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Samfie wrote:
A simple question?
Yes or no, elaborate if u feel like it

Is my flirt/fwb/ff hinting something by sending me the following tiktok?

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeSJ6sHp/

Text (in TikTok): «I’d like for you and I to go romancing. Say the word, your wish is my command»

(cause we’ve been hanging out for quite some time now, and I kinda do want to develop our connection/relation even further -but I have the biggest trust issues and fear of people I can’t even function and yes I’m getting professional help with that)

Like, is this some sort of encouragement for me to take the next step? Or is is just another harmless tiktok? We usually send eachother cats, fashion or fun stuff (on TikTok), and our intern jokes (or topics) hasn’t really included this type of contect yet.

My biggest concern tbh, is his intentions. I only get good vibes, like him enjoying my company, and appreciating me -as I do him. But at the same time; what does he want? Cause I sure as hell can’t for the life of me figure it out.
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Date: 17-03-2021 16:30
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Sylvan wrote:
Just talk to him, if he ain't direct and honest with you he isn't worth it anyway.
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autism wrote:
I don't understand it's just a tiktok? Just ask directly if he wants to take the next step, whatever that means. 
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Date: 17-03-2021 17:34
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kruspersille wrote:
autism wrote:
I don't understand it's just a tiktok? Just ask directly if he wants to take the next step, whatever that means. 

"I don't understand it's just a tiktok?" o_o the only thing in the tiktok is literally a girl lipsyncing those lyrics, is that something ud send to someone without it meaning what op suggests o_o cause thats kinda weird
like
hey look at this tiktok of a girl literally not doing anything else than lipsyncing lyrics
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autism wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
autism wrote:
I don't understand it's just a tiktok? Just ask directly if he wants to take the next step, whatever that means. 

"I don't understand it's just a tiktok?" o_o the only thing in the tiktok is literally a girl lipsyncing those lyrics, is that something ud send to someone without it meaning what op suggests o_o cause thats kinda weird
like
hey look at this tiktok of a girl literally not doing anything else than lipsyncing lyrics
I don't know why anyone would send a boring tiktok like that to someone, or even watch it themselves. But I don't see how that gives any suggestions and would just ask why they sent it. 
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Limbs wrote:
yes
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kruspersille wrote:
autism wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
autism wrote:
I don't understand it's just a tiktok? Just ask directly if he wants to take the next step, whatever that means. 

"I don't understand it's just a tiktok?" o_o the only thing in the tiktok is literally a girl lipsyncing those lyrics, is that something ud send to someone without it meaning what op suggests o_o cause thats kinda weird
like
hey look at this tiktok of a girl literally not doing anything else than lipsyncing lyrics
I don't know why anyone would send a boring tiktok like that to someone, or even watch it themselves. But I don't see how that gives any suggestions and would just ask why they sent it. 
how do u not
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autism wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
autism wrote:
kruspersille wrote:

"I don't understand it's just a tiktok?" o_o the only thing in the tiktok is literally a girl lipsyncing those lyrics, is that something ud send to someone without it meaning what op suggests o_o cause thats kinda weird
like
hey look at this tiktok of a girl literally not doing anything else than lipsyncing lyrics
I don't know why anyone would send a boring tiktok like that to someone, or even watch it themselves. But I don't see how that gives any suggestions and would just ask why they sent it. 
how do u not
i'm just built different
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Date: 17-03-2021 18:12
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Samfie wrote:
Yea, imma talk with ofc, I just don’t want to feel stupid uknow..

is just -we actually DO talk, we just haven’t had THAT talk yet

and honestly I just find it weird, because this is not the type of «boring nonesense» he usually sends me, which makes me think he sent it just for the lyrics

he literally over at my house for days, and I’m at his place -so don’t think we don’t talk.....
is just, is this the time where I talk the talk w him?
cause that scares the living crap out of me
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Date: 17-03-2021 18:23
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Samfie wrote:
Just to illustrate how deep my issues goes -so this is not a question about us talking, or him being immature
we are literally both two mature grown ups
i just have a litteral illness

He was over at my place last night
i couldn’t fall asleep and was spiraling down an anxiety attack
i didn’t want to wake him up so I tiptoed to my bathroom to quietly calm myself as best as i could
this guy wakes up an hour later to me not laying besides me
then comes to the bathroom seeing me sitting on the bathroom, smelling on a shampoo bottle
he comforts me, asks if he can do anything for me or if i want to talk about anything, let’s me have my mental space by not talking to much although I don’t talk, and simply just sit there until I feel better, while even grabbing the shampoo bottle and holding it for me

so yeah, all this just because i’m thinking about how kind he is, and how close we’re becoming
so i just need to know it’s socially acceptable for me to talk the talk at this point, or if he’ll freak out because of the friends w benefits status that we currently have
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Samfie wrote:
The only reason i can think of, for him to send that tiktok instead of taking the initiative, if it actually so happens to be him hinting, i would guess it’s because he respects my reserved and fragile ass of a brain and he wants me to take the initiative when i feel ready n comfortable idk
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Date: 17-03-2021 18:44
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Samfie wrote:
So for short: would it be socially acceptable and cool for me to talk the talk at this point?
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Date: 17-03-2021 18:48
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autism wrote:
Samfie wrote:
So for short: would it be socially acceptable and cool for me to talk the talk at this point?

I think it's always a socially acceptable and cool to talk the talk. Taking the initiative is very cool!
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Date: 17-03-2021 18:51
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Samfie wrote:
autism wrote:
Samfie wrote:
So for short: would it be socially acceptable and cool for me to talk the talk at this point?

I think it's always a socially acceptable and cool to talk the talk. Taking the initiative is very cool!
Thank you so much for answer! 
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