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should i pay him back
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Limbs wrote:
i asked my dad to help me order groceries bc i don't have a bank card atm. like he would put the order in with his card and i would send him the money in a bank transfer, just so he would transfer my money forward basically

he made the order for me but then he said i don't have to pay him back?? because "i need the money more than him". which i mean ok yeah but i didn't ask him to pay for my groceries and i would never do that

it's so awkward now like should i just send him the money anyway... why'd he have to put me in this position ugh
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Rouya wrote:
idk your relationship with your dad, if it's strained or whatever. but if it were me i would not care and would just accept. ppl usually mean what they say in those kinds of situations, and it's better not to be proud and live well, than to be proud and lack the money imo
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uhyre wrote:
my parents do the same thing ever time i askd to borrow a few hundred bc my payments late sdkfjsf, ive had no success arguing them out of it. i think its just a caring parent thing
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Limbs wrote:
Rouya wrote:
idk your relationship with your dad, if it's strained or whatever. but if it were me i would not care and would just accept. ppl usually mean what they say in those kinds of situations, and it's better not to be proud and live well, than to be proud and lack the money imo
i just don't wanna be a leech bc that's bad person things and i'm a bad enough person already :E
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Rouya wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Rouya wrote:
idk your relationship with your dad, if it's strained or whatever. but if it were me i would not care and would just accept. ppl usually mean what they say in those kinds of situations, and it's better not to be proud and live well, than to be proud and lack the money imo
i just don't wanna be a leech bc that's bad person things and i'm a bad enough person already :E
i dont think he would consider you a leech, when you asked if he could order it for you and it was his own offer to pay for it for you. i dont think you should worry too much about it, and just take his word for it at face value. he would probably not have offered, if he thought you were a leech, so you can accept the money, i think
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Date: 17-03-2021 11:05
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Rouya wrote:
like i am such a huge advocate for accepting any help that comes your way, bc while it's good to work for things on your own, if you're struggling, it's not better to continue to struggle than it is to accept the help others offer you. accepting help does not make you a leech, it's very normal to help each other out, especially a parent helping their child. but again, i dont know your constellation, so could be there are other reasons as to why you might not want to accept, which i cant speak to. this is just in general terms

like if it's something he does all the time, just spoils you with money and you don't need it, then sure it's fair to say you don't need it, but if you are in a position where you do actually need it and it's not often that you get this offer, then i dont see why you shouldn't accept :b
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autism wrote:
no
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Gilmore wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Rouya wrote:
idk your relationship with your dad, if it's strained or whatever. but if it were me i would not care and would just accept. ppl usually mean what they say in those kinds of situations, and it's better not to be proud and live well, than to be proud and lack the money imo
i just don't wanna be a leech bc that's bad person things and i'm a bad enough person already :E
Just FYI here; a bad person doesn't see themselves as bad. You're fine.
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Rouya wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Rouya wrote:
idk your relationship with your dad, if it's strained or whatever. but if it were me i would not care and would just accept. ppl usually mean what they say in those kinds of situations, and it's better not to be proud and live well, than to be proud and lack the money imo
i just don't wanna be a leech bc that's bad person things and i'm a bad enough person already :E
Just FYI here; a bad person doesn't see themselves as bad. You're fine.
yes agree
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kagura wrote:
i don't see any reason to pay back, he said you don't need to 
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absintjente wrote:
ur not a bad person, nor are u a leech. sometimes troubled times come upon us, n ur father wants to help u.
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