Limbs wrote:
if you can't be there for someone close to you after one of their loved ones dies you're a shit person
i don't care if "you don't know what to say" or "it's hard to face someone who's grieving :-(" it's so much harder for them and you distancing from them because their loved one died is making things even worse. it takes like 2 minutes to google "how to support someone who's grieving" and read an article. & it's literally not that difficult to be there for someone. if you can't do that you're a bad friend/family member/partner.