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Idk what to do with school
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
this is like me venting but i also need some good response because im really in need of it since nobody will listen.

ok basically im in 2nd year in hs (swe)  and i hate it.
i hate the program i picked i hate everything about it.
i hate the internship and i hate my teachers.
My teachers really dont give a f about us and its been proven so many times and yet its still going.
I also think that my teachers lowkey do hate me or are a pain in the ass just to annoy me or so because that has also been proved.
I'm trying to do my best but it's hard now that i already dont like the program and the fact that i have other things to stress about other than school.
ive tried to talk about it with a conuselor, ive tried to ask for help to finish my assignments from a advicer (syv) yet the only thing i got back from visiting my advicer was invalid absence twice and i told the principal and i asked her to tell that shes done wrong but she told me she " never does anything wrong " yet she did.


i really dont know what to do but drop out and start over yet i dont wanna be stuck in the only hs in my shithole and i just want to finish so i could continue with other studies that i want to do and idgaf rly if i pass anymore or not i just want to get out of there so bad.
I've had friends telling me that my program is really the worst, my teachers are like i said they are literally the worst by too many others and that its the shittiest program in the whole school.
My mom doesn't even think ill make it and do anything with my life because she can clearly see that is too shitty for me to be able to keep my motivation up and shes also been talking with my teachers about it.
Shes a bit dumb for listening to my teachers who told her i dont show up enough and dont participate yet nobody will keep in mind that ive actually even pushed it through so much and ive noticed my own flaws and even discovered the reason why so i started opening up and im just literally fucking breaking down piece by piece.
nobody is listening and i just dont know what to do all ik is, is that im starting to go insane.
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Date: 27-01-2021 08:33
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
i can also add that im not getting the grades i truly do deserve or at least did deserve last year ive tried to imrpove myself so bad but the lack of constructive feedback is mad.
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Date: 27-01-2021 08:36
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ShyChy wrote:
How long does the program you’re in go on for? Is it just this year and then do you get to choose something else after..If you go during a study hall or lunch or after school and tell the teacher that you need help completing the assignments then they have to help you.. and the school year is almost over with ..if you keep going to them for help they may also find someone to help you privately or put you in a study hall where they help students separately with their assignments. If you’re struggling that much then idk why they didnt do that for you in the first place, but if it’s really your lack of interest and motivation then the guidance counselor was right to point out your absences because it would be your responsibility to force yourself to get through the year. Though If you were really asking her for help when you went in and she only said that then I do think that’s insensitive..  
If it’s more than just this year then that really sucks, and hopefully they could find a similar program next year that could go along with this one. But like I said it’s January so only five more months until you’re done with it for at least a little while... Your teachers attitudes will change towards you if you keep showing up to ask them for help so you just have to force yourself to do it! Idk how you’re program works but in my computer class I literally didn’t do work up until the last few weeks of school, she was a lenient teacher lol.. I brought my grade from like a 45 or 50 up to a C. But I highly recommend forcing yourself now just so it’s easier in the long run. 
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Date: 27-01-2021 09:46
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
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Date: 27-01-2021 10:12
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if you hate it and you don't see yourself working with something this would lead you in the future, then i see no problem starting anew tbh
Date: 27-01-2021 10:28
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
Slater wrote:
How long does the program you’re in go on for? Is it just this year and then do you get to choose something else after..If you go during a study hall or lunch or after school and tell the teacher that you need help completing the assignments then they have to help you.. and the school year is almost over with ..if you keep going to them for help they may also find someone to help you privately or put you in a study hall where they help students separately with their assignments. If you’re struggling that much then idk why they didnt do that for you in the first place, but if it’s really your lack of interest and motivation then the guidance counselor was right to point out your absences because it would be your responsibility to force yourself to get through the year. Though If you were really asking her for help when you went in and she only said that then I do think that’s insensitive..  
If it’s more than just this year then that really sucks, and hopefully they could find a similar program next year that could go along with this one. But like I said it’s January so only five more months until you’re done with it for at least a little while... Your teachers attitudes will change towards you if you keep showing up to ask them for help so you just have to force yourself to do it! Idk how you’re program works but in my computer class I literally didn’t do work up until the last few weeks of school, she was a lenient teacher lol.. I brought my grade from like a 45 or 50 up to a C. But I highly recommend forcing yourself now just so it’s easier in the long run. 
it takes 3 years and so far ive soon done 2 out of 3.
and none of that will happen tbh i just keep on doing enough so i can pass since they wont ever even listen to my request on better feedback

they never do anything right away even tho you try to tell them its serious
my bf ex. who has dyslexia told them basically that he was struggling but they wouldnt give him the help he needed until the end of the first year and now he has to retake that year so he wont even graduate with me and the rest for that reason.

