Iotus wrote:
so my my bfs family is rlly problematic. dont get me wrong, its not like outwardly ignorant bigoted actually wanting minorities killed (cant rlly say that for his dad tbf minus the killing part man just drops the nword with a hard r way too fucking much) but its like they drop slurs as white people without even batting an eye lid. like today i met with one of them who dropped two Asian slurs and a transphobic slur that took me back but i just kept to myself because ive SAD no way ive the nerve to be calling ppl out. anyway, ive been able to tune it out till now because bad as it sounds its never really been any slurs i could be offended by like dont get me wrong i defo find it unsettling and ignorant being problematic but theyve not been anything ive i could personally be really offended by but today faggot and dyke were said a lot n it rlly just took me back to being in highschool just blueghh but i rlly couldnt say anything because im so anxious to even speak to them let alone confront them (they dont know my sexuality either). my bf knows they're problematic but hes sorta in the same boat as me about it. any idea how 2 deal with this
so my my bfs family is rlly problematic. dont get me wrong, its not like outwardly ignorant bigoted actually wanting minorities killed (cant rlly say that for his dad tbf minus the killing part man just drops the nword with a hard r way too fucking much) but its like they drop slurs as white people without even batting an eye lid. like today i met with one of them who dropped two Asian slurs and a transphobic slur that took me back but i just kept to myself because ive SAD no way ive the nerve to be calling ppl out. anyway, ive been able to tune it out till now because bad as it sounds its never really been any slurs i could be offended by like dont get me wrong i defo find it unsettling and ignorant being problematic but theyve not been anything ive i could personally be really offended by but today faggot and dyke were said a lot n it rlly just took me back to being in highschool just blueghh but i rlly couldnt say anything because im so anxious to even speak to them let alone confront them (they dont know my sexuality either). my bf knows they're problematic but hes sorta in the same boat as me about it. any idea how 2 deal with this



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