Escobar wrote:Sobbing wrote:
maybe you should stop looking for relationships expecting them to fix you and work on yourself until youre happy with who you are, thus being less of a burden on your partners?
I don't expect them to fix me at all. I didn't look to get into a relationship with this dude, it just kind of happened. I would say I am happy, just suffering from the..."beauty n the beast" syndrome. It's kinda like I knew my previous partners had some stuff that I tried to fix you know??? Like I tried and gave myself 1200000% to help them with problems.
It's like I get weird when I don't have to do that - does it makes sense???
This is just rambling at this point jeez
then its something you have to work on with yourself imo, and if youre not looking for a relationship then break it off, no point in leading people by the nose