hi i wish i was a man - Forum

Private
National star

scoff wrote:
it sucks being a woman

i mean i realized being a girl sucks ass already in like kindergarten but hey, it's a well known fact so don't try to deny it

womanhood sucks

Gilmore
World famous

Gilmore wrote:
yes.

Private
National star

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:
yes.

so what are we gonna do??

it's not like i'm just gonna wake up tomorrow being a man
so i guess it's the world that has to change

Private
Popstar

ouch wrote:
I just want a dick

Private
Popstar

Melody wrote:
if u think u r a dude, then u r a dude, and that's that. don't call urself a girl if it makes u uncomfy
i too wish i was born into a trad masc body but all i can do now is use binders n deal w/ it, 'cause gov treats us like garbage

SweetLapis
World famous

SweetLapis wrote:
Well, there are aspects to being a woman that does suck but I'd never wish to be a man.
Like yeah, dealing with the bad blood every month to pregnancy (which is incredibly scary) to woman just hating each other (at I can say this from my experience, most chicks I've met in my life aren't really nice even I used to follow in their steps to some extent when I was younger and angry difference I was a shit talker behind peoples backs).

Private
National star

scoff wrote:

brunhilde wrote:
if u think u r a dude, then u r a dude, and that's that. don't call urself a girl if it makes u uncomfy
i too wish i was born into a trad masc body but all i can do now is use binders n deal w/ it, 'cause gov treats us like garbage

what no
it's not about that at all
i feel very comfortable in my own skin and with being a she, i just don't like the way society treats me or that shit, you know?

i AM a woman no matter what i think about being one

i just wish people expected me to behave like a man because that's what i've always done anyway but apparently that's no good when you're a woman

Gilmore
World famous

Gilmore wrote:

brunhilde wrote:
if u think u r a dude, then u r a dude, and that's that. don't call urself a girl if it makes u uncomfy
i too wish i was born into a trad masc body but all i can do now is use binders n deal w/ it, 'cause gov treats us like garbage

I think you missed the point on this one

Gilmore
World famous

Gilmore wrote:

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:
yes.

so what are we gonna do??

it's not like i'm just gonna wake up tomorrow being a man
so i guess it's the world that has to change

yeeah, but then again it's more likely to wake up with a dick than to wake up in an equal world

Private
National star

scoff wrote:

SweetLapis wrote:
Well, there are aspects to being a woman that does suck but I'd never wish to be a man.
Like yeah, dealing with the bad blood every month to pregnancy (which is incredibly scary) to woman just hating each other (at I can say this from my experience, most chicks I've met in my life aren't really nice even I used to follow in their steps to some extent when I was younger and angry difference I was a shit talker behind peoples backs).

ah

i mean personally my problems with being a woman is the expectations that come with it
as a child i was always expected to act more mature than my male counterparts, for example, and when i'm somewhere with people i'm expected to act in a "feminine" way and maybe not take up as much of the social space as a man would
and in order to be considered good or ok looking i have to wear rly uncomfortable clothes and makeup??? yeah i don't do that anyway so it's probably not that much of a problem

what i want to say is that i act one way and people think i'm weird or i'm wrong for it but when i look at all my male friends they act the exact same way and that's considered normal
this is why i don't have girlfriends
i'm not good at being a woman

Private
National star

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:
yes.

so what are we gonna do??

it's not like i'm just gonna wake up tomorrow being a man
so i guess it's the world that has to change

yeeah, but then again it's more likely to wake up with a dick than to wake up in an equal world

true
unfortunately
i'm just so sick of this
and for me personally it comes down to really unimportant things but then it's everything else, too?! like why are women dying or getting irreversibly screwed up while giving birth because the government has decided women's health care isn't as important as other sectors? huh? it's insane

Gilmore
World famous

Gilmore wrote:

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:

scoff wrote:
so what are we gonna do??

it's not like i'm just gonna wake up tomorrow being a man
so i guess it's the world that has to change

yeeah, but then again it's more likely to wake up with a dick than to wake up in an equal world

true
unfortunately
i'm just so sick of this
and for me personally it comes down to really unimportant things but then it's everything else, too?! like why are women dying or getting irreversibly screwed up while giving birth because the government has decided women's health care isn't as important as other sectors? huh? it's insane

ikr??? i'm so sick of it
like I love being a woman but the world makes me hate it, if that makes sense

Private
National star

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:

scoff wrote:

Gilmore wrote:
yeeah, but then again it's more likely to wake up with a dick than to wake up in an equal world

true
unfortunately
i'm just so sick of this
and for me personally it comes down to really unimportant things but then it's everything else, too?! like why are women dying or getting irreversibly screwed up while giving birth because the government has decided women's health care isn't as important as other sectors? huh? it's insane

ikr??? i'm so sick of it
like I love being a woman but the world makes me hate it, if that makes sense

same in a way

Private
Popstar

Melody wrote:
so this thread is more about sexism than ur own gender?? aight, then don't say u wanna be a dude, 'cause that can come across transphobic

Account deleted

wrote:
i can promise that being a dude does not make it good neither. maybe better in some areas but mmh i just try to not comment in these kind of threads so badly but these really make me feel like my life should be great or something just because i'm not girl ::::---D
like stop
being a girl/woman have many good things

SweetLapis
World famous

SweetLapis wrote:

scoff wrote:

SweetLapis wrote:
Well, there are aspects to being a woman that does suck but I'd never wish to be a man.
Like yeah, dealing with the bad blood every month to pregnancy (which is incredibly scary) to woman just hating each other (at I can say this from my experience, most chicks I've met in my life aren't really nice even I used to follow in their steps to some extent when I was younger and angry difference I was a shit talker behind peoples backs).

ah

i mean personally my problems with being a woman is the expectations that come with it
as a child i was always expected to act more mature than my male counterparts, for example, and when i'm somewhere with people i'm expected to act in a "feminine" way and maybe not take up as much of the social space as a man would
and in order to be considered good or ok looking i have to wear rly uncomfortable clothes and makeup??? yeah i don't do that anyway so it's probably not that much of a problem

what i want to say is that i act one way and people think i'm weird or i'm wrong for it but when i look at all my male friends they act the exact same way and that's considered normal
this is why i don't have girlfriends
i'm not good at being a woman

Gosh, this is so fucking relatable. My mom always gave me shit here and there for doing things that were "unladylike" to not having much girlfriends myself (unless they were real chill or tomboys themselves) since most of the girls thought I was weird for my tomboyish qualities. I was basically the Meg Griffin of my school or what you'd call one of the guys. Well, I'm sorry you feel that way and had to deal with that since it really sucks. It's mostly our society at fault for this, gender roles can honestly fry to a crisp in hell.