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omlll the audacity
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Iotus wrote:
okay so ive said my bfs fam r a little problematic before but theres is one sibling that i struggle with dealing with the most

now to begin with he doesn’t like me i dont think (just from looking at how he interacts with me n body language) and has made me feel extremely uncomfortable. first time we met he knew around new people i get really anxious (i have social anxiety disorder) n so im just quiet n speak when spoken to when i have to. he waited till my bf went to the toilet n started interrogating me asking why am so quiet (trying to basically force me to speak more than i was struggling to do already) with a smirk on his face. i was really really uncomfortable n he knew what he was doing n ever since i feel extremely anxious around him specially because i suffer from panic attacks i dont feel id be safe around him during those. he also went on a rant on how military people (he use to work in the marines) have more of a reason to be mentally ill and people who arent in forces as their trauma is actually traumatic?? like bro, the only difference between mine and an army dudes trauma is that i didnt sign up for it n get a payroll to experience it:). then he proceeded to shit on autistic people who are on benefits, which hit a little close to home because my mum is on the spectrum and has been on benefits before for good reason. the ignorance made me just want ooooout. plus, he asked me if i had an onlyfans? tbh i have ages ago but why even ask me that in front of ur brother who im dating? what 

anyway, a couple day ago my bf had his pals n his pals gf over. i am gonna call the guy n his gf Brad n Arse. turns out my bfs brother knew Arse in high school n surprisingly she was an arsehole. which is true. the whole situation started because my bf little sister (for context, her mum sadly died from cancer about 2 years ago so she looks up to any woman bigger than her) came to give Arse a flower n Arse’s response was to say “kids love me but i hate them aha” WHILE SHES IN FRONT OF HER. SHES 5!! so obviously my bf’s brother pipes up. now i am not going shit on him for putting her in place as she needed to know it clearly but this man at the the same time is quite built and rlly tall so obviously she seemed quite intimidated and scared so Brad stepped in to try diffuse it. now Brad has dwarfism. luckily, the brother didnt say anything to brads face but omg my bf was telling me the shit he was saying behind scenes. Brad has spoken to me about how hard it is dealing with dwarfism n other peoples comments about it so to hear really ugly insults directed at him is just sickening. my bf told him (and is dad) to shut up talking like that because Brad is a long time pal n he wont let shit like that slide. you can be mad and not an ableist cunt at the exact same time its not hard. but he continued to in messages?

im sorry but am i right to being as uncomfortable as i am abt this boys presence as I am? it feels im one visit away from being hate crimed or something. 
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Date: 07-06-2021 12:20 | Times changed: 1
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He sounds terrible. Would not want to be around. 
Date: 07-06-2021 12:30
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Iotus wrote:
Nesta wrote:
He sounds terrible. Would not want to be around. 
i actually dont like going to his dads because hes there i also do not want to be around him but ive no choice lmao
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Date: 07-06-2021 12:38
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Iotus wrote:
Nesta wrote:
He sounds terrible. Would not want to be around. 
i actually dont like going to his dads because hes there i also do not want to be around him but ive no choice lmao
You can tell your bf you don't want to be around him  like there must be a compromise to be made there about when, how long, how often, w whom present that you guys go there. 
Date: 07-06-2021 14:15
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Maddie wrote:
he seems like a piece of shit
can you maybe tell ur bf about how uncomfortable he makes you, and that you dont want to be around him?
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Date: 07-06-2021 14:23
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Ground wrote:
that's so messed up, what a fucking piece of garbage he is
sorry u have 2 experience all that!
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Date: 07-06-2021 14:25
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Iotus wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Iotus wrote:
Nesta wrote:
He sounds terrible. Would not want to be around. 
i actually dont like going to his dads because hes there i also do not want to be around him but ive no choice lmao
You can tell your bf you don't want to be around him  like there must be a compromise to be made there about when, how long, how often, w whom present that you guys go there. 
i usually just dont go most of the time to avoid any negative interaction n my bf is ok with it i think but sometimes i go up because i feel the need to show face? my bf kinda gets visibly annoyed when ive patched going up (he visits a minimum once a week) a few times in a row n he tells me his little sister asks for me all the time and i rlly dont want to upset her.
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Date: 08-06-2021 01:51
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Rouya wrote:
have you told your bf about the things his brother has said to you? bc that would probably make him understand why you are uncomfortable, and perhaps he could also speak with his brother about his behaviour towards you, so that you can be more comfortable when you visit in the future
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Date: 08-06-2021 01:56
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Pavlov wrote:
lmao is he a vp troll
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Date: 08-06-2021 01:57
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Pavlov wrote:
no but seriously these people sound like absolute crap is there any way to ignore them 
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:00
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Iotus wrote:
Maddie wrote:
he seems like a piece of shit
can you maybe tell ur bf about how uncomfortable he makes you, and that you dont want to be around him?
ive said what hes done and hes witnessed it too. he offered to say something to him but i feel it would make it worse because mental health comes into it and he will probably most likely shit on me because im not a veteran <3 so im basically stuck although i feel my bf may have said something because he seems to be way more off with me since that period where we spoke abt it lmao
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:01
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Iotus wrote:
Rouya wrote:
have you told your bf about the things his brother has said to you? bc that would probably make him understand why you are uncomfortable, and perhaps he could also speak with his brother about his behaviour towards you, so that you can be more comfortable when you visit in the future
hes been there to witness it tbh he also gets a lowkey shit from him too idk if there is any talking to him he just seems really stubborn in his outdated behaviour 
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:02
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Rouya wrote:
Iotus wrote:
Rouya wrote:
have you told your bf about the things his brother has said to you? bc that would probably make him understand why you are uncomfortable, and perhaps he could also speak with his brother about his behaviour towards you, so that you can be more comfortable when you visit in the future
hes been there to witness it tbh he also gets a lowkey shit from him too idk if there is any talking to him he just seems really stubborn in his outdated behaviour 
ah that sucks.... idk you could try to get your bf to tell him to back off? that he makes you uncomfortable and it would be nice if he could just tone it down a bit. seems like he cant get worse than he already is, so could be worth a shot. and if he gets worse, then you just have a reason to say that you dont want to come round anymore and your bf would likely understand
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:04
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Iotus wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
lmao is he a vp troll
i hope so lmao would be sm more understandable. imagine being the same age as me and having those opinions unironically
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:06
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Iotus wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
no but seriously these people sound like absolute crap is there any way to ignore them 
no sadly theyre a close family :/
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:07
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Iotus wrote:
sorry if i am online n dont reply btw trying to post abt this n not let my bf see aha
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Date: 08-06-2021 02:09
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