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RareRevolution wrote:
I was on Pinterest today and someone posted a picture of like their circular bed stuffed into a nook with the perfect beam of sunshine to hit them right in the face. Instantly I was like “I want that”, and then I realized... I want that, not to share but for ME! 

This is when I began spiraling. 

Is it super weird if I really want a relationship and a husband, but I don’t really want one either, in the sense, that I want my own bigass bed, my own office, my own books, my own space for my own things (I’m almost 22) Like I really don’t wanna share. And the more I thought about it, the more I went to the “do I actually want a guy, or do I really just want a dog?”.

However on the other hand, I really want a guy, someone who I can buy presents on their birthday. Someone to text goodnight and good morning. Someone to make brunch in bed for. And now I’m all conflicted and feeling weird, and I need to know if someone out there can relate?

someone tell me if I’m a contradicting weirdo
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Rotte wrote:
You want the affection, but not what comes with it maybe.. i mean a dog sounds like a good middle ground (; 
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uhyre wrote:
u dont have to share living space w ur partner u kno
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RareRevolution wrote:
lamb wrote:
u dont have to share living space w ur partner u kno
Yeah I know, but I still feel conflicted 
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Arthema wrote:
Nothing wrong with that,  you still have all the time in the world to think about that 
I did think that like a LOT before,
especially when I was in a relationship with my ex, if I really wanted that

And now I'm 21 and well I want it? a relationship? but I also want some me time and well
work on myself and stuff and not care about it
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Abby wrote:
Nothing wrong with that,  you still have all the time in the world to think about that 
I did think that like a LOT before,
especially when I was in a relationship with my ex, if I really wanted that

And now I'm 21 and well I want it? a relationship? but I also want some me time and well
work on myself and stuff and not care about it
I guess ones perception of the whole thing changes too when one is actually in a relationship with someone who you can see yourself do these things with
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kagura wrote:
no why would i be weird? everybody is different, so everybody's relationships are differents too. so there's no rules you have to follow. you can be in a relationship and never move together for example if you don't feel like sharing your personal space
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Arthema wrote:
RareRevolution wrote:
Abby wrote:
Nothing wrong with that,  you still have all the time in the world to think about that 
I did think that like a LOT before,
especially when I was in a relationship with my ex, if I really wanted that

And now I'm 21 and well I want it? a relationship? but I also want some me time and well
work on myself and stuff and not care about it
I guess ones perception of the whole thing changes too when one is actually in a relationship with someone who you can see yourself do these things with
True, my ex was garbage so maybe now I'm like this because I'm thinking twice before just going for it,
though I did find someone after now a lot of time since I broken up from my ex,
but we're taking things slowly so it gives me more time to think

But yeah it is totally normal and I say just take your time, let things come naturally
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devilcake wrote:
idk i feel like in my ideal living situation with a partner we'd still have separate rooms and a degree of privacy. And also like you dont ever have to live with a partner, it's just like good for the wallet but other than that it's one of those dumb things society decided you have to, but honestly you dont????  so i dont think its weird personally no
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RareRevolution wrote:
devilcake wrote:
idk i feel like in my ideal living situation with a partner we'd still have separate rooms and a degree of privacy. And also like you dont ever have to live with a partner, it's just like good for the wallet but other than that it's one of those dumb things society decided you have to, but honestly you dont????  so i dont think its weird personally no
Yeah I’d like if we had like our own rooms or smt. Like we can share a bed but knock before you come in and touch my stuff 
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Raquelle wrote:
Omg i feel almost exactly the same way
if i ever get a partner i probably don’t want to share my bedroom with them 
and like
i want to feel free
idk maybe a romantic relationship is not for me
maybe at one point it will be
never know
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ShyChy wrote:
I can’t imagine sharing a bed with someone. I want a dog and a relationship but I dont like sharing my space with someone so I can’t picture myself living with a guy and my dog would have to maybe sleep on the bed once and a while. 
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
yh i frequently think abt this too bcos me and my bf always talk abt moving in together but then we r like 'we NEED separare rooms like ideally a shared bedroom but like an office space each' lmao as if we would b able to afford that but in an ideal world u know.......

but no i dnt think ur feelings r weird at all like a LOT of ppl feel that way n relationships r tricky bcos u do constantly have to balance like. two ppl who want to be together but want and need to maintain their independence as well u know what i mean ?
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RareRevolution wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
yh i frequently think abt this too bcos me and my bf always talk abt moving in together but then we r like 'we NEED separare rooms like ideally a shared bedroom but like an office space each' lmao as if we would b able to afford that but in an ideal world u know.......

but no i dnt think ur feelings r weird at all like a LOT of ppl feel that way n relationships r tricky bcos u do constantly have to balance like. two ppl who want to be together but want and need to maintain their independence as well u know what i mean ?
Yeah exactly! I’d be worried I’d be feeling like I’m giving up my independence or smt
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wug wrote:
Yeah nah sorry I think it sounds very weird and it's coming from me, I'd want to be married and I wouldn't mind sharing my entire life except being in the bathroom at the same time because that's peak privacy and it's the most private of everything. I don't want the affection tho, I hate that. 
We're maybe like opposites here if I understood you right 
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