also after hs thats when ill be looking for a job and take a year off maybe try to get up my grades a bit or so
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Date: 27-01-2021 11:21
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
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Date: 27-01-2021 11:23
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
Nesta wrote:
if you hate it and you don't see yourself working with something this would lead you in the future, then i see no problem starting anew tbh
i'd but like i dont wanna have to spend 1 extra year in that school im tryna get away from it not stay..
but im really tempted to switch program too since ig i'd be better off starting over after all..
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Date: 27-01-2021 11:24
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
there's actually a dude from where who had the grades to get in any program here but he refused to go to this school knowing it was f-ing shit so he applied for the program he wanted ( we do have that program here too ) but a different school in another town and he doesn't regret it for sh1t lol
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Date: 27-01-2021 11:25
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absintjente wrote:
Marlene wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
how long is the commute?
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Date: 27-01-2021 11:32
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Marlene wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
I had to take the bus to school in high school and i didnt rly mind it. It wasnt a long ride tho, only 20 minutes at most and the school gives u a bus card for free if u dont live within walking distance from the school. But i get that its different if u have to take like an hour (or more) long ride to get to school everyday, like thats way more of an inconvenience than just having to take one 15 minute bus ride into town. 

i remember a girl in my class had to take the train for like almost 2 hours just to get there everyday and another guy in my class lived like an hour away from school in the middle of nowhere where there was only like 3 buses that traveled in his line a day. At least i was lucky enough to live close enough that there was one bus going into town every hour
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Date: 28-01-2021 10:46
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absintjente wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Marlene wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
I had to take the bus to school in high school and i didnt rly mind it. It wasnt a long ride tho, only 20 minutes at most and the school gives u a bus card for free if u dont live within walking distance from the school. But i get that its different if u have to take like an hour (or more) long ride to get to school everyday, like thats way more of an inconvenience than just having to take one 15 minute bus ride into town. 

i remember a girl in my class had to take the train for like almost 2 hours just to get there everyday and another guy in my class lived like an hour away from school in the middle of nowhere where there was only like 3 buses that traveled in his line a day. At least i was lucky enough to live close enough that there was one bus going into town every hour
i am a district girl, so ppl having to take the bus was the norm rather than not. when they were 16 they got their tractor license n were able to take the tractor to school... but yeah, there were ppl in my class who had to take the bus for an hour.

some of them ended up getting a small flat closer to the school. i suppose that is normal in rural norway but idk how it is in sweden
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Date: 28-01-2021 11:17
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Marlene wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
I live in sweden too and my best friend actually switched program (linje) in our second year. We were in the same program and class and she just didnt like it and decided to switch both linje and school and she had no regrets. She did have to go back to year 1 for doing that tho, so she graduated a year after the rest of us in her age group, but she thought it was worth it and she did great. Maybe thats something u should consider doing as well?
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
how long is the commute?
it would take 1 hour or so.
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Date: 28-01-2021 15:36
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absintjente wrote:
Marlene wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Marlene wrote:
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
how long is the commute?
it would take 1 hour or so.
id say its worth it, but im a rural person.
perhaps u can move to a hybel in the other city?
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Date: 28-01-2021 15:46
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
absintjente wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Marlene wrote:
yeah it is but the problem is that id have to take the buss or train in order to switch schools..
i dont see the point with switching programs w/o switching schools because its a really shitty school and the other program i could see myself go have the same problem but a bit easier.. :/ 
I had to take the bus to school in high school and i didnt rly mind it. It wasnt a long ride tho, only 20 minutes at most and the school gives u a bus card for free if u dont live within walking distance from the school. But i get that its different if u have to take like an hour (or more) long ride to get to school everyday, like thats way more of an inconvenience than just having to take one 15 minute bus ride into town. 

i remember a girl in my class had to take the train for like almost 2 hours just to get there everyday and another guy in my class lived like an hour away from school in the middle of nowhere where there was only like 3 buses that traveled in his line a day. At least i was lucky enough to live close enough that there was one bus going into town every hour
i am a district girl, so ppl having to take the bus was the norm rather than not. when they were 16 they got their tractor license n were able to take the tractor to school... but yeah, there were ppl in my class who had to take the bus for an hour.

some of them ended up getting a small flat closer to the school. i suppose that is normal in rural norway but idk how it is in sweden
Lmao the tractor thing omg ive never seen someone riding a tractor to school. Where i live the kids got moped licenses when they were 15 and then just regular drivers license once they turned 18. Driving a tractor to school sounds more badass than driving a little moped tho like thats such a vibe.

and yeah its very uncommon to have ur own flat/not living with ur parents at 16-18 here in sweden. Thats more like something u do in university here, not high school. Unless u go to like a boarding school where u live in dorms at the school but thats in the minority. Ive heard that high school kids do that in norway tho but i thought it was only like rich kids in oslo who did that so its kinda cool to hear that its done in the rural parts too
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Date: 29-01-2021 10:37
Marlene
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Marlene wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Marlene wrote:
absintjente wrote:
how long is the commute?
it would take 1 hour or so.
id say its worth it, but im a rural person.
perhaps u can move to a hybel in the other city?
no :/
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Date: 29-01-2021 12:31
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