Heaven wrote:Claire wrote:Heaven wrote:
I feel so bad for the both of them, I feel bad that trisha reacts like this and stuff cus mental illness yes, and I feel bad that ethan was trying so hard to deescalate everything during their argument but it didn't work.. I think she really needs proper help and he needs to realize he can't walk on eggshells and try to be "non-triggering" w trisha cus whatever he does isn't going to be enough in trisha's case (not because of her conscious decision to get mad at him but the whole mental illness thing)
yes u didn't watch the episode but whateva re-read when u watch it uwuwuwu
he really wasnt though.
she was obvoiusly in a bad headspace before they even started and that was the point one or both of them should have said 'lets have a break this week'
and then at the end she realizes she need to leave the situation and asks him to end the podcast multiple times and hes just like 'ok go lol' but shes literally asking him to end the thing so she doesnt have to storm off and hes just like 'ok storm off' like ??? thats not deescalating that's knowing you get better views if she storms off and goading her into it.
sorry but he can't be responsible for how she is feeling really, she literally was saying that she wasn't feeling upset at all and when ethan was like "ok ok" she got even more upset oouff... I think ethan just doesn't realise how bad it is for her, I think he was trying to not make things so tense but it didn't work bc in trisha's mind everything is much worse than it is in reality (bpd yes), it's awkward to be completely serious about deescalating the situation when you're filming. they should just stop posting these episodes or cut it out r or something idk, but money is money ig
like the way i see it shes not actually capable of recognizing it herself which means the people around her need to be able to recognize when shes not well enough to film. it isnt right or fair or whatever but if you wanna work with someone who is as sick as trish is then you adapt or you just dont work with her because right now shes not capable of it herself. really moses should probably be the one who can say 'trish isnt in the best headspace today' but i dont think hes smart.