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Kit wrote:
me: "i'm stressed nd have a lot of deadlines this coming week so will be very busy, maybe better if we don't hang out all day so i can get work done"

them: "ohhh yes ofc let me know if i can do anything! i can pick you up some groceries or go over your work if u want? and we can make plans for later in the day so u can get work done beforehand!"

also them the next day: "hi i know it's 11am but i wanted to know your plans for the whole day already, and want to see if you want to already make dinner plans? i can maybe get groceries but no promises (read: in 3 hours i'll tell you i'm too miserable to leave my room and you'll end up having to get groceries in the pouring rain/50km winds). but yeah i don't know anything, won't be making any decisions! but if you can't commit to hanging out and doing groceries right now then i guess we'll just see each other another time, and also if this stressed you out at all you should feel guilty for making me feel like a burden sad"
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Date: 04-05-2021 13:17
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Kit wrote:
like. if i say i'm stressed and got a lot going on this week. you don't HAVE to offer to get me groceries. i can do it myself. the shop is 10 minutes away. 

but if you offer REPEATEDLY OVER THE COURSE OF MULTIPLE DAYS then it'd be great if you actually did it? or if you know you never feel up to getting groceries or leaving the house, maybe stop offering?
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Date: 04-05-2021 13:18
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Kit wrote:
friends who repeatedly offer help so that they seem like good people who contribute to your life and work but then whenever it comes down to it actually don't help / do the work / actually give a shit ? 

not me writing 1000s of words of feedback, suggestions, edits, etc. on this bitch's 2000 word essay and her just going "oh yeah i can read your thesis but idk if i will have any useful feedback bc i'm just too stupid and self-absorbed to get over my selfconsciousness and just give you feedback even if i'm afraid you think it's stupid bc that's what friendship is"
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Date: 04-05-2021 13:20
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Raquelle wrote:
You need new friends... or your friends need to grow a little
i hate that for you
you deserve the best!
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Date: 04-05-2021 13:52
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Kit wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
You need new friends... or your friends need to grow a little
i hate that for you
you deserve the best!
ty :' ) idk they're honestly great to hang out with and i love them but they're not great in a crisis or whatever yk. good when the going is good so to speak. also im terrible at asking for help 
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Date: 04-05-2021 13:55
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