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Pitbull wrote:
I'll try to avoid making this long.
One of my friends girlfriend has started to literally hate me. Like to the point where he'll on purpose not tell her if we're attending the same parties, hang outs etc. in out friendgroup.
I'd like to specify that we've never and i emphasize on never, had anything going on. We're just friends, nothing more than that (and by thinking about that makes me want to pour acid in my eyes)
I asked one of the others if she knew why and she told me basicallY: that one party a long ass time ago, her girlfriend thought I was being flirty because we hugged like 2-3 times during that and for the fact that we talked alone for like 40 min. about my partner at that time because we had some issues - and they were very close friends - so i went to him since he already knew about some stuff.
I've honestly just tried to very welcoming to her. Like engaging in convos and just starting convos up where she can participate and try not to let her feel left out or alone. She seemed to have it okay with me in the start, so I don'r really understand it.
It's not like i text him 24/7 and spend loads of time with him alone. heck, last time i texted him was because he was late to a meeting and we wanted to know if we could start now or should postpone it.
I don't know if I should just try to talk to her about it? On the same time I have experienced when the girl best friend invades a relationship (and I have tried being cheated on before) so I don't know what to do.
I also thought about asking my friend if he could talk about it to her? But I don't want overstep any boundaries - and this whole thing i very uncomfortable for me.
I just don't understand what I've done really. I have not been flirty or anything, given that I was in a relationship at that time and for the fact that I'd never do such a thing.
I'll try to avoid making this long.
One of my friends girlfriend has started to literally hate me. Like to the point where he'll on purpose not tell her if we're attending the same parties, hang outs etc. in out friendgroup.
I'd like to specify that we've never and i emphasize on never, had anything going on. We're just friends, nothing more than that (and by thinking about that makes me want to pour acid in my eyes)
I asked one of the others if she knew why and she told me basicallY: that one party a long ass time ago, her girlfriend thought I was being flirty because we hugged like 2-3 times during that and for the fact that we talked alone for like 40 min. about my partner at that time because we had some issues - and they were very close friends - so i went to him since he already knew about some stuff.
I've honestly just tried to very welcoming to her. Like engaging in convos and just starting convos up where she can participate and try not to let her feel left out or alone. She seemed to have it okay with me in the start, so I don'r really understand it.
It's not like i text him 24/7 and spend loads of time with him alone. heck, last time i texted him was because he was late to a meeting and we wanted to know if we could start now or should postpone it.
I don't know if I should just try to talk to her about it? On the same time I have experienced when the girl best friend invades a relationship (and I have tried being cheated on before) so I don't know what to do.
I also thought about asking my friend if he could talk about it to her? But I don't want overstep any boundaries - and this whole thing i very uncomfortable for me.
I just don't understand what I've done really. I have not been flirty or anything, given that I was in a relationship at that time and for the fact that I'd never do such a thing.
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