hungover wrote:
Idk?
Two of my best friends are dudes, we're like a Lil trio who do everything together, we playfight, cuddle, hold hands, etc, I basically live with one of them because we're hanging out together every day.
BUT back when one of them had a girlfriend, I asked him what she thought of our friendship because I genuinely didn't want her to feel upset or hurt. He told me she was fine with it, and when I asked her as well she told me she didn't mind.
I feel like it's just about mutual respect? Respect both your best friend AND their partners boundaries, and respect the fact that your partner has close friends?