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is this guy creepy or nice
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bee wrote:
i was kinda having a thing with this guy about five years ago but it didnt work out since we were both young and immature. but we parted ways as friends anyways

in february he randomly messaged me asking me how i was doing and it was really nice talking to him again. we texted back and forth for about a month and even talked about meeting up sometime
in early march i ended up calling it off, i wasnt doing well and had to focus on myself. he was very understanding 
april 7 he messaged me again saying 'i still havent forgotten about you😊❤️'
and again june 16: 'hello❤️'
and again today: 'how are things?❤️' 'i miss having contact to you❤️'

i havent responded to him yet but i think i will later today, i just cant figure out if he is being creepy or nice lol

also note that i never wrote hearts to him and he only rarely sent one to me so that alone makes me feel kinda ehh
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:34
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
idk if it's creepy or nice, im more wondering that is sounds like u are mby only thinking about responding bc u feel pressured bc he keeps texting? like dude get a hint. the second time fair enough.. but writing a third time????? is it just air up in ur brain 
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:42
SweetLapis
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SweetLapis wrote:
Hm, don't know much about creepy or nice but seems quite persistent in getting more in contact with you.
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:45
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bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
idk if it's creepy or nice, im more wondering that is sounds like u are mby only thinking about responding bc u feel pressured bc he keeps texting? like dude get a hint. the second time fair enough.. but writing a third time????? is it just air up in ur brain 
yea lol kinda what i was thinking by creepy. he keeps writing without getting a response. maybe hes just really lonely lol
but i dont feel pressured from it tbh. i wanted to respond after the first time, i just didnt have the mental space for that if that makes sense 
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:45
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bee wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
Hm, don't know much about creepy or nice but seems quite persistent in getting more in contact with you.
i just dont get why,  im such a loser what does he want from me lol
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:47
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SweetLapis wrote:
bee wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
Hm, don't know much about creepy or nice but seems quite persistent in getting more in contact with you.
i just dont get why,  im such a loser what does he want from me lol
I've talk to you a bit in the past, but even I can be sure you ain't no loser. I bet your awesome, but you just don't realize it yet.
Maybe he's interested in you again? But I guess that a reach rn until you two talk more.
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:50
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kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
idk if it's creepy or nice, im more wondering that is sounds like u are mby only thinking about responding bc u feel pressured bc he keeps texting? like dude get a hint. the second time fair enough.. but writing a third time????? is it just air up in ur brain 
yea lol kinda what i was thinking by creepy. he keeps writing without getting a response. maybe hes just really lonely lol
but i dont feel pressured from it tbh. i wanted to respond after the first time, i just didnt have the mental space for that if that makes sense 
aahh okay, well then i think u can respond, what do u loose from it, even tho the three messages r a bit weird, but if the creepiness keeps going u can always cut him off 
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:53
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kagura wrote:
well i wouldn't say that's creepy, like you haven't told him you don't wanna keep in contact? i mean sure he could have started with something else than "i still haven't forgotten you" but anyway
just tell him if you don't want him to send messages to you. people deserve that instead of just ghosting 
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:58
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bee wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
bee wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
Hm, don't know much about creepy or nice but seems quite persistent in getting more in contact with you.
i just dont get why,  im such a loser what does he want from me lol
I've talk to you a bit in the past, but even I can be sure you ain't no loser. I bet your awesome, but you just don't realize it yet.
Maybe he's interested in you again? But I guess that a reach rn until you two talk more.
ah thank you for the kind words :')

i bet hes interested in me again like that, kinda the vibes i get from him. we'll see where it goes...
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Date: 22-06-2021 21:59
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bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
idk if it's creepy or nice, im more wondering that is sounds like u are mby only thinking about responding bc u feel pressured bc he keeps texting? like dude get a hint. the second time fair enough.. but writing a third time????? is it just air up in ur brain 
yea lol kinda what i was thinking by creepy. he keeps writing without getting a response. maybe hes just really lonely lol
but i dont feel pressured from it tbh. i wanted to respond after the first time, i just didnt have the mental space for that if that makes sense 
aahh okay, well then i think u can respond, what do u loose from it, even tho the three messages r a bit weird, but if the creepiness keeps going u can always cut him off 
yes true, i responded to him and hes nice talking to anyways so why not. guess i will just be a little cautious  
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:00
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SweetLapis wrote:
bee wrote:
SweetLapis wrote:
bee wrote:
i just dont get why,  im such a loser what does he want from me lol
I've talk to you a bit in the past, but even I can be sure you ain't no loser. I bet your awesome, but you just don't realize it yet.
Maybe he's interested in you again? But I guess that a reach rn until you two talk more.
ah thank you for the kind words :')

i bet hes interested in me again like that, kinda the vibes i get from him. we'll see where it goes...
Same same. Hopefully things between you two don't get awkward or just uncomfortable in general.
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:01
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bee wrote:
kagura wrote:
well i wouldn't say that's creepy, like you haven't told him you don't wanna keep in contact? i mean sure he could have started with something else than "i still haven't forgotten you" but anyway
just tell him if you don't want him to send messages to you. people deserve that instead of just ghosting 
yea no matter what i wouldnt ghost him like that. ive always planned to respond when i got the energy to do so 
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:01
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kagura wrote:
bee wrote:
kagura wrote:
well i wouldn't say that's creepy, like you haven't told him you don't wanna keep in contact? i mean sure he could have started with something else than "i still haven't forgotten you" but anyway
just tell him if you don't want him to send messages to you. people deserve that instead of just ghosting 
yea no matter what i wouldnt ghost him like that. ive always planned to respond when i got the energy to do so
good! i understand that very well, sometimes it's just better to keep distance from people
and messaging can be burden

but what i was just trying to say, it's can also be very burdening when people doesn't replay you even when you know that they struggle with something. or especially then, because you start to think if they are okay and is there something wrong between you etc..
so i always try to at least say i'm okay and i'll answer better when i can
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:06
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ThomaStanaccount wrote:
neither, he just seems desperate.
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:11
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Alam wrote:
I don't think he's being creepy but he's definitely not being nice, he's just being annoying.
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Date: 22-06-2021 22:15
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