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wdyd when yr mentally healthy friend
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Kit wrote:
is like. "oh do something nice for your mom by telling her 5 things you're looking forward to in the next 6 months" and its like..........

1. there's nothing happening in the next 6 months! there is no future! yes i will probably graduate but am i looking forward to it ? nO! yes i may move back home but am i looking forward to it? NO!!!! and just bc you're relentlessly excited doesn't mean i am, and i'm not lying or being facetious when i say what excites you is terrifying form e
2. the amount of emotional effort i've put in the past 5 years to make sure that i keep the severity of my unhappiness from my mom, express it carefully so as not to upset her, and keep my negative emotions completely secret from everyone around me including and especially my mom, is insane! i cannot do anymore!
3. just because your preferred method of family interaction is lying, suppressing your own feelings and being relentlessly positive because any Bad Emotion was considered selfpitying or wallowing or being lazy or selfish doesnt mean that it's healthy!
4. like idk how to explain to u that i'm severely mentally ill and the suggestion of "simply stop sharing bad feelings and only share good ones" is a one way ticket to self-isolation, self-harm, resentment, and other worse attention-seeking behaviors without you rolling your eyes at me
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:33
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ouch wrote:
Is telling ur mom 5 good things that will happen the next 6 months a nice thing to do 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:34
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Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Is telling ur mom 5 good things that will happen the next 6 months a nice thing to do 

idk? i guess when contrasted with me crying on the phone to her bc i'm afraid of the future it's a lot nicer?
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ouch wrote:
I think the point abt not sharing the bad stuff only the good, might work in some cases, like nto if u keep the bad stuff from everyone, but just like one person (like ur mom) if she causes drama etc around it. Does that make sense
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ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Is telling ur mom 5 good things that will happen the next 6 months a nice thing to do 

idk? i guess when contrasted with me crying on the phone to her bc i'm afraid of the future it's a lot nicer?
It just seems so random to do lol but yeah ig 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:37
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Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Is telling ur mom 5 good things that will happen the next 6 months a nice thing to do 

idk? i guess when contrasted with me crying on the phone to her bc i'm afraid of the future it's a lot nicer?
It just seems so random to do lol but yeah ig 
yeah its just like. a lil stupid and naive imo like. what is this fucking kindergarten ? 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:38
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Kit wrote:
generally just like. he has no idea what i've been thru & how much of my unhappiness i've learned to hide from literally everyone around me bc it's upsetting to other people, and "keep more of ur feelings bottled up, especially from the ONLY PERSON IN THE WORLD you should be able to trust with those feelings" is such terrible mental health advice?

like he's not wrong, logically, from a normal mentally healthy neurotypical perspective, which is why it's so frustrating to discuss bc he gets so exasperated bc he knows he's right! but his 'rightness' doesn't work for me  bc i'm wrong ( or at least that's waht gets enforced and idk feels baD!!!!)
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ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:

idk? i guess when contrasted with me crying on the phone to her bc i'm afraid of the future it's a lot nicer?
It just seems so random to do lol but yeah ig 
yeah its just like. a lil stupid and naive imo like. what is this fucking kindergarten ? 
Yeah I think giving very concrete family advice never rlly works out good tho cus everyones family is so different also
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:41
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Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
It just seems so random to do lol but yeah ig 
yeah its just like. a lil stupid and naive imo like. what is this fucking kindergarten ? 
Yeah I think giving very concrete family advice never rlly works out good tho cus everyones family is so different also
yeah like. it's how he interacts with his family & that works for him so that's the advice he gives but i don't understnad how he can't recognize that & realize that it's not the same ? like his family has his own issues but i'm not out here telling him how to deal w his shit ? or at least i back the FUCK off if he says my advice is bad or missing the mark
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disposable wrote:
If you don't want to then don't do it, if you want to do something for you mom do it your own way
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:46
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Anies wrote:
tell me 1 thing you feel neutral about 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:47
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Kit wrote:
disposable wrote:
If you don't want to then don't do it, if you want to do something for you mom do it your own way

yeah & i do ! like all i was saying to him is that she's been p stressed lately but it's not like i never do anything for her idk he's like... "if you wanna do smth nice for your mom" like bitch i do? what? 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:49
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Kit wrote:
Anies wrote:
tell me 1 thing you feel neutral about 
idk i got an opinion for everything tbh 
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:50
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Anies wrote:
Kit wrote:
Anies wrote:
tell me 1 thing you feel neutral about 
idk i got an opinion for everything tbh 
yeah fair
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Date: 31-03-2021 13:51
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