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how to date and scars (possible tw)
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kagura wrote:
okay i managed to get myself into dates and i really think this person might be something more than one dates, but well we will see that tommorrow
anyhow because i actually have hopes for this person not to be totally catfish or an asshole or just crazy, i kinda.. panic here now

i usually don't care that i have self-harm scars all over my body, i use t-shirts everywhere in public, school etc. i just don't care what people think
but now?? idk is that something you need to tell a person before meeting them?? like hey btw i hope you don't mind that my hands are mostly scar tissue??
it's gonna be +20 celcius no way i'm wearing long sleeves
lmao help
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ouch wrote:
Idk I've never had anyone care
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kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
Idk I've never had anyone care
this is just new to me idkkkk
most people don't judge or care but scary
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ThomaStanaccount wrote:
I wouldn't mention it. If they end up saying anything that would just show they aren't the right one for me.
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Limbs wrote:
i wouldn't say anything but don't cover them up either cuz it'll be weird if you keep it a secret. people have all kinds of weird body things, you don't need to warn potential partners about them beforehand
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thecellabration wrote:
personally i think i'd want to say something beforehand like, just a heads-up text or something to let them know. not rly invite conversation just say "hey just so you know" i guess?
but if you don't wanna do that just show up in short-sleeves tbh, it's fine
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kagura wrote:
Limbs wrote:
i wouldn't say anything but don't cover them up either cuz it'll be weird if you keep it a secret. people have all kinds of weird body things, you don't need to warn potential partners about them beforehand
yeah of course that's something that i would come up showing pretty quickly anyhow
but lol
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kagura wrote:
thecellabration wrote:
personally i think i'd want to say something beforehand like, just a heads-up text or something to let them know. not rly invite conversation just say "hey just so you know" i guess?
but if you don't wanna do that just show up in short-sleeves tbh, it's fine
yeah i would go with longsleeves first if it wasn't so fucking hot outside
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wug wrote:
i'd prefer if someone told me in advance ngl 
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Claire wrote:
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i'd prefer if someone told me in advance ngl 
its just it can be really shocking to see and if i dont know about it in advance i might make a face or say something that i wouldnt want to say just out of the shock of it
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Claire wrote:
like i know i've said shit to my one friend the first time i saw her arms without sleeves and it was like a big reaction like 'oh holy fuckng shit what the fuck' like it was rude as hell but seeinng her arms was like just scary and i just REACTED without having a moment to filter myself. if i had known before i saw i might have done a btter job filtering myself.
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ouch wrote:
Ig u won't know how he would react before meeting him, I never rlly think abt ppl having scars or not, and nobody has been weird or commented abt mine except one of my teachers (lol), but I mean he might react shockingly liek claire here or he might not react at all, I would guess not at all from just personal experiences 
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autism wrote:
It shouldn't be your responsibility to mention your scars beforehand
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kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
Ig u won't know how he would react before meeting him, I never rlly think abt ppl having scars or not, and nobody has been weird or commented abt mine except one of my teachers (lol), but I mean he might react shockingly liek claire here or he might not react at all, I would guess not at all from just personal experiences
yeah the weirdest reaction i have got is "are those real or just make up" by some random dude in my friend's birthday party
otherwise nothing really
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Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Ig u won't know how he would react before meeting him, I never rlly think abt ppl having scars or not, and nobody has been weird or commented abt mine except one of my teachers (lol), but I mean he might react shockingly liek claire here or he might not react at all, I would guess not at all from just personal experiences 
like the person and also the extent of the scarring. i'd had friends before this whose scars didnt shock me like that. this particular person had the most severe scarring i had ever seen and i was quite young at the time (like your age now).
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ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
Ig u won't know how he would react before meeting him, I never rlly think abt ppl having scars or not, and nobody has been weird or commented abt mine except one of my teachers (lol), but I mean he might react shockingly liek claire here or he might not react at all, I would guess not at all from just personal experiences
yeah the weirdest reaction i have got is "are those real or just make up" by some random dude in my friend's birthday party
otherwise nothing really
Yeah n I mean, its ok if he comments on them no?? As long as he doesn't say smth bad or keep pushing u if u don't wanna talk abt it. Just more like "oh u have scars" whatever bla bla bla
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