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do i talk about it?
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
i know communication is important in a relationship
but idk if i should mention this and talk to him about it?
cause i know i'm just feeling a little insecure and scared to ever lose him

he has a lot of girl friends, and he has fucked more than half of them at some point in his life. and it doesn't really bother me. u know of all the girls he has been with and out everyone he has had previous relationships with, he chose me! so i'm glad he has had all those experiences, makes me feel safe and as if he is "done" being a slut lol and knows what he wants

last night i was a bit too hungover to hang out with him
and he and this girl was supposed to watch melodifestivalen together that night. they have fucked a couple years ago. but it was pretty much a one night stand. and i like her! i do trust him with her and all his previous fucks! 
yet i can't help feeling, what if he still fancy her?
but i shouldn't worry, cause if he did like her, something more would've happened between them already. i mean it was years ago they fucked. i don't think he would just keep those feelings to himself without mentioning anything to her after all this time.
idk how they went on from that one night stand. if she was the one who said she didn't want to continue things. she's a bit diffuclt when it comes to relationships n things. i don't doubt he likes her as a friend, but what if he still finds her that amazing, and also wish to keep her close in case something would change? 

so what if she crashed on his couch last night, nothing bad about that, but what if things got hot between them?


you see i trust him. yet aren't we all sometimes afraid our loved ones will realise how much better somebody else is?
he said if something is ever bothering me with him or our relationship, i need to tell him. that i shouldn't keep things to myself

maybe it would be healthy to let him know how i feel?
say it's not a big thing and i trust him.. but i just need to air it out?
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:38
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
talk to me bitches
my best friend is missing and i haven't got any other friends to talk to about this matter so pls help a girl out
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:44
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
i don't want to start any fights about it or as if he feels like i want him to stop hanging out with his girl friends
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:46
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kagura wrote:
of course you should tell him about how you feel and he should understand it 
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:46
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Arthema wrote:
communication is not just important, it's a key and one of the things that keep the foundation and trust intact.
If I have learned anything from my previous relationships and my current one, is  that you don't stay quiet if something is bothering you, you share it and talk it out.
it's  okay to feel like that and I understand it (I also don't but that's because of how I see relationships)
And you SHOULD talk to him  about it, and he should  at least listen to you and understand it as well... it's kinda normal to be a bit on edge if he has a lot of girl friends.
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:47
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
kagura wrote:
of course you should tell him about how you feel and he should understand it 
okay
i just felt like it's a small thing and i perhaps i could just keep it to myself
being insecure is like the least attractive thing in a person
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:48
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:48
Arsinoe
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Arsinoe wrote:
my bf blocked and unfriended all the girls he even kissed bc it made me insecure lol

AGAIN i know it seems like I'm a toxic bitch
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:49
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
thanks you guys. now i feel better about bringing it up♥
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:49
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Fiex wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him

i dont think i could handle it tbh but im just very insecure and i have trust issues so idk 
everyone is different
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:51
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
yeah i can feel like.. is it really necessary to keep in contact with all these ppl? 
but what the hell! he's 32 and most of these girls was a looong time ago
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:51
Rixi
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rixi wrote:
Hellbent wrote:
communication is not just important, it's a key and one of the things that keep the foundation and trust intact.
If I have learned anything from my previous relationships and my current one, is  that you don't stay quiet if something is bothering you, you share it and talk it out.
it's  okay to feel like that and I understand it (I also don't but that's because of how I see relationships)
And you SHOULD talk to him  about it, and he should  at least listen to you and understand it as well... it's kinda normal to be a bit on edge if he has a lot of girl friends.
this right here
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:53
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kagura wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
lmao my ex is literally my bestfriend and last time hangout with him there was also his other ex, her other ex and her other ex's new girlfriend. yeah idk why people think we are not normal 
i wouldn't ever be with anyone who asked me to not keep in touch with my ex, so i couldn't ever ask anyone to do that either 
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Date: 07-03-2021 12:59
SiXsiXsiX
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siXsiXsiX wrote:
kagura wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
lmao my ex is literally my bestfriend and last time hangout with him there was also his other ex, her other ex and her other ex's new girlfriend. yeah idk why people think we are not normal 
i wouldn't ever be with anyone who asked me to not keep in touch with my ex, so i couldn't ever ask anyone to do that either 
lmao nice bunch of people!
yeah i'm best friends with a guy i met last summer. me and my boyfriend had know eachother for a while then, but we weren't an exclusive couple at the time.. and i thought i had fallen in love with this new guy and i left my now current boyfriend for the new guy, until i realised he wasn't it
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Date: 07-03-2021 13:03
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Arthema wrote:
siXsiXsiX wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
yeah i can feel like.. is it really necessary to keep in contact with all these ppl? 
but what the hell! he's 32 and most of these girls was a looong time ago
ooooo now it makes more sense in term of why he would do it? as men are older they're more mature (usually,not always but usually) but like.... yeah unless he's like me and just gets along with the opposite sex much more, idk why keep those that you fucked? like...
but then  again I don't understand that because I'm not really a sexual person? but like
idk some exes you can keep in contact,some you  don't...

but you and your bf should know best, really, so do talk to him,
I talk to mine partner about anything really, and that's why I feel SO much at rest with anything and anyone that he's meeting
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Date: 07-03-2021 13:04
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kalypso wrote:
Arsinoe wrote:
i know i sound like a toxic bitch but if my bf hung out w a girl he had fucked i would be ... 

i mean i know u said that u know these people and u trust them, it's just weird in my opinion

but ya know yeah, talk to him
yeah tbh i kinda agree even tho im all for it's really a good sign that ur bf can have friends that are girl (honestly the biggest red flag, if a boy can not maintain a normal relationship to a girl, just means he is treating women shitty), but if he fucked them? argh that's really tough to not think that u are thinking, even when u trust him
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