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Clegane wrote:
He drinks like 5 beers + usually some other alcohol a day, haven't seen him have an alcohol free day even once
and idk if he "needs" it but I'm definitely worried he's turning into/ an alcoholic

But how tf do you suggest someone drinks less without making them feel bad/weird or making it uncomfortable for him 
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Date: 17-07-2021 10:34
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autism wrote:
suggesting someone to drink less will always be uncomfortable and make people feel bad and weird
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Date: 17-07-2021 10:40
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Clegane wrote:
autism wrote:
suggesting someone to drink less will always be uncomfortable and make people feel bad and weird
Grrrr

But I don't just wanna leave it at that 
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Date: 17-07-2021 11:52
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Maxwell wrote:
My friend just told her bf like "helo if u keep drinkin this much and this often Im gonna have to leave u"

Seems to hav worked so far lmao he gettin better
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Date: 17-07-2021 12:21
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Marlene wrote:
well 1 idea is to do it in a sneaky way  like buy alco free beer and pour it into a glass

or you could just tell him and ask him if hes ok 
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Date: 17-07-2021 13:30
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Rouya wrote:
Marlene wrote:
well 1 idea is to do it in a sneaky way  like buy alco free beer and pour it into a glass

or you could just tell him and ask him if hes ok 
i agree with the last part, just tell him you've noticed how much he drinks and ask if he's ok
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Date: 17-07-2021 13:32
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meilin wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
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Date: 17-07-2021 18:01
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kagura wrote:
yea. tell him that you're worried about him and also how this impacts relationship between you two 
it's not nice to tell people about their drinking, because yea they might get very defensive and mad. so go easy and nice about that 
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ouch wrote:
Sera wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
Yes 5+ beers plus other alcohol EVERY day is alcoholic I would say 
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Date: 17-07-2021 18:04
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Rouya wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sera wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
Yes 5+ beers plus other alcohol EVERY day is alcoholic I would say 
yes i forgot to say in my reply that i also think he's already an alcoholic unfortunately
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Date: 17-07-2021 18:45
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Ground wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sera wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
Yes 5+ beers plus other alcohol EVERY day is alcoholic I would say 
exactly !
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Date: 17-07-2021 18:51
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wings wrote:
Sera wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
yep
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Date: 18-07-2021 23:46
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Barbarella wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sera wrote:
switch the roles

tell him that his drinking habits make you uncomfortable and worried

but let's be real

he's already an alcoholic
Yes 5+ beers plus other alcohol EVERY day is alcoholic I would say 
Deep into it, I'd say. 
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Date: 19-07-2021 00:33
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Lolinontot wrote:
ask him about how he's feeling and tell him that you're there for him. Usually people tend to take to drinking as a coping mechanism to deal with emotional pain.  Without talking about it or even really coming to terms with his own emotional struggles, it won't end well.
Just make sure that once he opens up; don't come with ideas on how to "fix" his situation and don't make fun of his emotions, just listen to him and show that you're there.

You don't have to directly adress the drinking, just make it a habit to ask him how he feels, and maby even encourage him to say how he feels by you yourself telling him how you feel. Just about anything!

just let him know that his emotions and feelings are valid. 

And also suggesting him to come with you to therapy might also be an idea to consider, usually people tend to be scared to go alone, but therapy is really really helpful in order to get to understand ones own emotions more clearly.
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Melody wrote:
yeaa... seeking for drunken state is already alcohol abuse and doing it constantly def marks him an alcoholic i'm afraid. i've tried to help my parents for years as they're both quite deep into it... mom's gotten a lot better and dad's done some progress. they both stated they "need" it to deal with painful shit. i haven't called 'em alcoholics straight to their faces but i've expressed multiple times i'm both worried and scared for/of them
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scoff wrote:
5 beers a day? wow sounds like my ex
nothing good's ever gonna come out of that HONESTLY
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Date: 19-07-2021 10:08
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