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I feel so desperate
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Lavina wrote:
I seriously don't run into any normal guy online. I've come across so many weirdos that I'm about to give up because lmao... 

I've also met my ex online and a lot of people meet online so I thought there was nothing wrong with it, but I really met the weirdest creeps. Like the other day, I was talking to a guy, and he just looked okay in appearance, but he wanted to fuck me and so I thought maybe he'd get over that, so I just kept talking. Until he said his fantasy was me to lick his butt hole and he was dead serious about that so I was like OK block and next. 

Another time, a random guy added me to snapchat. He wasn't my type in appearance at all but I'm desperate so just went for it.  He had a good job and a life of luxury, he lived on the other side of the country, but he didn't care. He was in love with me right away, but he was also scary, the way he wanted me to respond right away and he typed all the messages with that he loves me so much like wtf right on the 2nd day we were chatting, I think he even told his friends about me lmao. I told him the next day that it wasn't going to work out. He reacted badly to that and wanted me to think about it. Next. I've really talked to a hundred other weirdos, of course, but these were the most recent. Ugh it seems like no normal guy does online date/chat or smth. 
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Pavlov wrote:
 the few good normal guys that exist are probably busy
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Lavina wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
 the few good normal guys that exist are probably busy
Yes I think that's it unfortunately
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Claire wrote:
kinda judgmental about a guy wanting his salad tossed at least he was honest about what he wanted lmaooo
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Claire wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
 the few good normal guys that exist are probably busy
i met doug when he was at work im a firm beleiver in not bothering with online dating and just live ur life until you meet someone
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Lavina wrote:
Claire wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
 the few good normal guys that exist are probably busy
i met doug when he was at work im a firm beleiver in not bothering with online dating and just live ur life until you meet someone
That's what I used to think, But because of this time I barely get out I live in a village where not a single nice guy lives, for that I have to go to the city. I actually much prefer to meet someone just in real life ofc
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Date: 29-01-2021 04:25
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Lavina wrote:
Claire wrote:
kinda judgmental about a guy wanting his salad tossed at least he was honest about what he wanted lmaooo
True but omg ew I felt so nasty after he told it, at that moment I just wanted to give up and stay single for the rest of my life 😭🤣
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Date: 29-01-2021 04:30
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scoff wrote:
Lavina wrote:
Claire wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
 the few good normal guys that exist are probably busy
i met doug when he was at work im a firm beleiver in not bothering with online dating and just live ur life until you meet someone
That's what I used to think, But because of this time I barely get out I live in a village where not a single nice guy lives, for that I have to go to the city. I actually much prefer to meet someone just in real life ofc
I'd say it doesn't really matter. You can meet weird guys irl as well, you know? But just maybe... you know, guys suck overall. Or like, dating sucks. 

Watch out for the weirdoes. 
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hungover wrote:
There are plenty of weirdos online, just like there are plenty of weirdos in real life.
Just make sure you know where your boundaries are, you being comfortable is the most important part of meeting new people.

Also, ghosting is okay! Ghosting is a non-verbal form of communication, you don't owe anyone an explanation as to why you don't want to talk to them anymore.

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Lavina wrote:
scoff wrote:
Lavina wrote:
Claire wrote:
i met doug when he was at work im a firm beleiver in not bothering with online dating and just live ur life until you meet someone
That's what I used to think, But because of this time I barely get out I live in a village where not a single nice guy lives, for that I have to go to the city. I actually much prefer to meet someone just in real life ofc
I'd say it doesn't really matter. You can meet weird guys irl as well, you know? But just maybe... you know, guys suck overall. Or like, dating sucks. 

Watch out for the weirdoes. 
True they suck, but I'd rather have a relationship now than be much older, because then you're going to have to deal with men who've had a lot of experience in relationships and had multiple women. I'd rather have someone who, like me, has only been in one relationship or is even a virgin lol.

I don't like the idea that he's been to other women, of course I didn't know him then but i'm just a jealous person. That's one of the reasons I'm desperate 
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Date: 29-01-2021 13:21
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Lavina wrote:
hungover wrote:
There are plenty of weirdos online, just like there are plenty of weirdos in real life.
Just make sure you know where your boundaries are, you being comfortable is the most important part of meeting new people.

Also, ghosting is okay! Ghosting is a non-verbal form of communication, you don't owe anyone an explanation as to why you don't want to talk to them anymore.

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That's true but abt ghosting It depends. I don't just ghost someone because I feel pretty sorry about how someone will feel afterwards so I always try to close it with a sweet text and then say it's not up to them but to myself and then I delete and block them most of the time
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Date: 29-01-2021 13:26
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ouch wrote:
Lavina wrote:
scoff wrote:
Lavina wrote:
That's what I used to think, But because of this time I barely get out I live in a village where not a single nice guy lives, for that I have to go to the city. I actually much prefer to meet someone just in real life ofc
I'd say it doesn't really matter. You can meet weird guys irl as well, you know? But just maybe... you know, guys suck overall. Or like, dating sucks. 

Watch out for the weirdoes. 
True they suck, but I'd rather have a relationship now than be much older, because then you're going to have to deal with men who've had a lot of experience in relationships and had multiple women. I'd rather have someone who, like me, has only been in one relationship or is even a virgin lol.

I don't like the idea that he's been to other women, of course I didn't know him then but i'm just a jealous person. That's one of the reasons I'm desperate 
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absintjente wrote:
well, do you need to have a boyfriend right now? good boyfriends always pop up when you stop looking for them
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Lavina wrote:
absintjente wrote:
well, do you need to have a boyfriend right now? good boyfriends always pop up when you stop looking for them
Well I've been single for 2 years now, when I tell people that they always say smth like 'at your age how?' and then they say that almost everyone at my age already has a bf

And tbh when me and my ex broke up I didn't expect it to take so long before I met someone again

But it is indeed true, they come when you do not expect it I think I just have to wait and see
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absintjente wrote:
Lavina wrote:
absintjente wrote:
well, do you need to have a boyfriend right now? good boyfriends always pop up when you stop looking for them
Well I've been single for 2 years now, when I tell people that they always say smth like 'at your age how?' and then they say that almost everyone at my age already has a bf

And tbh when me and my ex broke up I didn't expect it to take so long before I met someone again

But it is indeed true, they come when you do not expect it I think I just have to wait and see
how old are you exactly?
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Date: 29-01-2021 16:02
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Lavina wrote:
absintjente wrote:
Lavina wrote:
absintjente wrote:
well, do you need to have a boyfriend right now? good boyfriends always pop up when you stop looking for them
Well I've been single for 2 years now, when I tell people that they always say smth like 'at your age how?' and then they say that almost everyone at my age already has a bf

And tbh when me and my ex broke up I didn't expect it to take so long before I met someone again

But it is indeed true, they come when you do not expect it I think I just have to wait and see
how old are you exactly?
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