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how hard did you take it when your grandparent(s) died? sorry if this is a weird question to ask, i'm just trying to gauge what might be the normal amount of grief to have. tho i guess that might be hard to describe
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I was pretty much in physical pain for days, because i couldn't deal with it mentally and i was very depressed for some weeks after. 
I still occasionally cry about it too.
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U gotta remember that people grief differently and every amount of grief is acceptable thought. If it's from personal experience u are asking, just want u to know that what ever u deal with is valid. 
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Not very much but maybe that's because I still haven't fully realized that I will never talk to them again 2 years later and because the funerals were overshaded by family drama so I was more angry and pissed than sad.
But everyone grieves differently and some see their grandparents twice a year and others live in the same house and are very close. 
However you feel, it's okay and thinking it isn't would be pointless because you can't change it anyway. 
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I mean for me I wouldn't care too much since I dislike my grandparents n dont really see them,, think it really depends on how well you like/ how close you were with whoever passed.,,, my partner totally like broke down when his grandfather died tho so ya
if ya want 2 calculate some weird 'normal amount of grief' id prob find some people who all loved/ cared for/ were tight with their passed grandparents n hear them out & also a bunch of ppl w no real relation or connection 2 their grandparents n c the diff cause I think that's where it mainly varies

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i still feel emotional pain when I think of them not being here anymore. they were more of my parents than my actual parents, so i guess context and how much you were connected to them matters
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i was very sad (when my mothers father died) but I didn't have the factor of "not getting to see him regularly, as part of my life, anymore" because I hadn't seen him in like 8 years because he lives in another country. it was a grand loss because he had been part of my childhood, but it didn't make me devastated, just sad. now i remember him with great fondness. 

I guess the sadness would be greater if one sees them more often, since it affects your life immedietly in another way

when my fathers parents died I didn't care too much but I was quite young. i didn't know them. 
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Not very much but maybe that's because I still haven't fully realized that I will never talk to them again 2 years later and because the funerals were overshaded by family drama so I was more angry and pissed than sad.
But everyone grieves differently and some see their grandparents twice a year and others live in the same house and are very close. 
However you feel, it's okay and thinking it isn't would be pointless because you can't change it anyway. 
yeah ig i'm more thinking about how much grief i can show outwardly, without ppl saying that i'm overreacting and stuff. but it is hard for me to accept it as well i'll admit.
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I'm sorry for your loss. 

Also there are no 'right' ways to experience or show grief. If anyone has anything to say about how you're grieving they can fuck right off. Says more about them than it does about you. 
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my granmother (fathers side) died due to dementia, and we went to visit her in her last days. she looked horrible, and wasnt concious. so we kinda just sat there and talked with her by our side. then a few hours later, we got a call from the nursing home that she passed. i kinda didnt react much. i'd never lost someone before. and i didnt have a very strong bond iwth her since she lived in denmark, and i in norway. and she didnt understand me too well, so we only talked about my cat.
but around a week later, my mom found a picture of her holding me as a baby. and i just totally broke down crying for like an hour. i realized those small talks about my cat ment more to me.
so idk, i reacted with sort of passiveness at first, cus it didnt really hit me as hard.

and when my granfather died (not her husband, but my moms dad) of cancer, i fell to the floor crying when we got the call. but i knew it would happen, and me n my mom were talking about it when we got the call. i didnt cry for long, and in the funeral i cried a lot.but i know it was for the best that he died. he was so sick, and he died with my granmother by his side, listening to a song my cousin wrote and sang that was for him. so he died probably the most peaceful way possible.

loss is hard. but its inevitable. and its ok to cry and be sad, but try to remember the happy times, and honor their memory that way.
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i was just like Oh ok when my grandpa died
but my both grandmas are still alive and tbh idk how i will handle it when they go
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i was devastatingly sad, but at the same time happy because i knew living was suffering for her and she was in pain every second. it took me a month or two
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depends on how close u r i think cause my granpa passed when i was like a kid, but still old enough to process it decently, but we only saw him like once a year so it didn't really impact my life at all, same with my great g-ma who passed this summer. It was more like, i'm sad that my parents are sad kind of feelings.

luckily my grandparents who im close to are still alive and mostly physically well, but idk my nan is losing her memory right now, and it is already making me feel incredibly sad, n i know eventually losing her is going to be very hard. 
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depends on who
for the most recent one (grandma) i was devastated, still am when i think of her 
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cried right when my mom told me my grandma died. loved her so much. but i kinda already knew she was dead when i was told, so i was prepared. i was able to come to terms with it and remembered she had a long and good life, and she was old and sick so it was her time to go. and the last time i saw her was a perfect last time. still miss her a lot but whenever i think of her its always with a smile on my face. it hurt but its okay
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I never rlly got over my grandpa but mostly bc i decided to make my homework instead of visit him bc i thought i could just visit another time n a day later he was dead n ive always felt massive guilt abt that

N w my gran i didnt care much bc she hadnt rlly been able to talk n walk n do Anything for 5 years so my gran had been gone 4 so long sorta i already was done mourning ig
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