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i was diagnosed with bpd
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Bloodflowers wrote:
at 18
and i haven't thought of it in a long time but some yt vid was recommended to me and now i'm thinking of it

I've pretty much "grown out of" which means I never had it/had something else. I still have the diagnosis so I think it's interesting how

A) No one cares
No doctor/psychiatrist gives a shit. And this was a thing when I was freshly diagnosed as well. I was put on a 1-year waiting list for DBT and that was all I recieved nothing else. Since being diagnosed there has been no convo about treatment or how I feel about it or what I want.

B) Almost no one around me cares
This may be because I say I was misdiagnosed. Sometimes people are like :o but most people just shrug p much.

C) The only time it's brought up is against me
By mental health professionals. Calling me impulsive risk of doing stupid shit, trying to kill myself with no intention to die and then following up with because I have bpd. Not because that's part of my history but because I have this diagnosis. Which is pretty shitty.

D) A pointless diagnosis
For me. Like I don't fit the criteria anymore and I've recieved no treatment. I COULD get it removed but that's an entire process. I'm thinking about it though because of comments in my journal about how they should assume I'm this or that because I'm diagnosed with bpd.

I've heard people with this diagnosis do get help but if ppl get what I get I'm sorry. It may also be because they know I'm not struggling with these things but idek.
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It's funny because I was so convinced I had it which isn't weird because I think i fit 7 or 8 out of 9 criteria something like that and I was diagnosed right as I turned 18 (because they won't diagnose it in minors) now I just don't want people to see me as soemthing I'm not whenever I meet a new doctor
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:04
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Claire wrote:
in my completely unprofessional dumbass opinion your case has been handled irresponsibly by the health care professionals and  you deserve better treatment
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:07
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Babybel wrote:
I have had my bpd diagnosis for 2 years now and its weird cus here in norway(atleast where i live) i have gotten a lot of help for it! So its so sad that you didnt get the help you needed!
And also if you feel the diagnosis dont fit you anymore and just causes you negativity i would go trought the prosess of getting the diagnosis removed if i was you! 
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I feel for you! I was misdiagnosed with that shit for years and no one heard me when I said I didn't agree with it. Once you have it on your paper it can stay for years on years even if its wrong. I was also diagnosed with it at 18 without any test but because I had trauma from my childhood. And the trauma I gained from having bpd on the paper has nearly RUINEND my life tbh.

I actually had and have a Schizoaffective disorder and the way I have been treated after that is SO much more human, but I am still the same person
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:11
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ouch wrote:
Same w the dbt thing but I declined
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:13
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DandelionMarie wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel for you! I was misdiagnosed with that shit for years and no one heard me when I said I didn't agree with it. Once you have it on your paper it can stay for years on years even if its wrong. I was also diagnosed with it at 18 without any test but because I had trauma from my childhood. And the trauma I gained from having bpd on the paper has nearly RUINEND my life tbh.

I actually had and have a Schizoaffective disorder and the way I have been treated after that is SO much more human, but I am still the same person
I was lucky tho because I started going to a new place for treatment and the help I have gotten there the last 2 years has almost changed everything in my life. I am grateful for that and I am very sorry for other people in the same situation or that has this diagnosis which is so stigmatized! 
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Babybel wrote:
Holy moly where do you ppl live? Why the hell are so many People treated so badly when they have a bpd diagnosis?

I have never had any negativity after i got my bpd diagnose wat
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:13
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nightmareviolet wrote:
Holy moly where do you ppl live? Why the hell are so many People treated so badly when they have a bpd diagnosis?

I have never had any negativity after i got my bpd diagnose wat
I think it is stigmatized for the fact that you are "always in crisis" and you are "attention seeking" and "manipulative" and "too much" and "cry for help" the culture is this way mostly because of the people in the system I would say!

The fact of the matter is that people with BPD are people who have so much hurt inside them and needs to be seen and heard AND loved, but the treatment is the complete opposite which is a BIG shame
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:17
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Claire wrote:
in my completely unprofessional dumbass opinion your case has been handled irresponsibly by the health care professionals and  you deserve better treatment
if i were to list all the mistreatment or lack of treatment i've recieved in the 8 years i've been in contact with psych we'd be here all day
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Bloodflowers wrote:
nightmareviolet wrote:
I have had my bpd diagnosis for 2 years now and its weird cus here in norway(atleast where i live) i have gotten a lot of help for it! So its so sad that you didnt get the help you needed!
And also if you feel the diagnosis dont fit you anymore and just causes you negativity i would go trought the prosess of getting the diagnosis removed if i was you! 
I do believe things may not have gotten as shit as it did for me for a while there if I was treated for bpd. Even if I don't have it it's not like it would have made me worse I think
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:20
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel for you! I was misdiagnosed with that shit for years and no one heard me when I said I didn't agree with it. Once you have it on your paper it can stay for years on years even if its wrong. I was also diagnosed with it at 18 without any test but because I had trauma from my childhood. And the trauma I gained from having bpd on the paper has nearly RUINEND my life tbh.

I actually had and have a Schizoaffective disorder and the way I have been treated after that is SO much more human, but I am still the same person
It says in my journal I have "past traumas". Not because I have it but because I have a bpd diagnosis
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:21
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DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel for you! I was misdiagnosed with that shit for years and no one heard me when I said I didn't agree with it. Once you have it on your paper it can stay for years on years even if its wrong. I was also diagnosed with it at 18 without any test but because I had trauma from my childhood. And the trauma I gained from having bpd on the paper has nearly RUINEND my life tbh.

I actually had and have a Schizoaffective disorder and the way I have been treated after that is SO much more human, but I am still the same person
It says in my journal I have "past traumas". Not because I have it but because I have a bpd diagnosis
yeah exactly, says alot about the system!! Makes me mad!
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:22
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ouch wrote:
Same w the dbt thing but I declined
I agreed but then I had to move so I was thrown off of it. Where I lived next I talked them into (for 2 years) giving me at least talk therapy so I was put on a waiting list. Then I had to move again so I was thrown out of it.
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Bloodflowers wrote:
nightmareviolet wrote:
Holy moly where do you ppl live? Why the hell are so many People treated so badly when they have a bpd diagnosis?

I have never had any negativity after i got my bpd diagnose wat
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because you're manipulative and impulse and always at risk of self harm or suicide and you're extremely emotional and hard to reason with. at least that's the impression i've gotten
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Date: 23-02-2021 21:24
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ouch wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
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Same w the dbt thing but I declined
I agreed but then I had to move so I was thrown off of it. Where I lived next I talked them into (for 2 years) giving me at least talk therapy so I was put on a waiting list. Then I had to move again so I was thrown out of it.
Ouff
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