story
>think you're a trans for years
>come to conclusion you're not
>still don't really feel like a girl/woman and hate your body
>yeah whatever what's point ofĀ  gender anyway
>don't indentify yourself as anything
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Vanity wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.

So you identify as a woman but you're not the "typical feminine woman"? Or you don't identify as a woman period?
i'm a woman
idk how you got "i'm not a woman" from that.Ā 

it's basically me saying fuck it and stopping adhering to socities standards of femininityĀ 
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acidreflux wrote:
Vanity wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.

So you identify as a woman but you're not the "typical feminine woman"? Or you don't identify as a woman period?
i'm a woman
idk how you got "i'm not a woman" from that.Ā 

it's basically me saying fuck it and stopping adhering to socities standards of femininityĀ 

Oh yeah I get it, just wanted to make sure since I get confused easily sometimes lol
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kagura wrote:
yea i've great story
>think you're a trans for years
>come to conclusion you're not
>still don't really feel like a girl/woman and hate your body
>yeah whatever what's point ofĀ  gender anyway
>don't indentify yourself as anything

That might be my thing kind of... Not sure though...
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acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.
i think i had same kind of experience of that. because i never liked "girly" things when i was a kid. i was into videogames, football,i liked to dig up worm from dirt, i abolute refused to wear a dress etc... my bestfriend was a boy and never really get along with other girls in my class. or i did but i did not made friends with them
so needless to say, there's been that "that's not what you're supposed to do/like" pressing for my whole life
i think it's big part of why i felt i might be trans. when i told my big sister she was like "-.- like i didn't know since you were 3"
so yeah it be like that
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i also have a question
does cis ppl usually use a lot of time thinking about gender?
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kagura wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
i'm a gnc dyke.Ā 
thought i was a trans man, but i was a woman who hated being treated like a woman + i was in such a spiral of selfhatred and denial, it was easier for me to just ... not deal with it.

i'm a woman through and through. i just like not confirming to societies ideals of how women are supposed to look/act.
i think i had same kind of experience of that. because i never liked "girly" things when i was a kid. i was into videogames, football,i liked to dig up worm from dirt, i abolute refused to wear a dress etc... my bestfriend was a boy and never really get along with other girls in my class. or i did but i did not made friends with them
so needless to say, there's been that "that's not what you're supposed to do/like" pressing for my whole life
i think it's big part of why i felt i might be trans. when i told my big sister she was like "-.- like i didn't know since you were 3"
so yeah it be like that
imo it sounds like you were a tomboy who was treated like shit for being a tomboy and not a girly girl girl like society wanted you to be.

and now, it can be hard handling the emotions around womanhood - since it's associated with something bad/painful.
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Melk wrote:
i also have a question
does cis ppl usually use a lot of time thinking about gender?

Idk, I'm trying to figure out my gender situation, I'm still not sure wtf I am
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im in the "genders isnt real" boat honestly i dont think ive ever experienced a feeling of gender in my life. i cant conceptualise what it is in my head n i dont subscribe to it at all. i didnt get it as a kid i didnt get it as a teen and i dont get it as an adult. i supposeĀ agender is the right term for that but i cant be bothered to care even that much. ion need a gender label or identity and im fine with whatever ppl chose to perceiveĀ me as (which recently has been very feminine)

i guess it can be summarized as born - confusion about society - teen - do i wanna bang troye sivan or look like troye sivan - conclude its both - vibe
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lamb wrote:
im in the "genders isnt real" boat honestly i dont think ive ever experienced a feeling of gender in my life. i cant conceptualise what it is in my head n i dont subscribe to it at all. i didnt get it as a kid i didnt get it as a teen and i dont get it as an adult. i supposeĀ agender is the right term for that but i cant be bothered to care even that much. ion need a gender label or identity and im fine with whatever ppl chose to perceiveĀ me as (which recently has been very feminine)

i guess it can be summarized as born - confusion about society - teen - do i wanna bang troye sivan or look like troye sivan - conclude its both - vibe

I see what you're saying, I guess I kinda agree with the whole conceptualising gender thing, I'm not sure how exactly I would describe it...
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from a really early age i already hated dressing feminine and i've always been a tomboy rly
but ngl i've denied my identity for so long because i thought i was just a 'confused woman' but the more time has gone i've realized i never have identified with being a woman
n idk through some search within myself i've come to the conclusion and to terms with that i am nonbinary
i don't identify neither as a woman nor a man
i'd say i feel like i'm inbetween,,in the middle of the scale basically
i know i feel much better when people use they/them pronouns abt me because it's what i've always felt, just not having been able to express that
i'm still exploring tho n still trying to find myself within my own identity, but it feels good being out online at least
when the time is right i will come out irl as well,, but i'm not gonna rush anything

but a tip i could give is, let it take time, try out different things, research and listen to other people's stories etc!! it can help understanding urself as well as others!
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Vanity wrote:
lamb wrote:
im in the "genders isnt real" boat honestly i dont think ive ever experienced a feeling of gender in my life. i cant conceptualise what it is in my head n i dont subscribe to it at all. i didnt get it as a kid i didnt get it as a teen and i dont get it as an adult. i supposeĀ agender is the right term for that but i cant be bothered to care even that much. ion need a gender label or identity and im fine with whatever ppl chose to perceiveĀ me as (which recently has been very feminine)

i guess it can be summarized as born - confusion about society - teen - do i wanna bang troye sivan or look like troye sivan - conclude its both - vibe

I see what you're saying, I guess I kinda agree with the whole conceptualising gender thing, I'm not sure how exactly I would describe it...
its not something to stress urself out about honestly, u cant force urself to realise something before u actually know it, u kno. a ponder here n there will give u answers in time
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Doghead wrote:
from a really early age i already hated dressing feminine and i've always been a tomboy rly
but ngl i've denied my identity for so long because i thought i was just a 'confused woman' but the more time has gone i've realized i never have identified with being a woman
n idk through some search within myself i've come to the conclusion and to terms with that i am nonbinary
i don't identify neither as a woman nor a man
i'd say i feel like i'm inbetween,,in the middle of the scale basically
i know i feel much better when people use they/them pronouns abt me because it's what i've always felt, just not having been able to express that
i'm still exploring tho n still trying to find myself within my own identity, but it feels good being out online at least
when the time is right i will come out irl as well,, but i'm not gonna rush anything

but a tip i could give is, let it take time, try out different things, research and listen to other people's stories etc!! it can help understanding urself as well as others!

I think I don't mind what pronouns people use for me, whether it's he, she or they I won't mind as long as you use it with respect, and I think that's a big part of why I'm confused, because I don't mind any of them
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