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Cobain
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Hello yesterday I had a complete meltdown due to stress after I had gotten home from work

I am on the brink of just.. snapping in half. Its so stressful, the expectations of me are too high, they demand too much, high pressure on me from fucking dusk to dawn
I have talked with my boss, I told her its too stressful and too many things to do for one person but she just tells me to plan better (???) and I told her idk how to because its not possible but the answer is basically "you'll figure it out" or "you'll get the hang of it"
My life revolves around work because I work so much and every day is just "pre work". The mornings are pre work, the evenings as well bc I start early the next day so I can't really do shit u know
I don't know what to do. This will break me. But I need an income ofc so I can't just go and quit. I don't have the time nor energy to apply for new jobs either bc I ways work and when I'm not I'm so drained from work that I just sleep and cry

Sorry for talking about my work too much but obviously it's my entire life so
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Could your family help support you while you look for another job if you were to quit this one?
Cobain
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We have a big covid outbreak at my work too so we are extremely short staffed (we are short staffed normally but now 80% are sick so.. do the math) and these weeks have been hell

I feel horrible saying this but I actually wanted to be positive the times I've gotten tested. I don't wanna be sick, I don't wanna risk making other people sick, of course not, but being positive would mean I could be home and rest for at least a week
I keep thinking like this with other shit as well, almost longing to get hurt or have something happen to me so I have a reason to stay at home. It's fucking sick
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Saintal wrote:
Could your family help support you while you look for another job if you were to quit this one?
Not economically, I have to pay rent, bills, have money for food and that n it would be too much. I can get by on very little so I don't need much but it's still too much
My bf is currently studying and has study loan but he barely gets by so he can't help me out either
Money isn't everything and there's decent support systems in Sweden for this but it's rly not something I'd willingly put myself through again
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cobain wrote:
Saintal wrote:
Could your family help support you while you look for another job if you were to quit this one?
Not economically, I have to pay rent, bills, have money for food and that n it would be too much. I can get by on very little so I don't need much but it's still too much
My bf is currently studying and has study loan but he barely gets by so he can't help me out either
Money isn't everything and there's decent support systems in Sweden for this but it's rly not something I'd willingly put myself through again
So you have been on the support system before and it didn't go well, and you don't think it wouldn't be worth going on it again? I'm thinking if it might help with your health since this situation isn't going to work for very long from the sound of it (have you seen a doctor about how you're feeling? if you get "diagnosed" with some kind of stress then that might help you if you want to apply for money from the state later maybe).

And you can't stay with your parents for a while I guess? To not have to pay rent I mean. I know it sucks but I did it as a result of corona and since I have a boyfriend aswell, you can still leave pretty often.

I don't know, I don't know shit, just trying to help sorry if anything comes across as non-understanding...
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Saintal wrote:
cobain wrote:
Saintal wrote:
Could your family help support you while you look for another job if you were to quit this one?
Not economically, I have to pay rent, bills, have money for food and that n it would be too much. I can get by on very little so I don't need much but it's still too much
My bf is currently studying and has study loan but he barely gets by so he can't help me out either
Money isn't everything and there's decent support systems in Sweden for this but it's rly not something I'd willingly put myself through again
So you have been on the support system before and it didn't go well, and you don't think it wouldn't be worth going on it again? I'm thinking if it might help with your health since this situation isn't going to work for very long from the sound of it (have you seen a doctor about how you're feeling? if you get "diagnosed" with some kind of stress then that might help you if you want to apply for money from the state later maybe).

And you can't stay with your parents for a while I guess? To not have to pay rent I mean. I know it sucks but I did it as a result of corona and since I have a boyfriend aswell, you can still leave pretty often.

I don't know, I don't know shit, just trying to help sorry if anything comes across as non-understanding...
Dw you are not coming across as non understanding at all!! I appreciate that you're trying to help

I know I couldn't go on the support system right away bc I have savings and that's not allowed, I'd have to live off of my savings until I'm completely broke first lol sad
And I don't wanna give my apartment up, it's cheap and in town so I'm close to everything, I got it almost straight away when I tried getting my own place and ira normally quite hard to get apartments in town lol also I would hate living with my parents again cuz they stress me out too lmao

But I can try seeing a doctor, maybe I can get sick leave or something (which my boss would murder me for but like so be it)
Cobain
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I pay money to the union every month so that when I quit or get fired, I get like 80% of my salary for the first 3 months of being unemployed so I have that... BUT then I'd need to get a job in those 3 months as well which is probably quite hard when I don't have a proper education and not much experience except this job which is like shit experiences anyways
The one thing I have going for me when applying for jobs now is that I actually have a job, one of those forever jobs (what are they called... fast anställd, tillsvidare) and that looks good I guess
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cobain wrote:
Saintal wrote:
cobain wrote:
Not economically, I have to pay rent, bills, have money for food and that n it would be too much. I can get by on very little so I don't need much but it's still too much
My bf is currently studying and has study loan but he barely gets by so he can't help me out either
Money isn't everything and there's decent support systems in Sweden for this but it's rly not something I'd willingly put myself through again
So you have been on the support system before and it didn't go well, and you don't think it wouldn't be worth going on it again? I'm thinking if it might help with your health since this situation isn't going to work for very long from the sound of it (have you seen a doctor about how you're feeling? if you get "diagnosed" with some kind of stress then that might help you if you want to apply for money from the state later maybe).

And you can't stay with your parents for a while I guess? To not have to pay rent I mean. I know it sucks but I did it as a result of corona and since I have a boyfriend aswell, you can still leave pretty often.

I don't know, I don't know shit, just trying to help sorry if anything comes across as non-understanding...
Dw you are not coming across as non understanding at all!! I appreciate that you're trying to help

I know I couldn't go on the support system right away bc I have savings and that's not allowed, I'd have to live off of my savings until I'm completely broke first lol
And I don't wanna give my apartment up, it's cheap and in town so I'm close to everything, I got it almost straight away when I tried getting my own place and ira normally quite hard to get apartments in town lol also I would hate living with my parents again cuz they stress me out too lmao

But I can try seeing a doctor, maybe I can get sick leave or something (which my boss would murder me for but like so be it)
Yeah sick leave sounds like something you could benefit from (and kind of need atm)... but I totally understand the savings situation. I hope your situation will turn out better soon, and maybe you can try to apply for another job like once a month? Just for the possibility of being able to leave this one.
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get sick leave, if you're having symptoms of burnout like it sounds like you are you should be able to get it. then while you're on sick leave look for a new job. 
Cobain
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I'm so scared of going on sick leave tho lol, my boss terrifies me and she's not understanding at all, she'd probably fight me about it. I doubt she can like force me to work anyways or anything like that, she's not dumb and she knows how shit works but uhhhm yea she'd probably give me major shit for putting them in a weird position of having to bring someone else in and just IDK minimise me for being stressed or smth, u know what I mean??

Also idk how to even get sick leave, guess I talk to a doctor? But like, about what? What can I expect IDK ALL OF THIS GIVES ME ANXIETY LOL TF
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My bf tried calming me yesterday and he said no ones forcing me to go to work, I can call in sick. But I can't do that all the time and I take great pride in how little I've been away from work actually, it's like a personal "goal" bc I've been away a lot from everything before this
And I can't be sick for one day without my bosses being in my ass asking me when I'm coming back n just fucjinf being annoying and I'd not appreciate that when I wanna be home and rest and not think about work
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how long you have this job
Junia
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If you have good relationships with your parents, maybe you can ask them for help? For example, they could possibly help you economically. Because in this situation it seems that you do everything you can and your boss doesnt respect that, but at least your parents should understand.
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Claire wrote:
how long you have this job
Since April 2020
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Cobain
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Junia wrote:
If you have good relationships with your parents, maybe you can ask them for help? For example, they could possibly help you economically. Because in this situation it seems that you do everything you can and your boss doesnt respect that, but at least your parents should understand.
My dad's in a lot of debt he needs to pay off and also sort of homeless atm but he has a full time job but yea, debt
Mom works like 50-75% smth like that and is better off but she still can't support me, not that much at least
I refuse to move back in with my parents cuz I just moved out in june
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